What s the biggest problem you re having right now?

When I ran away from home, I hadn't graduated from high school yet, I didn't know my professional skills, I didn't want to serve dishes and wash dishes, I bought a bunch of fritters, noodles, fish and cakes every morning to eat for a day, and drank raw water from the tap in the mall. The limit is to eat a large apple with insect eyes at the end of the day.

Now should really be the most difficult time for me, standing at the crossroads of life, I am incapable, and I am in debt, mental and financial pressure, I really don't know what will happen in a few months, what will happen to me in a year.

When I first worked, I was a payroll specialist, and at that time, we were still paid on the 15th, and I calculated and audited the salaries of nearly 1,000 people by myself. My salary has basically been completed, however, I don't know which store's ** has the virus, and in the few minutes I turned the ** on, the data of nearly 1,000 people in my salary table, the formulas that have been made, have all become numerical or garbled.

After graduation, I jumped from the internship company to a small start-up company, the company's location was near the 13th line, and the salary was 4500 a month, and in Zhongguancun, I thought it was very good, but a month later, I learned that the actual salary during the probation period was 3000 of 80, and the remaining 20 and 1500 had to be turned into a regular one. Now that I think about it, I was really stupid at the time, renting a house in Beijing plus water and electricity costs 1,500 a month, plus food or something, and basically nothing.

I majored in computer science in college, but I didn't study at all. Although the IT industry is very popular now, the competition is also fierce, so there is still a threshold for dry technology. This year I have worked in operations, technical support, salary 4,5k, and I almost can't see the future and feel hopeless.

I feel unusually lost in the uncertainty of the future, and I often spend it in regret for wasting time in college. And I was born in a rural area, and as a graduate of a key university, I am burdened with the expectations of the whole family, and in reality, only I know how many catties and taels I have. I am often embarrassed by the five-figure salary of my classmates.

When the child is two years old, I will talk about my feelings. Bringing up children and accompanying them to grow up, although it takes a lot of energy, time and a lot of things to do, but the process is very happy, not very tiring, and not difficult. The difficult thing is to deal with the complicated family relationship after the birth of the child, and the difficult thing is to cover the baby with a five-layer thick quilt with a high fever of 39 degrees, and the baby is not allowed to feed the medicine when he is sick.

When I was a freshman in high school, I was admitted to the experimental class of our school. Because I didn't go to military training during the summer vacation, I didn't know my classmates very well. When it came to the beginning of school, I was introverted, didn't like to talk, didn't like to be in the limelight, and my best friend in junior high school was in a class at the time, but he still didn't talk to me much.

I sit alone in the last row every day.

I am currently in what I think I am in the most difficult state at present, the compulsory internship arranged by the school, the graduation certificate will be delayed if I don't go, coming, telemarketing, hundreds of ** out every day, working overtime at night, not going to calculate the deduction of money, working overtime on Saturdays, sitting in the office looking for ** information, not counting absenteeism for a day to deduct money, I don't want to do it for a month. The welfare treatment here is really good, the second line of the province, the pace of life is not fast, the company is covered, and the salary is 3k.

The main problems faced are promotions and salary increases, and there is less communication with the leadership and other staff. When communicating with others, we do not have a good grasp of communication skills, encounter difficulties, and do not know how to communicate with leaders and colleagues for help. 2. The situation is not comprehensive, detailed enough, lack of learning, and needs to be improved at the theoretical level.

You can't face problems and difficulties at work, and when there are difficulties in your work, you should avoid the idea of problems. 3. When emotional, there are too many things that tend to wait, uncontrollable processes. The work attitude is impetuous and unbalanced, prone to extreme situations, and cannot work with a normal mentality.

4. Have a keen sense of observation of the tasks assigned by the leader, do things badly, think clearly about the stuffy things, and think about things clearly. Although they are basically able to complete the tasks assigned to them by their superiors, they feel powerless and lack motivation to work in the face of difficulties. 5. Lack of flexibility in working methods.

Autonomy, even if it is self-righteous, is not good at absorbing the opinions of others, has poor ability to play on the spot, hesitates to deal with problems, especially economic problems, is not flexible enough, and the methods are not adequate. The competition to expand the current career is very fierce, and if you don't have a lead in your own industry, I'm afraid you will be eliminated. The difficulty is to be able to stay on the job for so long.

There are too many problems and difficulties in practical work. It depends on how you face them and whether you are able to fix them. You don't see it as a problem, you see it as a challenge to yourself, as long as you have faith in yourself and believe in your abilities, there is no difficulty.

Work is the embodiment of a person's value, and it can also enhance a person's value, and it is also a guarantee for us to send friends to work. When you encounter difficulties at work, don't give up easily, after all, work is one of the important parts of everyone's life, and we must seek ways to solve it.

The most intuitive manifestations during the period of distress are:

Sleep at night with insomnia - easy to dream - go to work with bloodshot eyes - no enthusiasm for work - no strength to speak - don't know what to do on rest days - stuck in a dead loop.

Exercise at night - Sleep well - Have good spirits - Greet work with a smile (learn to get along with the good things around you) - Go out to climb the mountain on your day off (friends have dinner) - Always maintain a learning mentality (reading; Learn skills) -- if you don't give up on yourself every day is a state of decadence -- you will slowly get better and be blind.

Then the so-called troubles, anxieties, and intractable diseases of life will be hidden in places that we can't see.

Sleepy and sick come to nap and sleep a lot.

Some people show drowsiness.

Others are anxious, insomnia, or emotional.

I'm most afraid of work :

1. Words and deeds are inconsistent, and the leaders are not the same colleagues.

2. Leaders can't treat every colleague fairly.

3. Quarrel with unfamiliar colleagues, in order to survive in the office.

3. I am most afraid that the leaders will sing white face and red face.

4. Colleagues who are most afraid of poor teamwork skills.

5. I am most afraid of the unsatisfying greed of the leader.

6. I am most afraid of leaders who don't know how to pretend to understand.

Tell me how I overcame it.

I tried my best to get out of the old company environment and learn into the field I wanted to enter. During this period, I studied at home for 3 months, day and night were reversed, and my schedule and rest were a little disordered. But I don't regret taking this path.

I met a lot of lovely friends. There are also admirable and respected mentors. began to step into the regular, although his time has become less, but he will not choose to be angry and pessimistic all day long.

If you can't change anyone, then change the environment. I believe that people can change their destiny through hard work. I am most afraid of self-righteousness and misunderstanding in the workplace, which affects work efficiency. Share a few of your own workplace stories:

1.There are many sensitive topics in the workplace, among which salary can be counted as one, and I didn't have any experience of "being cautious about issues involving treatment, communicating more, and transposing more", but I just thought it was very reasonable, until there was an internal policy adjustment, which was communicated and paraphrased in the way of WeChat, and was adjusted without being confirmed, and the information between the two sides deviated, resulting in worse consequences.

2.Attendance is a routine job, and routine to every HR encounters. Although the entry level is not high, but it is very rigorous, after all, it is an important basis for paying, and it is implemented within the system, and the instructions outside the system can be handled very well, which is only in an ideal state.

Until one of the verification process, the problem of unauthorized modification of attendance was exposed, and his ideal perception was broken.

The thing that bothers me the most is that I don't have money because I can't buy what I want and can't live as I want.

If I don't borrow it, it will affect the friendship between the two of us, but if I borrow it, I will be very tight, and I don't know when he will pay it back, and I am embarrassed to open my mouth and ask him.

I think the thing that bothers me the most is that I still haven't found a partner so far, and my family has been forcing me to find a partner, otherwise I'm going to go on a blind date.

My husband is a heavy drinker and gets drunk every day ......I see it in my eyes and I am anxious in my heart. But I can't find a good way to get my husband to quit drinking, which is what bothers me the most at the moment.

Should I go to graduate school? This is the most troublesome thing for me at present, the number of graduate students has increased, and it has become a single-plank bridge, professional materials, but I don't like it, but I don't know what I like, I feel that I have been grinding in the society for two years before I know what I need to do, and it is not too late to go to graduate school at that time.

In fact, the most troublesome thing is that I feel very lost and helpless in the face of my boyfriend's breakup.

The thing that bothers me the most is that. Should I continue to work hard and try to make myself stronger? Because it's so hard?

Maybe it's money, because life is inseparable from money

The most difficult thing I encountered was that I had no money, I couldn't solve a lot of problems, I couldn't do a lot of things, but when I had money, I didn't dare to do it, which was the most difficult thing.

The most difficult thing I've ever encountered is when we can make our family happier, so we have to succeed through our own efforts.

Hello, the most troublesome thing is that you like each other, but you are very unhappy when you don't get a response.

The most troublesome thing I've ever encountered is to say, well, my boyfriend and I are always separated, and we should find a way to be together.

The most troublesome thing I've ever encountered is that what I want to achieve is what I want to do, but it doesn't work out.

The thing that troubles me is that my head is always dizzy, I can't find a job and I don't have money, so it bothers me a lot.

The most distressing thing I've ever encountered is that people don't help me when I'm in trouble.

But I think the biggest thing about Kuaishou is probably because we don't want to understand each other, that is, I think the main difficulty is yourself.

I think the most troublesome thing I've ever encountered is that I don't have any money to use, and I feel very irritable.

This may be a bad sleep, which should be a more troublesome thing.

The main reason is to encounter this two situations that are more difficult to choose, generally speaking, this is the case, so it is okay to say that there is such a difficult situation, and it can be handled.

The most troublesome thing is that I see him and miss him, but he doesn't want you.

I think there's a lot going on, and it's a lot of money for us.

What's the most troublesome thing you've ever encountered? Everyone encounters the most troublesome things, and they must be faced calmly.