Emotional help in the face of principles can not be changed How can we be together

Alas, it was very helpless, but at the beginning I chose to insist, and after a few years, my family didn't have any opinions, but in the end I didn't agree, because I didn't think it was suitable, it was too young at that time, and it was too simple to think. But the love is very real and pure.

It's an adult, make sure that each other's love is not playing, it's true love, then stick to it, don't care if they don't agree now, as long as the kung fu deep iron pestle is sharpened into a needle, as long as you have perseverance, you are sincere, then you use your sincerity to achieve their satisfaction, if you are in place, they will not disagree, this kind of problem can not be solved in a day or two, you have to use your current fire heart to sharpen the iron pestle, and it is so hard to get together in the future must be good to her, Otherwise, why do you get her, it's so hard.

Hang on. You are doing well, and they agree. Their opinion doesn't matter either! The key is that you feel happy and beautiful!

Blessing and blessing!

Men, you must work hard, and when you are rich and powerful, you will naturally agree. Adults just hope that their daughters can marry better and have an easier life in the future. If you can do it, the adults will agree! Let's fight hard! Come on!

You can buy a house closer to their house, and tell his parents that you will live there after you get married, so that your wife will marry again, and you will be very happy together, and your wife will feel that you love her very much. I think that's a good idea. As for what happens after you get married, it's not up to you.

Although I don't want to admit it, I'm actually a little afraid of marriage. Because of the shadow left on me by my parents' failed marriage.

When I was young, I often felt very miserable. At that time, I had a big dream of family harmony, but even I thought it was impossible, and then I wanted to run away from home.

The person I love the most, the quarrels day after day, the irreconcilable contradictions like enemies, and the divorce every once in a while, make me particularly insecure, and gradually my personality has become a little withdrawn, introverted, and I don't like to talk about Gao Min.

I'm afraid of arguing, so I can't accept that my partner will have nothing to do to fight with me. I think that two people have the same three views together, and the compatibility of personalities is really the most important, because if the personality makes Nian Cong inappropriate, even if they are reluctant to be together, they always need one party to back down, and this accumulation to a certain extent will eventually break out into conflicts.

And marriage, not only marriage, including the relationship with children and parents, in fact, needs to be managed, and on the premise of comfort, we must also be attentive and use methods to find the most suitable mode of getting along.

In fact, the contradictions between my parents are getting deeper and deeper, and now Tanying can explode in any small thing, I think it is the accumulation of contradictions over the years, and the resentment between each other is related. At the beginning, in fact, no one wanted to develop to the current state, but later, I analyzed that it was also related to their respective personalities and thoughts, because if I were replaced, I wouldn't be able to quarrel at all.

So, character is really important. Because it's a factor that's hard to change.