I m male, 27 and very introverted, how can I make myself more extroverted?

Try to express yourself as much as you can.

Speak your heart out and let others know.

Listen to more rhythmic songs, let your head shake with the rhythm when no one is watching, and look at you in the mirror, isn't it a little different. Hehe, that's the first step.

It's easy to go out and call friends.

After having more contact with people, it will be fine, first of all: do not feel inferior in your heart, communicate more with others, do not be ashamed, people, as a member of society, is to get along!!

Introverted and easy to do.

Go to more entertainment venues, such as going to kk songs, going to discotheques, etc.

If you really can't do it, just find a few buddies to have some wine and brag about it, hehe.

I won't go into a long story, but I'll just tell you a little trick, your English book, and then read it aloud and in the fastest tone, at this time people will look at you strangely, you have to learn to endure and adapt, when you have adapted, prove that you have enough mental capacity, so that you don't have to worry about saying the wrong thing in front of everyone. Reading English aloud allows you to improve your English skills and courage, and at the same time, you have already diverted your attention from your mind, so that when you talk to others in the future, you can find the feeling of reading English with confidence and calmness.

This method requires a lot of exercise, perseverance, I use this method to get out of my own shadow, I believe you can too).

They talk a lot of nonsense, come to find a person you trust first, share your happiness with him, and make a few more friends, from one to many, find the confidence to interact with others, to have confidence, you can definitely cheer! Mixed!

It's simple, more with your own bosom friends. Be extroverted, get in touch with more extroverted and cheerful people You will change after a long time I used to be very introverted, and I didn't know how to change after being with those cheerful friends, of course, this is just my personal opinion You can adopt it It may be very suitable for you Because this is how I learned how to interact with people...

Is there anything bad about being introverted, or is there something bad about it that it brings to you.

The world's perception of introverts.

Have you discovered that when people make friends in the world, most of them choose character, followed by character.

Just like netizens meet, we can only see the face, know a little about the character, and don't know the character.

And I think, "it sometimes takes decades or even a lifetime to get to know someone".

Most people in the world don't like to talk to introverts because they don't like to talk. In fact, the world does not know that many introverts are eager for others to talk to him, or to greet him first. Since introverts don't say hello first, they need your initiative; Since introverts don't stir up the atmosphere of the scene, it is up to you to liven up the atmosphere.

Introverts don't necessarily talk less than you do, it's just that they don't like to talk much, but they like to think. When everyone is talking about the trivial things in life, introverts may have more than you know, but they don't want to talk about them, because everyone knows a lot of topics that everyone talks about, "Why bother?" This is the idea of an introvert.

They like to talk to someone about something they don't know, or they want to hear something they don't know.

Some introverts don't like to say hello, but in fact, he has already greeted you in his heart, and you just need to pay attention to his eyes to find out. He doesn't say "hello" or "have you eaten" to say hello, he has his way: smile, nod, eyes on you.

Most people have different standards for people, extroverts talk a lot, and introverts don't talk at all. On the contrary, an introvert is an equal standard to people, and he is either talking or not talking to anyone.

You have to know a logic that may seem strange: "It's not that an introvert doesn't talk to you, it's that you don't talk to him." ”

An extrovert will mingle with everyone in normal times, but when something big happens, he is likely to stay away; And an alternative introvert, although he usually has little contact with everyone, but when there is a matter of principle or something big happens, he suddenly stands up to help you, it's very strange and alternative, isn't it? Many movies also reflect such people, they are no different except for their different personalities, and they are likely to be kinder and more affectionate than you. It's you who look at them with a strange eye.

People see certain people who behave as "other". They are silent, unsociable, behave incomprehensibly, and do things unexpectedly, but they have not been successful for three years. Their mouths don't move often, but the spark of thought often flashes, and their brains are always very active!

They can compose poems while calculating, and they can sing while reading books; They may tidy up their quilts and desks every day, but they rarely wipe their shoes, and their clothes are torn, only to find out after a month! They are truly unusual.

Such introverted and alternative people have historically been Napoleon, Albert Einstein, Van Gogh, Picasso, Chaplin, Tolstoy, Seth, Hegel, Hitler, ......

When people pursue their ideals, they fall into loneliness. - Stallone.

Haha, first ask if you're a man or a woman. I think if you're a woman, that's fine. Women should talk less and be more introverted. ~

But if it's a man, it's not very bad. Introversion isn't very bad either. At least it can give people the impression that you are a person with few words, and people feel stable.

Introverts can't make friends. This one is a bit of a problem. I took the initiative to make friends. If you are introverted and don't take the initiative, if someone knocks on your door, you can't make friends if you don't answer and don't take the initiative.

I'm not that much of an extrovert at the time I'm writing this, but I'm not much of an introvert either. So I would say you want to change your introversion, don't change it. Introversion also has the benefits of being introverted.

In the future, I will try my best to find a job that is stable and focused. Make friends. Try to make friends with people who share your interests.

And yes. If you're very good at something, it's not that you go to someone else, it's someone else who visits you. Really ) introverted is good too!

What nonsense. >Just don't scold when you see it.

If a friend asks you out.。。 You just go out. Even if it doesn't fit their circle yet.

You just silently watch how they play. You can also ask your friends out for a hang out. Sing k.

Or drinking. is the most convenient method.

Interaction between men can enhance so much knowledge.

Personality doesn't mean that you can change it.

If the character you have built in 27 years is so easily broken, I don't think there will be any character at all.

Introverts are just not good at expressing themselves, it's not that they don't want to communicate with the outside world, and people usually find people with similar personalities to themselves when making friends, so it's harder to get out of a group of introverted friends...

Everything is a psychological warfare, you always define yourself as an introvert, you think you can't break through, you can't get over, you think introversion is a bondage, otherwise you won't want to escape it.

You're too extreme. Extreme thinks that all extroverted things are good. You want to reinvent yourself into a certain way. Maybe there is an extrovert in reality who you admire. So you want to try to be what you expect to be.

Actually, you care too much about such a defining word......If I say you're an extrovert, don't you get rid of that?

Hehe, you're pretty much the same as me! In fact, introversion can be changed, and the cause of this is generally caused by innate personality factors and the environment in which I was a child. People with this personality mostly like to be quiet, don't like to be around everyone, and don't like to communicate!

If you want to change this kind of personality, you usually have to let yourself communicate with strangers and friends, participate in more team activities, read more information about teamwork, and fundamentally clarify the benefits and practical significance of teamwork. In fact, there are several theories about this kind of character, the first is loneliness, which is innate, with a certain amount of personal heroism in thought, and a sense of rejection of others from the bottom of my heart! There is also a sullen type, in fact, he is talented at heart, but he is eloquent, not good at expression, and does not like to talk to friends; There is also the environment in which I was a child, who was withdrawn, not good at interacting with others, not good at expressing myself, and indifferent in my heart!

There is also an inferiority complex, I always feel inferior in my heart, and I can't understand that in fact, everyone is equal in this society, although there is a difference between rich and poor, but there is no distinction between high and low, so this inferiority complex is often imposed on myself!

We have to rely on ourselves, and the world is still waiting for us to create...

Make more friends, take the initiative to communicate with others, don't always be in your own small space, and think more about others.

1.First try to give yourself a hint: I'm going to be able to get it right. Overcome the fear of speaking and nervousness.

2.Start with acquaintances and friends, learn to express your opinions, and communicate as long as you find a topic. Even if you start out just by echoing what others say, it's the first step to success. As long as you open your mouth, habit becomes natural.

3.Learn some tips on topic. For example, what is the basis for your viewpoint, whether it can be explained in points, what practical actions you think should be taken from your viewpoint, what results these actions will have, and so on. Your mind will become active after the topic.

4.Learn some techniques to bring language to life. For example, humor, witty, sharp,-for-tat, exaggerated, shrunk, and so on. The form of the language can be eclectic, and the intonation can be changed from high to low, and the speed of speech can be fast or slow.

5.Regardless of the type of communication, facial expressions should vary from event to event and from time to place. For example, when making friends, you should look at each other sincerely and smile kindly.

6.Read more good books to enrich your content and thoughts, and make your expression unique. It is recommended that you try to read more literary and interpersonal works, which can improve your self-cultivation and temperament quickly.

The above views are purely personal opinions, please forgive me for any inconsideracies, and I hope it can be helpful to friends.

Generally speaking, I think that personality is innate, and if you are an introvert, it is difficult to become an extrovert, so you can only make yourself more extroverted.

You can bounce around more, talk to people more, motivate yourself, and overcome some of your inner shortcomings.

Introverts don't like to talk, so if they have to be extroverted, they can only force themselves to make some changes.

Life is like this, full of all kinds of joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and you can only make yourself happy.

You don't have to force it, you can try to change, and if the process is painful, it is recommended not to change.

If you are shy, then you should not be embarrassed, relax, stay in a crowded place with nothing to do, feel the whole atmosphere on the side, put on your headphones yourself, slowly put down the headphones, listen to the surrounding sounds, observe the surroundings, and finally get involved, step by step.

Find your own interests and hobbies and give full play to your strengths.

The following story may help you: I remember that Carnegie, the world's master of psychology, once told a story: one of his students was unhappy every day, and many things about work, family, career, and friends made him feel upset.

One day, after listening to Carnegie's lesson, he was walking home worriedly when he suddenly came across a man with disabled legs, walking on the sidewalk with his hands propped up, and this man said to him with a smile on his face: Hello! This person had a sudden inspiration:

A disabled person can be so carefree and happy! And why should I be unhappy if I am a man of sound limbs and a career? When he returned home, he immediately communicated with Carnegie and received a positive answer, and since then the man has become happy and healthy, and his career is thriving.

People are not born introverted, they are acquired, so you must interact more with others, express your ideas, make yourself confident, and let your ideas be approved by others, so that you have a sense of accomplishment and unconsciously want to express your opinions in the future!

First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths. Then, let your strengths play to your strengths.

This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good.

This is the most basic.

Therefore, you need to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths.

Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, then you can build self-confidence.

If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything. The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle.

As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain self-confidence. Of course, maybe take your time. You can start with small things and gradually increase them.

Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind. All you need is to discover it yourself, and you don't need too many complicated processes.

As long as you have faith in yourself, then you will definitely be full of strength. Don't be overly considerate of others, pay too much attention to what others think of you.

Deal with any setbacks with a nonchalant and normal mindset.

Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself.

When you have self-confidence, you will be able to do everything. The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything.

In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you.

To know that what others say about us is always what they think, and we don't have to live in someone else's world. Just do your own thing.

Why don't you care so much about him? It is necessary to have the momentum that the world exists only for itself. Have the courage to go your own way and let others do what they say.

No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves.

When you succeed, it's your own business, but if you are influenced by others and retreat, it's your own business, so why bother to control yourself for irrelevant people.

The last sentence: Believe in yourself, and you will be full of self-confidence. It's all about the mindset.