I m 20 years old, but my parents are starting to get along, and I m in a tendency to divorce, what s

Your father's suspicions, while unfounded, are not unreasonable, and people who travel for tourism or business are prone to extramarital affairs.

Your father is so suspicious, but where is the evidence, is there a **? Is there any other man's hair? Perhaps he has wronged your mother, and your father has gone too far, but he must be your father.

Help your mother do what she can, take care of your mother with your father, and when your mother is well, then tell your father to let him think about it, don't talk nonsense if you don't have evidence, the words are said, not only is it not good for yourself, it is not good for anyone, if you can't stand it, go to a friend's house for a few days, let your father think about his mistakes, don't affect your personal studies and happiness because of family things.

I think it's better to talk directly to your parents, you're 20 years old, and it's not good to find relatives. Your mom helps your mom, and your dad helps your dad. It's good to be honest about something.

You may not understand the things of adults, maybe you think that you are not small, you are also adults, but the world of two people, the third person does not understand, as your daughter, you should treat your parents as a bridge for each other, and give some memories to mention.

You are already in your 20s, and you are no longer a child in the eyes of your parents, so you might as well act as them"Bridging people"Discuss this issue with them, not only in a few years, but you will also get married, and if you can succeed this time, you can also learn from it how to maintain harmony between husband and wife, I hope my little advice can share your worries.

Your father ......It's too suspicious!! You're already an adult (at least older than me), and your mother is being bullied, so you should protect her instead of just watching her emaciated.

If it really doesn't work, forget it, marriage is based on mutual trust, and since your dad no longer trusts her, ......

Go and talk to your grandparents, you think you can't say it, and you don't really have it, just say it.

Find your relatives and friends to help.

You can find evidence for your mother to clarify, you are so old now, and I don't know what to do if these things are replaced by me

Legal Analysis: Parents can also divorce if they do not agree, and parents cannot interfere in their children's marriage. The principle of freedom of marriage is a fundamental principle of marriage law.

If both a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. If the parents do not agree to the divorce, they can first negotiate with the parents, understand the feelings, move the reason, and try to resolve the family dispute in a peaceful way.

Therefore, even if the parents do not agree to the divorce, the parents cannot prevent the dissolution of the marriage with their spouse. Specifically, there are two ways to dissolve a marriage. One is a litigated divorce and the other is a registered divorce.

If an agreement can be reached with the spouses, the marriage can be dissolved by registering the divorce. If it is not possible to negotiate, you can use litigation to realize the purpose of divorce.

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members without suppression; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates a divorce lawsuit, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

1.It is generally not possible to choose not to live with either parent.

2.Fathers and mothers have a legal obligation to raise and educate their children.

3.If you have reached the age of 18, you can not follow either parent or mother.

1. Who has custody of the children after the divorce.

First, children under the age of two generally live with their mothers. If the mother has any of the following circumstances, she may live with the father:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them;

2) There are conditions for raising children who do not fulfill their obligation to support them, and the father requires the child to live with him;

3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons. Where both parents agree that a child under the age of two lives with the father and does not adversely affect the child's healthy development, it may be permitted.

Second, for children who are minors over the age of two years, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one of the parties may be given priority if they have any of the following circumstances:

1) Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons;

2) The child has lived with the child for a long time, and changing the living environment is obviously not conducive to the healthy growth of the woman;

3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children;

4) The child lives with him/her, which is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child;

5) The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparent for many years, and the grandparent requires and has the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

Thirdly, if the child is a minor who has reached the age of 8, the views of the parents should be taken into account in the event of a dispute between the parents regarding the daughter living with the father or the mother. On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the child, where both parents agree to take turns raising the child, it may be permitted. After the parents divorce, the decision on which party the children live with is generally based on the principle that is conducive to the healthy growth of the children.

Legal Analysis: The minor's parents are the minor's legal guardians and bear guardianship responsibilities.

Legal basis: Article 18 of the Civil Law of the People's Republic of China: Guardians shall perform guardianship duties, protect the ward's person, property, and other lawful rights and interests, and must not dispose of the ward's property except for the ward's interests. Guardians exercise their guardianship rights in accordance with law and are protected by law.

Where guardians do not perform guardianship duties or infringe upon the lawful rights and interests of their wards, they shall bear responsibility; Where Lu Chi calls cause property losses to the ward, the losses shall be compensated. The people's court may, on the basis of an application by a relevant person or unit, revoke the qualifications of a guardian.

Legal Analysis: When the parents divorce, children who have reached the age of 15 can choose which one to live with according to their own wishes. The law generally respects their personal wishes.

If the child has reached the age of 18, the payment of child support may be stopped. However, if the parents are receiving education below high school or are unable to live independently, they still have the obligation to continue to pay child support.

Legal basis: Article 1067 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where parents fail to perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Article 1068: Parents have the right and duty to educate and protect their minor children. Where minor children cause harm to others, parents shall bear civil liability in accordance with law.

13 years old - say big is not big, say small is not small. However, I have found that today's children are smarter. In particular, children with discordant families are more precocious.

Judging from the fact that you want to "take your younger brother alone", you are a sensible child with courage and responsibility. However, after all, he is still a child. Uncle gives you the following advice:

1. Calm yourself down before deciding. Otherwise, in a hurry, a lot of the questions you think can go wrong. Find a place where there is no one first, and think about it for yourself, whether you have fallen into a misunderstanding.

You think: instead of thinking about who you are with, try to reconcile with your parents. In fact, reconciliation between parents is your brother's greatest wish.

Well said. So let's start from now on, let's not think about who we have been with? Let's start by thinking about how to reconcile them. Hold your horses! Even if the court decides a divorce, there is still the possibility of remarriage. So, let's first consider the possibility of reconciling them.

Step 1: Give yourself confidence.

First of all, don't give up on the possibility of reconciling them. If you don't have faith, you won't think of a way, which is tantamount to giving up the possibility of reconciliation with them. If you have faith, you will try again and think again.

Step 2: Give yourself courage.

You're only 13 years old, and your power is really limited. However, I found you to be courageous. Very good. If you were given a way to "reconcile husband and wife" now, would you dare to do it? If you dare I teach you again: how to give yourself strength?

Step 3: Give yourself strength.

1. The power of science and technology - you can go to "Du Niang" here for consultation, which means that you know more about computers and the Internet. So, you start changing the content of the question now. Replace "with whom have I been" with "how to reconcile husband and wife".

Continue to ask "Du Niang" for advice on "ways to make husband and wife harmonious?" 2. The power of family affection - your parents are currently devoting their energy to "divorce". Don't look for them yet.

Look again to see if there are any relatives who care more about you. Let them help you. As for what to do for you?

Talk about that later. You use the power of affection first. 3. The power of ** - you ask your relatives to take you to the local area**.

They don't care, it's up to you to decide. You tell them, "If you don't care, I won't have a home, so I'll have to find a **."

4. The power of ** - if it is supported by TV, WeChat, and Weibo. Your capacity will be amazing. 5. The power of experts - if the above methods do not work, ask your relatives to help and send your parents to Tianjin TV - Love Defense Column Group.

Although the uncle answered the question, he also had to do it. Uncle is in his 50s, and I really don't want to see you and your brother lose their family.

You are not an adult, you are not able to live independently, and a guardian will be appointed by law.

You're only thirteen years old.

Or minors.

The court will award it to you.

One parent brings one.

I want to kill myself. Let my parents and younger brother live a little better.

I'm in the same situation as you, I don't have a brother.

Hey, I have to follow one, my brother has to be taken care of!