The starting point is low, and the family conditions are average, how to counterattack?

Rely on school, rely on a good university, and get into a 985 school Another way is to do business, but doing business really requires brains. Which of these two paths is easier for you to choose? The former, of course.

Life is not easy, birth can never choose, since you can't be born with a golden key, and you can't get a good hand, then you can play the seemingly "tattered" bad cards in your hand beautifully, is the awesome person.

1. Indestructible goals.

At every stage of life, we unconsciously set a goal, big or small, which pushes us forward all the time. I have a friend, when he graduated from college, he was determined to buy a house for his parents, so that his parents could enjoy their old age, and after getting their salary for the first time, they made a small deposit and withdrawal, and the accumulation of a year had a little principal, and the second year turned to ** regular investment, and now she is thirty years old, and she has used this money to pay the down payment for a new house.

Second, the determination to fight to the end.

Without the wealth of the rich second generation, without the background of the second generation of officials, although we are ordinary people who lose at the starting line in the eyes of others, so what? Do the little things you can, stop complaining, complaining and prevaricating at work, complete every work arranged by the leader, and do every project with your partner, you will find that our situation is not so bad, life is like Pandora's box, there are always unexpected surprises.

3. Surpass the strengths of others.

You can't swim, you can't draw, you can't sing, you can't dance, it doesn't matter, as long as you can write, have ideas, and write your own opinions, it can be an article, it can be a poem, the process of writing is to talk to yourself, and the process of accumulation is the process of discovering your strengths. I know an author, who fell in love with Lantian, she wrote her story of falling out of love into a long article and posted it on Douban, and was officially found to be a signed author, and now she switched to the Internet and finally achieved freelancing through writing, and now she lives as the envy of others.

Fourth, a positive and optimistic attitude.

You may say that I don't have a good job right now, my family is not good, my life is confused, I don't know what to do, I can't do anything, I don't have anything. In fact, these are not things, they are all the first time to be a person, what the future life will be like, no one knows, the worst situation has been seen, what can scare us, if you can't do it, just when the sun rises, sit in the sunny room, empty yourself, feel the sun, you will touch the warmth, and then pack up your mood and start again.

What about a bad hand, one day in the future, we will thank ourselves for the terrible situation we are in now.

I don't know if you have watched the second episode of the fourth season of "Extreme Challenge", the whole theme is about "knowledge changes fate", the first 2 3 I laughed back and forth, but when I saw the last 1 3, I cried.

After the show, 1 3, the Extreme Men Gang went to Chongming Middle School and set up a game to interact with the senior high school students.

The rules of the game are roughly like this: all the senior high school students stand on the same starting line, and the six questions set by the director team in turn, "yes" will take 6 steps forward, and "no" will stay in place.

The six questions are:

Did your parents have a college education or more?

Have your parents ever hired a one-on-one tutor for you?

Whether your parents let you continue to learn a specialty other than schoolwork and maintain a certain level at the moment

Have you ever traveled abroad

Have your parents promised to send you to study abroad?

Since you were a child, have you been the pride of your parents, and have your parents always shown you off in front of relatives and friends

Seeing these problems, not many people must be able to say "yes", right?

When everybody is done, you'll see that the gap is really noticeable. I saw that the children who had never taken a single step, their faces were a little nervous and a little overwhelmed.

At this time, Huang Bo said:"The reason why you are on this line has little to do with your previous efforts"。

It's not just the starting point that determines the finish line.

Some people will definitely say that people with good congenital conditions have a higher starting point than those ordinary people, and the more resources parents provide, the greater the child's development potential, and the easier it is to succeed than others.

But then you look down.

In addition to Yixing, the five members of the Extreme Men Gang also took these questions in turn. However, I cried after reading it. Except for Honglei and Xiaozhu who said "yes" on the last question and took 6 steps forward, Huang Lei, Huang Bo, and Wang Xun didn't even move a step, and several amateurs in the think tank had already left them behind.

But can you say that the five of them were unsuccessful?

Honglei's family is poor; Little Pig lost his father at an early age, his family was poor, and he was slandered by rumors in his early years; Huang Bo has been working hard in various song halls in his early years, worked as a resident singer and dance coach, and finally was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy when he was almost 30 years old; Even if the family environment is good, and his father is a national first-class actor, Huang Lei, didn't he stand at the starting point and didn't take a step?

What you can see is only their brilliance, that era is not as good as now, and only they know how much bitterness and effort they have put in behind it.

What does the starting point decide? It doesn't seem to be decided. Because everyone's starting point is never the same.