How do I choose a wife, choose one of the two??

b is a little short and can be made up for by wearing high heels, and a little fat can be **, this can be changed! But the fact that a cohabitation cannot be changed! She's lived with someone else, and maybe you're just one of the people she's living with.

Besides, A's academic qualifications can't be changed, and she can't go to college now. And B's personality can be changed, and the two of you can also run in with each other and understand each other.

90% of the source of war between husband and wife comes from the problem of money, so if you don't do well financially, it will be a big problem in the future! Maybe you get divorced after a lot of quarrels. So it's better to find a stable job.

I support option B.

If you want to look good, choose A, if you want to know how to live, choose B, you have to ask yourself what you really need.

Choose B I believe that feelings can be cultivated slowly.

It's not realistic to choose A, you have to think about life.

Choose b and it's painful if you don't like him.,It means that you're here for her future.,I don't think you're a good thing.。。

Here's the most realistic advice for you:

Find a girlfriend or a second room to have a beautiful figure.

When looking for a cousin, you must be honest and steady, and you must not be stolen.

People still have to be practical, not only for you in the future, but also for you and your wife's children, think about it, you and your wife will live a very tight life in the future, and beauty is not eternal, not modest to say that I am very good-looking, but I also did not think that I must marry a very handsome husband. Moreover, a girl living with someone else is a bit impure, for a man who needs a family, you can't marry someone who is easy to make others gossip, and it's not good to say that your parents know. The first thing about a beautiful girlfriend is that she looks comfortable, and the second is to make others envious, there is nothing bad to give up, I personally think it's better for you to choose b, I'm a practical person, and you're a better graduate of a bachelor's degree and will find it, don't treat yourself badly.

And the heart is the most beautiful

Hopefully, you will consider your practical problems before deciding how to do it

If others can't help you, as long as you are happy.

Gentle and considerate, caring and loving you.

She truly loves you and cares about you.

For you to give up everything.

Don't panic in your situation, the most important thing is to see how the relationship between you is, in fact, managing the relationship is also a very troublesome thing, if your relationship is very good, your husband also cares about you very much, you don't need to put too much pressure on him in this matter, after all, people, you have to have some personal space of your own, but it also depends on the situation, if your husband goes on like this, more and more excessive, you are also kind to persuade him, remind him first!

In fact, from another point of view, everyone does a thing for a reason, it depends on his motivation to do it, your analysis analyzes your husband's motivation for doing this, that is, the motivation to induce him to do this, is his own personality is such a person, or you are not good enough for her, he feels very empty, of course, there are many reasons, it depends on you!

There is a saying that a good wife wants: go to the hall, go to the kitchen, I think you should understand!! Think about it!

When choosing an object, there must be a very correct standard, with character as the first, and the rest of the conditions are second.

First, I hope that the other party is an understanding person, as the saying goes: I am willing to fight with someone who understands, and I am not willing to talk to a confused person. 』

The second is to be kind, to have a very good heart, not willing to harm others, not willing to harm others and benefit oneself, and have a very good heart.

The third is honesty, not slippery, not many, many tricks.

The fourth is decency, the style is decent, and the relationship between men and women is also very decent. Such a person is very good, and he is the best choice.

Other conditions can be lowered, a perfect person does not have, perfect is a saint; It's not easy to find a sage now. Our marriage and family problems have been solved well, which is very convenient for the cultivation of special features. Building a Buddha-like family is very beneficial to one's own entry into the world, one's birth, the Dharma, and the Dharma.

There is no greater happiness in life than children who can believe in Buddhism, and the greatest misfortune in life is that children do not believe in Buddhism.

Now you can't imagine that when you are really old, especially when you are dying, the difference between your children believing in Buddhism and your children not believing in Buddhism is too great. If he helps you, you will be able to die, and if he drags you back, you will not be able to die.

Now generally speaking, at this time, you still need someone to help, you can live and die freely, you don't need help, there are not many such people, that is, you have this power, it's good to have someone to help! You can add it! It is best to rely on children in this matter, and it is often not possible to rely on others.

Therefore, it is also an important thing in life to make friends, get married, and establish a family. We should be cautious, we should also pray, and we should rely on the power of Buddha.

So, the most important thing for a person is his eyes, so keep polishing his eyes. For a person, you must first have an analysis, and then judge, what kind of person this is, the key is to rather lack than excess, some people are very good at pleasing people, dedicated, very clever, very smart.

In reality, however, it is often incompatible with the main issues we demand: understanding, goodness, honesty, and decency.

Why do people fall in love? We live to make ourselves happy, to make the people around us happy, and we get married to make this love complete and full; Legend has it that a woman is a man's lost rib, and a man and a woman are only half of their lives since they are born, and we have been looking for our lover, looking for our other half; In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, make life abundant and happy; So we keep searching, bravely falling in love, wrong, hurt, hurt, and then despairing, lost, because we have not found a true lover, because true love is hard to find; A person may meet several lovers in this life, or only one; You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow are both love and marriage; In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate witness of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a shackle that can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a family Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning; No matter what, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason, everything that should happen should be let happen, follow the trend, no reluctance, no need to deliberately. I like such a sentence very much, let's fall in love, anyway, if you're idle, you're idle, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely; I have no regrets in life, I wish you happiness and happiness.

Virtuous, considerate and gentle are OK; Hungry.

It's really incomprehensible that you are a man getting married and letting your family become like this, and then your current mate selection conditions are too realistic, the more you think about it, the less you will get, you only pay attention to superficial things, and you don't have an in-depth understanding of their thoughts, let alone love them, can you be happy when you get married like this? Why do people get married after falling in love? Because it is a matter of happiness for a lifetime, if you don't know each other, can you live with each other for a lifetime?

Think about it, those who are obviously very sweet when they are in love, why are they unhappy and divorced when they are married? When those who love one another are like this, what will happen to you? To understand each other is to understand each other's character, the other party's living environment, the other party's family, the degree of suitability between the other party and you, and whether the two people communicate well, this is the deep thing, but also to observe whether she wants the child to love the child, whether she can be a good mother, this is not something that can be seen overnight, you need to increase the time of understanding each other, and don't find someone who feels worthy of yourself in your life?

Because of love, we will tolerate each other, because of love, we will want to live a lifetime, and because of love, we will be happy! Once you decide to get married, you have to be responsible whether you are happy or not, you still have room for regret before you have children, and it is a lack of virtue to abandon others after having children.