How to make yourself more dragged. More temperamental. Graded? Ask for details. Be accurate. Be real

High society focuses on moral character. However, in reality, the upper class focuses on economic strength, so some scholars say that there are many rich people in China, but there are not many upper class people!

The so-called people of the upper class must not only have economic strength, but also the hardware that ensures their elegant and calm life. On the other hand, it is necessary to have a noble personality, be well-educated, understand etiquette and so on.

China has only scratched the surface, and the hardware is there, but the software seems to be far behind. Some people will also have some superficial skills, but it is inevitable that they will be said to be pretending to be 13.

If you really want to, then I tell you, it is not easy for a person to rise from one class to another.

One: Must have a skill.

Two: You must use second-line connections, because most of your first-line connections are the same as you, and they have no use value, only friends.

Friends can use it to help you leapfrog.

Three: If you are a student, you should study hard, strive to get into a good university, and in the future, you will return to the so-called upper class.

Four: If you are a big beauty and have the opportunity to marry into a wealthy family, you will also enter the upper class.

Everyone has a social circle, don't deliberately make friends, the upper class is rich and powerful, to put it bluntly. These people generally only make friends with people who are beneficial or useful to them.

Go to the bank and withdraw some money, then buy a fashion magazine, pack yourself according to the outfit in the book, and then try to talk as much as possible on the scene, talk less, and don't mess around.

What age do people do what age things.

What the occasion, what to do.

Landlord, you have to understand these two points, then you can start to exercise your bearing.

Let's talk about steady, steady, quiet and solemn; Calm and measured. The steadiness of high school boys is different from the steadiness of other ages, and it is necessary not to let teenagers grow old and live for centuries. You should be at any age, and you can't be old-fashioned.

The steadiness of high school students can be manifested in not being in a hurry when encountering things, and finding a way to solve them as soon as possible, rather than messing around with everyone. Specific exercise can be used in ordinary times when you encounter more urgent things (such as losing your mobile phone), ask yourself to be calm and restrained, think of a way, the more chaotic, the more calm and think of a way. Long-term persistence, stability and naturalness.

Let's talk about generosity. The generous one is not cheesy; Uninhibited also. Generosity is self-confidence.

A confident person is naturally generous, and he will not be tied up, but will be free. Another aspect of generosity is your thinking, thinking about problems and doing things from a big picture, if you always think about some trivial and angles, then even if you are confident, you can only be a generous obscene man.

Then say aura. Aura refers to a person's personality, words and deeds and the formation of personal charm, with a strong personality factor. The aura is not learned, this thing emphasizes personality very much.

You have to have your own style. Ling Hu Chong has a free and bold aura, Xiao Feng has a heroic and masculine aura, and Duan Yu has the aura of a handsome son. If you are a high-flying person, you don't have to deliberately cultivate a down-to-earth and steady aura; If you are a cautious and cautious person, you should not cultivate a free and uninhibited aura.

The key to aura is that you find the outstanding characteristics of your personality and then temper them until you can influence others. Influencing people is important. If you can affect yourself, that's called personality, if you can affect a few people, that's called temperament, and if you can affect a large group of people, that's called aura.

Actually, it's very simple, these three words are explained separately, and they are all available in the dictionary, but this is what I have to understand, I don't know if it's right.

Generous: do not be informal, do not care, and turn a blind eye if you do not touch the principle issue

Steady: When encountering any difficulties, deal with them calmly, you can maintain a flat state of mind, will not babble, and maintain the connotation and demeanor you should have on any occasion

Aura: When you do the first two points, I think your aura will have, of course, a woman's smile is very important, and your own connotation has a good demeanor

It's easy to say this, it's hard to do it, it's mainly perseverance, and have a good attitude, and I've been trying to do a good job of what you've been making lately. Discoveries are actually a step-by-step effort, to accumulate to do this, because girls of any age are different, I've just turned 20 years old, and it takes a lot of experience and social experience to do this, but every step you take is laying the foundation for your future self

First of all, I think women should always be confident and keep smiling! These two points are very important, and it is very important to keep smiling and confident at all times, and then you have to read a lot of books to enrich yourself, and when you have connotation, you will naturally be more confident! Then don't rely on men, you must have your own independent opinions and positions, you can listen to the opinions of others, but you must know how to screen reasonably and be an independent woman!

Of course, I think what I ask myself every day now is not to get angry, not to complain about ...... constantlyThis is also important. If you have any unhappiness, you can write it down with a pen, but don't vent it on the spot

It is not so easy to be such a generous, decent and stable woman, it is not achieved overnight, it must be accumulated slowly and slowly ......Don't worry, when you can face everything with a smile, I think that's the time.

I'm also working on it, let's work together, and recently I've watched a lot of experiences of foreign female stars, because I've just turned 20, and I like and admire Emma Watson, everything about her is perfect, and at this age, I think you can find some female objects that you like to admire, and watch some of their experiences to motivate yourself, even if it's to imitate them, it's helpful for you to be good!

Internal conditions: First of all, be confident! This is the premise and the key, without which everything is a bluff and a fierce inward-looking. If you're a man, just watch the documentary, and if it's a woman, think about it, think about everyone's lady, the eldest lady or the queen!

External changes can also change you dramatically.

1. Dress as simple as possible and have a sense of quality. It's not that you can't be fashionable, just don't take the Japanese and Korean route, you are not a cream boy, a beautiful man or a sweetheart. Take the European and American route, you are a silent, introverted, gentleman or powerful new woman with infinite power in your heart.

When you need an aura, wear dark-colored clothing. Wearing a large watch or accessory can also increase your aura.

2 Intonation Tone Speak at a moderate volume, but be clear. The tonal ups and downs should not be too large. Keep it gentle. Speak more affirmatively, positively, and less with words such as ah, bar, ah, ah, etc.

3 Body Language Slow down your movements by half a beat, and if you slow down, there will be a calm, calm atmosphere. But remember, slowly, but your actions are overall efficient.

That's all, in fact, the use of the magic is in one mind. To be generous, you must first be an open-minded and broad-minded person. If you want to be stable, you must first be a person who has experienced waves and tempered, so that you can have thunder in your belly and face like a peaceful lake.

If you want to have aura, you must first be a person who believes in yourself and is extremely strong in his heart. Train yourself slowly in those ways, and don't be upset or yourself if you can't do it perfectly. Age, experience, self-improvement.

will teach you naturally.

Generous: The behavior is not cheesy, not pretentious. The behavior is unrestrained and upright.

Steady: Calm and mature, thoughtful when acting, not rash, and thoughtful.

Aura: It refers to the temperament shown in front of others.

This can be done from both the inside and the outside. First of all, generosity, stability and aura seem to be a manifestation of the outside of the person, but it is actually a manifestation of inner self-confidence, so you can't do things in a hurry, so you can be humble and modest, that is, try not to be indecisive because of small things, and not to be tied up by small things is generous. You can't do things as you want, you have to think more, look at problems from different angles, don't be confused by superficial phenomena, and think carefully, you will appear steady and calm.

First of all, you must have self-confidence, believe that you are the best, raise your head and chest when walking, boys should stride naturally, can not twist and pinch, speak loudly, do not flinch, have a bearing, meet people who are stronger than their own ability to be humble or arrogant, and people who have a gap with themselves can not make them look at it, to respect each other, there will be an aura and bearing. Then there is the need to dress naturally, if you are a student, don't dress up exaggeratedly, so that you can match your identity and give people a sense of unrestrained and natural.

What you're saying doesn't seem to be useful in your current position and environment! Why can't I figure out how you should think of a high school student with this idea? Do you want to pick up girls?

But let me explain it to you, generosity means that no matter what the occasion, you can be unrestrained, not timid, but not rude, and have a fight with demeanor! Steadiness is mainly reflected in words and deeds, speaking cautiously, not saying brainless words, being calm in case of trouble, thinking twice before acting, too much. If you have aura, you can throw it away, now the society is not very popular, and the old foxes now carry forward the low-key life and high-profile work.

Landlord, whether you agree with my point of view or not, I still have to say that these three things you want are not something you can cultivate now, and when you can exude these from your body, you are already a successful person!

To be generous is to have confidence in yourself, making people seem to have a special temperament; Steadiness is a sense of security and maturity that you give to others; Having an aura is a matter of dress, words and deeds. If you want to be confident, it is not difficult to raise your head and chest, close your abdomen and shoulders, and add a charming smile, everyone will think that you are very confident; Steadiness is to dress maturely, and to behave in a way that is not too retarded and naïve; If you have an aura, you must dress neatly, you can't look around, it's disrespectful to others, and if it's at a drinking party or wedding, you must pay special attention to your clothes, tie, posture with a wine glass, eating posture, etc. Hope mine is helpful to you.

Good luck!

To be generous, steady, and aura, in fact, the difficulty is really high.

The first thing you need is temperament, and those who have studied ballet will look very different.

If you don't have time to learn dance, it is recommended to take a course on etiquette. Classes are usually taught about standing and things like that.

After practicing in the world for a long time, it seems that there will be a natural temperament.

In terms of aura, I personally feel that I need to have a wide range of knowledge, and I have the confidence to go out with knowledge. The aura will be there.

Whatever it is, it takes time, and it doesn't mean that you will have it right now. It's all about your perseverance.

Cultivation is manifested through a person's attitude, personality characteristics, words and deeds towards life and things. Temperament, externalized between a person's gestures. The gait of walking and the demeanor of dealing with people are all temperamental.

When friends make friends for the first time, they look at each other and immediately have a good impression.

As the old saying goes, a humble gentleman is as gentle as jade.

Therefore, the most important thing is not to be too violent, too extreme, or similar.

Hysteria. This kind of practice. This involves the cultivation of plain people. We must avoid anger and jealousy, be able to endure humiliation and humility, be able to understand the general situation, and be caring and considerate of others.

Forbearance is not silence, let alone resignation, without assertiveness. On the contrary, a cheerful personality often reveals an awe-inspiring demeanor and is more likely to show inner emotions. And people who are full of feelings, of course, add more style in temperament.

To have temperament, it is very important to have self-confidence and full of energy; If a person is cowering and despicable, it is impossible to have a temperament. But self-confidence is not conceited, empty-eyed or empty-eyed. Confidence is "I can do it!"

The conceit is "just do it!" ”。At all times, we must face everything generously; When encountering things, they will not back down, of course, this does not mean that they have to succeed.

Manners and actions should also be relaxed, courteous, natural, and not pretentious. Emotions can be stable, and the elegant point is not to be happy with things, not to be sad with oneself.

If you have the conditions, you should also pay attention to your dress, the quality of the clothes should be better, and the overall match should also match your own style.

Of course, the above are all ordinary temperament cultivation, and there are some different types, such as.

Qiao Feng is so heroic, it makes people break their hearts at first sight. But these are all special types, and their own personalities are naturally formed, and it is too difficult to cultivate them specifically.

But no matter what, you must be confident, fair, generous, and principled.

Hope you can adopt, thanks!

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