I especially want to be alone but not a lover .

I also have a lot of you like, but it's not quite the same.

After all, it's hard to talk about this kind of thing.

You have to really like him if you want to be with him.

Then you should contact him more.

The better you have with him, the better your chances of being with him.

But if he's going to have a girlfriend, he's better off giving up.

I wish you happiness.

Memories and nostalgia are a normal mental activity of people, everyone has it, you can often recall the good times, and often recall the bad times, because life is yearning for perfection but imperfection. Let it be.

Happy to you! ~

No one has tutored me.

There is no woman in her life.

Envy. If I were him, he would run after you.

It's a pity I'm not hehe.

Let's get back to the point, landlord, let's pass the past If you have a fate, you will meet Your misunderstanding will be resolved If you don't have this fate, just treat your experience with him as a dream.

Not everyone who is a friend can always do it to the end, and there are times when they can't be friends.

After so many questions, I was moved by this question

Yikes

Everyone has something to think about, but what is past should be past.

In fact, if you just treat him as a brother and friend, it will be very sad to lose contact.

There are four reasons why I always want to be alone and don't want to fall in love:

The first is that I don't need feelings, and it doesn't matter if I have this kind of thing, so I don't mention it!

The second is that I have been in an unforgettable relationship before, but the stage I am at is a point where I have no desires.

The third type is amazing, thinking that I have been moved, and I have tried to chase someone, but the object I met is either in love or feels unattainable, so I give up. I never dared to take another step beyond the thunder pool, or I was humble to the bones, and I didn't dare to try to go further, so I could only get by.

The fourth is probably the stage when you have experienced some things, figured out some things, and felt that feelings were originally a matter of peace and natural success, rather than the stage where you have to find a companion. ps: Such a person is the most difficult to chase if he can't meet the right person.

may have been hurt and did not dare to start again. Or they are more introverted and reluctant to go out socially.

If you have been hurt in a relationship, or have been deeply hurt by someone。It is indeed more difficult to get back up, and then build a sense of trust and acceptance with others. Trust is something that can not be built in a day or two.

Everyone is in the process of getting along for a long time, and slowly, they begin to rely on others and trust others.

Now the environment is not very good, there are too many scumbags。A lot of girls panicked and felt that boys were not reliable. For the sake of his own life, it is better to live alone.

Xu Guoli's case and Lin Shengbin's case have sounded the alarm for many girls. Many people have come to a conclusion from Xu Guoli's incident that the second marriage is not reliable. But Lin Shengbin is not a second marriage, and he doesn't seem to be able to trust it!

Some girls are more introverted, feel that their conditions are not good, and have feelings of inferiority. I don't want to go out to socialize, I don't go out to make friends. At 3 o'clock every day, I feel that I am living a good life alone, and there is no need to go to others to block myself.

In fact, it is the inferiority complex that is causing trouble, and you are not as unbearable as you imagined. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, give full play to their own strengths, and show their good side in front of others.

I think it's very normal for a person to have such thoughts in a short period of time. Every person is an individual, and it is not necessary to socialize all the time. When you encounter something, you need to calm down and think.

However, it is better to come out of this shadow and go out socially. How are you going to live your own life? Of course there is a choice.

But I think if it's perfect. It's better to have a partner, then get married, have children, and support each other until old age. Lonely to old age, it's not impossible to be a dink, it always feels not so perfect.

Because I'm used to living alone, I don't like to be disturbed by others, so I don't want to fall in love with others, and that's how I am.

This is normal, it may be that you have been alone for a long time, so you will have this kind of thought, you should go out with friends to play more, meet more friends of the opposite sex, and it will change slowly.

It may be because you are living well in your own life, there is no financial pressure, no one bothers you, and you live a happy life alone, so you are reluctant to fall in love with others.