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Actually, you shouldn't be too upset. The more you expect from someone before you fully understand them, the greater the disappointment you may be. Of course, you may be better than his girlfriend, so if I can be with you, it will be best for him.
But when your parents don't allow you to be together and want you to be separated, he will go to another girl. However, when he knew that you had a chance to be together, he immediately dumped that girl and pursued a better you, indicating that for him, a girlfriend, or a wife, is just a life partner. Maybe in the future, when he finds a better girl, maybe he will betray you.
This kind of person doesn't understand love, there is no need to be sad for him, let it go when it's time to let go.
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You mean, after he reconciled with you, in order not to make the girl who came after him sad, he should break up with you and be with that girl??? Don't you want to be with him, but you want everyone not to be sad, and after he broke up with the girl, you hate him again, don't you feel hypocritical?
On the one hand, I love him to death, yearning for pure love, but on the other hand, I don't have a firm position with Ben, and I am indecisive, so you are really a little selfish.
Why don't you want to think about whether you have considered his feelings, you have been separated from him several times, you are so swaying from side to side, no one will feel that you are safe, men also have a sense of security. Do you still hate people?
I also want to ask why I betrayed you, why don't you want to think about the pure love you yearn for is also to be paid and maintained by you, just push everything on others, and start hating without getting what you want, if you really love him, think about what you should do, and if you can't stand it, leave.
Don't say that the feelings are not to say that you will leave without saying anything, otherwise it will be even more unbearable in the future.
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Such a man doesn't know that you're sad and understands the landlord's pain, but your boyfriend is too irresponsible, a rotten person who likes the new and hates the old, and plays tricks on the spot. The landlord forgot about him, there must be better people, and more happiness awaits you in the future.
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Such duplicity! A man who does not meet the responsibility who loves to want it! Not for you!
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You should be glad that you didn't get married to such a man. The world is very big, there are many men, and choosing one who loves you is the best insurance you can buy for yourself.
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I want to die, but I can't. Because the person who betrayed you is not worth the price.
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It is very painful to be betrayed, especially if you are a good friend, it will hurt your soul even more. However, we can't die because it's not worth it, it's not needed. He (she) betrayed you, because his (her) soul is dirty, why should we hurt ourselves for such a person?
That's stupid. Maybe the heart will be very sad, maybe we will cry a lot, but after crying, we must be strong, because in this world, weakness cannot stand. We want to live better and make those who betrayed you regret it.
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If you want to be happy, forget about the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past. Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance.
Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed. After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mindset, everything will be fine.
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If you can, it means that you are a little flower in the greenhouse!
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Well, the landlord is a very aggressive mother.
He's your own son, and as a mother, you shouldn't have that at all. Moreover, you have no face in front of your own parents? They are your parents, and they must know you very well, and they must understand your difficulties, so how can they have an opinion of you.
Does he have a bad temper? This is a person's character, there are internal and external factors, some bad TV and so on will also be factors, as a mother, you should teach him to watch some beneficial programs. Moreover, communication, how did the generation gap come about, that is, your communication is not enough.
If he could understand your feelings, I'm sure he wouldn't be so vexatious. As soon as the child gets angry, you should not scold him immediately, so that he will be more rebellious, and he will also feel that he is very shameless, and boys generally attach great importance to their own face, so it is not right to go home and tell him quietly. Enlighten him well, and I'm sure he'll change slowly.
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The child may have reached a rebellious period, or it may be said that the child is born with a bad temper.
It may be that one of you has a bad temper in your wife, or you are always angry when you are pregnant, and the child will also have a bad temper, and this cannot be blamed entirely on the child.
When children have this situation, parents must not break the jar! Guide him with your heart and teach him.
The child is still young, and it is good to be sensible slowly.
Don't have the idea of suicide! sanity, sanity, sanity, sanity, sanity, sanity, sanity, , sane point, sane point, sane point, sanity point, sane point, sanity point, sane sanity, san Be sensible!!
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My husband and I have been married for more than ten years, and we are usually harmonious, but we have values, outlook on life, morality...It's all different, we didn't reach a spiritual resonance again, there was no love between us, the child became very rebellious after going to junior high school, plus a mother-in-law with ulterior motives everywhere, I was very sad, and often thought of "death lessons", if I died, the child could wake up, I would not hesitate, but I was afraid of such a hurt What should I do if the child can't bear it, I am very confused and hesitant.
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Don't worry, your situation is realistic, the family is more or less like this, one is the rebellious psychology of the son, the other is your request for your ideals to make trouble, how good I behaved, how did I give birth to such a son, no, you have to put your mind down and seriously observe him and understand him, I don't care about my son, but with him** Because he has a brain now, he will analyze things clearly, and then you explain the ins and outs of things, he will know how to walk, Don't think you're right, I know you're right in my heart, because he can't accept it, this is the generation gap, this is also a fact, my approach is not to resolutely refute any of his ideas and his practices, this is mentally prepared, but to accept any of his mistakes, help him point out a clear path in his mistakes, he will understand after summing up, but you have to be patient, I know that this patience is very depressing, there is no way for you to accept this fact, I believe that you can accept anything for the sake of your son, are you still afraid of hardship, Don't talk about life and death, I understand your feelings, are you always comparing your ideals with your son, and other people's children, this is a common problem for parents, you don't want me how to how you are, think about it yourself after a long time, have you summarized this aspect, I don't know if what I said is right, thank you.
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He's a middle school student now, right? Everyone has had a rebellious period, this is an indispensable process of growth, don't blame him, a child of his age is like this, as a mother, you should be considerate of him, think about him from his point of view, regress your mentality to his age, communicate with him sincerely with your heart, treat him equally, don't reprimand him like a child, talk to him like an adult, pay attention to the tone and attitude of your speech, don't preach, be like a friend, and be patient, I believe that in this case, he will understand your good intentions......
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I figured it out. Why is this society so chaotic. People like you are so old. Estimated to be at least 35 years old dad? People like you, parents. No wonder, no wonder.
Vanity and snobbery, death to save face. The villain one.
No wonder Confucius said that only villains and women are difficult to raise.
You're just keeping your son like a pet.
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Indeed, you are at fault, so respond to him with the attitude of atonement.
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Children will have a precedent period.
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Let's take a look at your own reasons first, okay? First of all, your girlfriend has been in love with you for five years, I think in these five years, you each know each other very well, what your personality is like, and whether she can accept to go with you for a lifetime, of course, the other party is in their eyes! You have a bad temper!
This is something that many girls can't tolerate (including me), of course everyone has a temper, there has to be a limit, no matter what kind of relationship the other party has with you, you can't use your temper to pressure others, so who else wants to go down with you? You have thoughts, others also have, so first do mutual respect, in fact, as long as you are mature, maybe your happiness will not be far from you!
I have a deep understanding of a man with a bad temper, I understand very well that this girl pins her feelings on others, because in the face of a person who doesn't understand what she wants, and only abuses her temper, she is probably also unconscious, slowly, when she meets a man with a better personality than her boyfriend, even if the other party is not as rich as you, and you are not as good as other places, she will not hesitate to find inner comfort! (Because my ex-boyfriend is like this, he has a very bad temper, I can't stand it, when I meet a man with good character, my heart naturally flies away, even if he kneels on the ground and begs me, I will not be soft-hearted).
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Everything has an effect, and there must be a cause. The betrayal of two girlfriends shows that you do have some problems with yourself, but you shouldn't be so negative and pessimistic.
On the one hand, it may be that the two girlfriends you are looking for are of the same type, so they have the same dissatisfaction with you. On the other hand, your girlfriend who has been in love for five years may be because you have been in love for too long and there is no freshness, but she doesn't know that all feelings will experience dullness, which can only mean that she can't persevere, not your problem; Your new girlfriend may have taken advantage of your vulnerability to approach you at the beginning to meet some of her own needs, but you were too sad about your previous relationship and didn't have the time and energy to think too much about your current girlfriend's situation. So, these are not all your fault, if you have experienced too many disappointments and setbacks, don't be sad, this is life, these bad things will become lessons in your life in the future, and will also make you a spiritual wealth!
Life goes on, and I hope you come out of your pessimistic disappointment! When God closes a door for you, He will open a window for you in another place.
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Some people will grow up quickly in a broken love, and will recognize a lot of false and deceptive methods. And when you were healing, you didn't learn a little experience?
I still don't use my brain to think about problems, I only look at the surface of things, and believe what others say, so I am easy to be deceived.
Can't stand this little blow? Want to die? Don't fall in love if you're afraid of getting hurt, and wait until you're strong enough to find a suitable relationship.
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I think: the problem is yours. You should turn yourself into a good man.
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I want to say, point back, really can't help it.
I hope you live and meet the 'she' you are destined to have.
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What kind of personality are the girls you chase? It's moldy.
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When you get off work and rush home to the platform, there will be a lot of trains on the same line that are not available during this period, and if you miss one, it means that the bus is not what you deserve! Keep waiting
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The sky will change the black people, see their people clearly, and then don't be deceived by appearances.
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Luckily, the woman let you know that he has a man, and if you find out about her betrayal yourself, then you have another idea.
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Don't think of death in everything. No matter how your parents compare you to others, be a determined person! , It doesn't mean anything to study well now, there are too many examples of those who come out of famous universities for nothing, and they have to think about which way to go, so stick to it and make their results to show them, so that everyone can be convinced!
Watching who has the last laugh is the most important thing! Understand what your parents expect from you! Now for you, die!
It's not a matter of urgency, sort out your extreme thoughts, think about what you can do now, what can be your strengths, and give it a try! It's not easy for your parents to raise you so big, if you don't want to live up to them, cheer yourself up again, and you need to find your hope!
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When people encounter difficulties, they are timid and want to escape. But there must be a correct way to escape, not death can solve everything, people don't live only for themselves, you also have to think about your family, how hard your parents raised you to such a big age, how much I hope you can be well, and it is not necessary for you to support the elderly, but how painful it is for a white-haired person to send a black-haired person. Go home when you're tired outside, home can always protect you, nothing is unpassable, the tight strings must be relaxed or it will break, go home, go home and get together with your mother and grandmother, they are thinking about you when you think about them, don't have the idea of dying, then I'm sorry for myself and my family.
I must have encountered something that was difficult for me to solve, and at the same time I lacked a certain amount of courage and wanted to escape by death, which is actually the stupidest way. When there are difficulties, it is best to ask the people around you for advice, and everything will pass.
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