Baby, can anyone tell me what to do

Friend, you still have a way to go.

Why do you want to make friends at **? It's very simple, because friends can help you with things that your relatives can't help you.

We, no matter what the environment, should strive to grow and be cheerful and optimistic.

So, you can't just leave it like that.

If you're a good kid, think about what your friends from your former school would do if they knew you missed them now? Of course it's happy. But what would they do if they knew you were like now?

In order for you to be able to get together in the high school entrance examination, you should work harder.

What's the big deal about a few years apart. If it's a friend, it's a friend for life. Isn't it?

There is also a person who has only one life. I know that you value your friends and this hard-won friendship. But it shouldn't be that way. Again, that's the same sentence. If it's a friend, it's still a friend at the ends of the earth. So, you have to keep trying.

What difficulties are you encountering? Roll call me to the information to add me... Detailed answers to help you··· Including suicide... Issue.

If you think too much and give you two months, you will get used to it, but now you are too young and don't know how much energy you have, and this mood will slowly become shallow.

Brother, it's better to die than to live, you have to understand that there is almost no one in this world except your relatives, believe in yourself, seize the last few months, get a good score, I am waiting for your good news. If you are alone, others will look up to you. If you can't go back, you won't go.

Brother is optimistic about you.

Suicide? Of course not! Believe in yourself, in addition to dying, living is more meaningful, what you can do, what you can bear.

The following methods should be used to adjust the symptoms of disobedience: 1. Actively analyze why the child is disobedient, such as whether it is the instruction issued by the parents, the behavior itself is wrong, or the words are insincere, and do not set a good example for the child, or the child is rebellious, enters puberty, and has a sense of independence. 2. Parents and children can be friends, but the premise is mutual respect and active communication, express their feelings to each other, express their thoughts about each other, parents have ideal child performance in their hearts, and children also have ideal parent images in their minds.

If the child is disobedient, it is necessary to carry out reasonable scientific persuasion and enlightenment. In the process of growth, with the enrichment of knowledge and the development of intelligence, children's contact with the outside world and cognition increase, and they will begin to judge and think about various things. Therefore, sometimes there will be a certain deviation, and at this time, adults should give appropriate guidance and explain reasonably.

And we must always lead by example, and teaching by example is the best role model for children, so that children can be truly convinced.

At this time, the child's intelligence is developing, growing, and there is some rebellion during this period, and the parents objectively praise his behavior and then point out the wrong place, so that the child can accept and remember your teachings! Scolding can only exacerbate the rejection of children!

Children have their own ideas, and naughty mischief is also a common thing, and hitting can't solve the problem. What's more, it's a 4-year-old baby. Or calm down and analyze why the child is like this, and listen to what he has to say.

It is normal for children to have a rebellious personality, find out the reason for the child's temper, take care of the child's emotions first, and he will naturally not lose his temper for no reason.

Your baby, he will be attentive, when you need to slowly and patiently tutor him, so am I, my baby is also four years old.

It is necessary to teach with the heart, to persuade and educate

The child is now in a time of curiosity, and sometimes it is not impossible to satisfy him.

Our baby has had this situation before, but his fingering behavior is divided into situations. In our family, if he is concentrating on doing things, he may not respond to you immediately, if his mother calls, he may respond to you, if it is someone else, he really doesn't hear it. I was also confused at one point, this is not the way to go, it has no respect for the rest of the family, and in the long run, it may make the child feel that no one else in the family is important except for the mother.

That's when I realized how serious this was happening.

Change requires all aspects of the matter, and the results need to be patiently waited.

1. Self-reflection.

After the child appeared in this state of screaming and not responding, I actually subconsciously reflected on it, because this is what I usually do, especially when my father calls me, I will be arrogant and not respond, in fact, this subconsciously gives the child a bad impression. Let your child think that it is okay not to respond to other people's calls, and let your child think that this is the right thing. Later, I also made a change from myself, and every time someone called me, I deliberately responded loudly, no matter whether the impact I brought to the child was the main factor, I would try to change.

2. Corresponding punishments.

At first, I was verbally corrected in the face of this kind of problem, because I didn't want to interrupt his rhythm when he was focusing on something, but then I found that the situation was getting more and more serious, so I directly blamed him harshly, but this kind of thing can not be corrected overnight, in fact, the age of three years old is not up or down, and some of the child's receptivity is not as strong as we imagined, so the effect of hard accusation is not great, and he can only know that his mother murdered him, and the reason may be remembered, or may not be remembered.

3. Get used to life.

In the process of parenting, I will choose to train for a certain item in stages, just like this question called not responding, during that time, this problem is the object I focus on observing. I will carry this question through to every possible opportunity to explain to him whether this is wrong, including storytelling in the evening, including bedtime chats; Try to tell him what to do to be respectful, and sometimes I think he may not even understand what "respect" is.

Summary: There will be unexpected situations at every stage of the child, and the words and deeds of our family members will become an example for the child to learn, good or bad, he has no ability to distinguish, and for us we can only find and correct in time. This is a problem that needs to be addressed slowly, and being too anxious will only do more harm than good.