How can a friend who hasn t seen him for many years say kind words

1. How to chat with old friends who haven't seen each other for years.

Friends go together for a lifetime, those days are no longer there, but there is no banquet in the world, some friends are together, even if they are intimate, there is still a day of separation, and some people sometimes have decades or more than ten years of separation, but it is not easy for friends to meet each other, and most of them have changed their personalities and work habits, so how to chat with old friends who have not seen each other for many years?

1.There must be a sense of re-acquaintance with this person. As the saying goes, Shibei should be impressed for three days, not to mention that it is more than 10 years?

Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, who knows what will become of everyone's situation? In any case, we all have the awareness of this precaution, and we can't look at this person with the same eyes as when we met him many years ago, otherwise he himself will be very disgusted.

2.Think on the bright side, but also look at the merits. In fact, this is also the criterion to be maintained when getting along with most people, to put it in layman's terms, that is, to look at the advantages of more optimistic places, so that everyone's life will be a little better, and if you can't determine his character, then don't think about him with old concepts, think on the bright side, even if he is not good, he will change and restrain himself because of what you do.

3.Look at the way he behaves. In fact, it's similar to looking at the behavior of ordinary people, but for old friends, we will more or less wear a layer of colored glasses to look at each other, to see if he is honest and innocent to people like the beginning?

Have your habits been tainted with worldly vices? More than the ordinary people you've seen.

4.Treat you like a new friend. How do we usually treat new people?

Polite? Sincere? Enthusiastic?

In fact, like this old friend who hasn't seen him for a long time, he actually mutters the same thing in his heart as you, and he also wants to see if you have changed? Then the simplest, most troublesome, and non-offending way is to treat people like new friends.

Friends who haven't seen each other for many years, needless to say kind words, should ask how they have lived all these years. How the body should be more for some, so care.

I haven't seen each other for years, and I feel a little redundant to make some kind words. With friends you haven't seen for many years, you should communicate about your previous friendship and think back to the beginning.

In this way, you can increase the friendship between you and bring the friendship between you closer. Of course, politely, the words are to say that it is a matter of matter or where to go, and then say these things.

The so-called kind words are also to meet and ask for warmth and the like. But what really makes you communicate is the renewal of friendships between your classmates or friends. That's the most important thing you need to say when you meet.

I haven't seen a friend for many years, but if I do, I feel very close. Bring your friendship closer through communication. I feel like that's the main thing.

Let's talk about homework, I haven't seen each other for many years, there should be changes between the two of them, if there is no unfamiliar embarrassment, there will be a lot of words, and I am not afraid of not finding a topic. ，

It depends on the depth of the friendship.

Just to put it mildly, it's not that difficult.

Long time no see! How's it going?

I haven't seen my relatives for many years, how can I say kind words when I meet.

Hello, there are 1 polite words with relatives, ah! Isn't this my second uncle, I haven't seen you for a long time, how are you lately? 2. Yo!

Cousin, I guess I haven't seen you in over a year, are you still taking care of children lately? 3, Uncle Yinyan Chun, I haven't been with you for a long time, where are you making a fortune now? 4, Aunt Da Xiangmin, I haven't seen you for a long time, everyone is usually busy, and I don't care about contacting you if you have a mobile phone!

Are you still farming at home? 5, aunt! You and your uncle-in-law are all right!

We are busy all year round, and it is rare to see each other, so let's have a good chat! 6. Yo. I've finally met you, my cousin, Sister Feng Nai!

I always hear my mother talk about you, and I heard that you have changed to a good unit, right?

You don't have anything to say, it's normal. After so many years of separation, everyone has experienced different things, lived in different environments, and of course, when they met, they didn't know where to start, they didn't know what to say, as if there was a generation gap, there was no common language, and there was nothing to say. After a long period of contact, the strangeness between the two parties will be eliminated, and there will be something to talk about.

May your friendship go further!

Maybe it's just a process, after all, after not seeing each other for so long, there is a little bit of a sense of indifference to each other, and getting along for a few days or more together will be the same as before.

It's still a bad relationship1 If the relationship is good, it's that if you haven't seen each other for a long time, you have something to say 1

Friends who haven't seen each other for a few years can talk about changes, children, work, interesting things, or talk about other friends.

1. Talk about change.

A friend you haven't seen in a long time will definitely change a lot, and everyone should be able to feel this. If your friend hasn't changed much, you can say that after all these years, he's still so young and hasn't changed much. It's a great pleasure to say that.

2. Talk about children.

Friends who haven't been in touch for a long time may have already embarked on the marriage hall, and the children can play soy sauce, so you can chat according to this situation.

3. Talk about work.

When friends meet, they will inevitably talk about work at work. But the topic of work is sensitive, and if the other party's work is not good, it will lead to great embarrassment.

4. Interesting things.

As a friend, you must have had a great time together before. At this time, everyone will find it interesting to talk about things from the past.

5. Talk about other friends.

If you want to chat with a friend you haven't seen in a long time, you can talk about other friends and quickly get closer to each other. <>

Are you happy? Humorous jokes are said. Let the other person feel that you are very easy to get along with.

Is it a little more casual in terms of wrenching?。。 A little sunshine. If you're dating, let's talk about yourself first.。。

Remember.. Girls are usually a little shy, and you have to talk more about light topics. Warm up the scene.

The woman will also give you a score.

I haven't seen my wife for a long time, so let's hit ** in general. Between husband and wife, will two months make you strangers? Isn't it natural to hug and ask if you're tired or not.

Humorous jokes are said. Let the other person feel that you are very easy to get along with. Is it a little more casual in terms of wrenching?。。

A little sunshine. If you're dating, let's talk about yourself first.。。 Remember..

Girls are usually a little shy, and you have to talk more about light topics. Warm up the scene. The woman will also give you a score.

Wish. Very cheesy dialogue: Long time no see. I miss you all the time. Or, oops, why are you so ugly.

It might be better not to speak, but to smile.

I haven't seen you in a long time, remember who I am? "—It must not be said, how can a lover not remember in half a year? Is that still a lover? Unless there is a lack of heart.

How are you doing? How are you doing? —barely making a living, but it's still not appropriate, don't you think it's not a lover to ask like this? Invisibly, the distance has been widened.

I think, don't talk, it's better to go up and just hug than anything! Really, a hug can solve many, many problems.

In fact, you don't have to deliberately design anything, you will naturally have something to say when you meet, and if you don't say it, he will also say Ah, boys should be more active, I hope they are happy

There is nothing to say about seeing each other every day. Let it be, isn't it awkward to find something to say? Probably the most talked about is the things in the class, because you all know and have common topics.

Don't be too entangled, just chat normally The main reliance is... Be sincere.

Hey, remember what we did when we got drunk...

If he were alone, I might have said that I hadn't seen him for a long time, or I might not have said it, depending on who he was with.

I understand how you're feeling right now. Very good friends have not been seen for a long time, in addition to caring about the situation of friends, everyone should remember to ask about the situation of friends and family, so that friends will feel that they are valued. The news that my friends have often posted recently is the topic that my friend likes or pays the most attention to right now, so you can talk about these things as you like.

In the case of a boyfriend or girlfriend. You can talk to your friends about your boyfriend or girlfriend, these should be your friends' favorite topics. But you should be careful that these are only those who take the initiative to talk to people with whom you have a good relationship.

Friends who haven't seen each other for a long time, if they have been thinking about each other in their hearts, in fact, there is no barrier when they meet again. What to say when you meet is not something you should worry about at all. My college roommate and I hadn't been in touch or seen each other for a few years since we graduated, and when we met again many years later, we were still the same as before, but not like before.

We both remember the best of each other in our hearts, so that when we meet, we can not worry about anything, we have experienced certain social tribulations, and we have also understood the diversity of life, we are all trying to understand each other, and we no longer ask of each other as before. Some relationships that don't need to be contacted and maintained again will not meet again in the end, because these are destined things, and fate will naturally meet again.

The best state is to be yourself, treat each other well, don't ask others for anything, and wish your friends a smooth life. Those friends who used to be not particularly close to each other were actually just simple greetings when they said goodbye. Friends who haven't seen each other for many years, the feeling of going back in time but really not going back when they meet again is a bit sad.

However, this sadness is particularly valuable, after we have experienced many things that have been almost numb, the old feelings allow us to still have a simple and beautiful thoughts.

You don't have to be deliberate when you meet, just express yourself with a sincere heart, and if the other party gives the same response, then this beauty and true feelings can be preserved forever. If the other person does not give the same response, then we also understand that there is no need for us to be sincere, and everything is just a matter of fate.

Now in the ** development? How's life going? There's time to get together.

It's good to find a topic at random, we haven't been in touch for a long time, and no one knows each other's lives. Let's talk casually to get closer to each other first, and then decide depending on the situation.

I can only talk about what has happened in so long and what has happened since the last time we were separated.

We should greet each other and ask how we have been doing these years, how our lives have been, and how our work has been.

I really can't think of what to say for a while, and in short, this kind of feeling should not go back to the past.

It's been a long time, how are you doing, is your work going well.

I thought I could ask the other person how they were doing lately, and then ask about the relationship.

Just talk about how we're doing with each other, or maybe you can talk about friends you both know.

Maybe the opening line is "It's been a long time, how are you doing?" This kind of start allows the other person to start the conversation at will!

I haven't been in touch for a long time, and at the beginning I just exchanged pleasantries, asking him how he has been doing lately? When the conversation is over, you can talk about some interesting things in life.