Her family wants a gift, what should I do? My family wants bride price, what should I do?

In fact, this is very normal, it is a custom to ask for a bride price, as a parent, you want your children to be happy, you should understand the woman, it is not easy to raise such a big girl, if you really like this girl, you should do it according to the meaning of her family, so that there is sincerity, besides, this bride price will return to your family, that is, it will give you money to the man, this is just a formality. You also said that her house is far away from your home, which makes the old man even more uneasy, you should think about it from the bottom of your heart, don't you want your girlfriend for this 10,000 yuan? Think twice.

Is it money or people that matter.

It may be their local habit. But it still depends on you personally, you think this person is what you identify, and there is nothing to be depressed about, but, of course, let your parents go, you will feel uncomfortable. But in the city, it should be the man's family who takes the initiative.

Under the adjustment of mentality, think carefully and clearly, there must be a difference between the ideological education in the rural areas and yours. Are you really a good fit?

Do you want a bride price after the house is bought? Isn't your house for her? Rural people still know money, what seven aunts and eight aunts want to invite, they don't have self-knowledge, they can't get on the stage at all, her rural people can find a condition like you, they should be content, and there is a house and an urban hukou, what else do you want?

Yes. Someone married your daughter to you.

Girls may rarely be with their parents in the future.

Their family is also someone who wants to see their daughter live together in the future.

Also, it is a custom to ask for a bride price, which is for relatives and friends to see.

It is usually given to you as a dowry.

There may be more, for example, if you give a financial gift of 10,000 yuan, they will prepare a dowry of 20,000 yuan.

When you get married, the woman's family will definitely come.

So you have to go first, it's a matter of etiquette, if the man doesn't even want to go over.

How can I trust the girl over there to you?

You tell your parents, and your parents will understand.

I am in a similar situation with the landlord, and now I am also worried about getting married, which is actually something like this will happen to everyone who is about to get married, so don't be sad, this is also a test of your relationship with your wife, and at the same time a test of both families, to see if the other party's parents can understand your difficulties at this time, of course, you also have to understand each other, anything about marriage is possible to discuss, you must talk about it publicly, don't be stuffy in your heart, bless you.

People are with you! Do you still care about 10,000? It's a matter of etiquette and customs! Give it! I wish you all happiness!

Customs, slowly adapt to slow communication.

You've asked this question.

Talk to your girlfriend about it.

There's nothing that can't be solved.

Of course, marrying a daughter requires money.

I'm in the United States, and my sister has to take 3w333mj or 6w33 to get married.

From the bride price, you can best see the attitude of the other party's family to you and the character of the other party. Because there are not a few people who break the bride price, the marriage that the parents agree to is not necessarily happy, but the marriage that the parents do not agree to is difficult to be happy, they have experienced more than us, and the eyes of people will be more accurate, so you still have to listen to the opinions of the family.

If your parents want a bride price that is even lower than the average bride price level of your marriage, then you have to consider it more carefully, 1. It is not very desirable for a woman not to want a man's bride price when she gets married, that is to say, when you get married, you have to charge a certain amount of money from the man, no matter how much the bride price is given, this is a form, just like the three media and six hires in ancient times, which can also reflect the importance of the man's family to the woman's messy bright party, so the girl must receive the bride price when she marries herself.

2. Talking about the bride price alone, he directly reflects that the man attaches importance to the woman, if the man's family is very welcome to the woman to join their family, then the bride price will definitely be given, which is also an important form of welcome.

3. And we all know that most of the woman's parents will let their daughters bring the money to the man's house in the form of a dowry after receiving the bride price, so the bride price will eventually go to the newlyweds, as family funds, to help a new family.

4. And for the bride price, we should be more inclined to a form, which can measure whether the man really loves the woman, if the man is not even willing to give the bride price, how can the woman be happy after marriage?

Summary. Good evening, my dear, we have spent all the money that your mother gave us. It would be right if we used our money in the right way, such as what we should spend. Or maybe it's a necessity.

Good evening, dear, let's spend all the money your mother gave us. Zhengzhen would be right if we used the money on the right path, such as what we should spend. Or maybe it's something that Zheng has to spend.

No one. If we use it for gambling or something else, that's not right.

My dear, how come there is no one? Isn't that a question for you?

So where do we spend our money, buy the food that the children love and I love, and add furniture to the house.

Beloved, this is also used in the right way. Then we are using the right money.

It's a good job.

When your mother-in-law encountered difficulties, you discussed with your husband in advance and gave you 1,000 yuan. It's a beautiful job.

I think that in the future, this kind of thing should be discussed by husband and wife first, and then acted.

It is very taboo to handle this kind of thing alone, and it seems that sooner or later you have to give money, but after two people discuss it together, the effect of handling it together will be better.

After discussion, your husband will not resist in the future.

If you take it upon yourself to send the money to your mother's house and then discuss it with your husband, he will feel that he is being slighted. Does he think it's not okay to give me a **? I'll give a lot of points.

This face must be given to him.

It is a good practice to be able to act only after consultation.

You yourself should also trust your husband, and it is very necessary to discuss the big things of the family with him. In the future, you should be more generous when something happens to his family, and don't pick and search. Otherwise, he will think that you are generous to your family, but not generous to our family.

The relationship between husband and wife is the trust that is slowly built up by mutual respect and mutual concession.

If the other party's financial strength can afford it, you can convince your boyfriend and tell him that this bride price is a foreshadowing for your life in the future, and that the young couple needs the support of the elders in the family when they are just starting to live, and the money is not for your parents, but for you.

If the conditions of the boyfriend's family are really unaffordable, you can tell your parents that as long as you find the right person, you can earn more money in the future, and it is not the amount of the current bride price that proves whether the man is promising, and for the sake of a longer-term future, they each take a step back, so as not to get married in the future, and the in-laws will be unhappy about this matter.

More importantly, as a parent, the mood of marrying a daughter is more complicated, and it is not only looking forward to her daughter finding a good home, but also reluctant to let her daughter marry a wife, worrying about family affairs all day long, and you must comfort your parents at this time and don't let them be sad. It's definitely not good to be stiff, whether it's you or your parents, they're elders after all. As younger generations, we must get the approval and blessing of our parents in this kind of life event.

Finally, I wish you a happy marriage!

You haven't married yet, but you're going to outsiders?? Have you ever thought about why your parents want so much, one is that they should have so much according to the rules, and the other is to let your in-laws' family pay more attention to you in the future, and if you don't seem to be taken seriously, and if you ask for a bride price, your parents haven't saved it for you?

Even if the man gives all the bride price demanded by your family, and you are also married, just to give the bride price in the first place, the man goes to ask relatives and friends to borrow it, or loan sharks and the like, you have to pay it back after marriage, right? You just tell your family that you can't let you pay back the money as soon as you marry into the man's family!

You have to look at his family's situation.

You tell your mother that you are marrying a daughter, not buying a daughter.

It's true, it's not about selling a daughter, the most important thing is what kind of character the man is, as long as he is good, don't be too deliberate about the gift money, just be suitable.