Was there a time when your boyfriend made you feel like you weren t that important?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe for many girls, they feel that their boyfriends don't care about themselves anymore after falling in love. Maybe he's doing his job and ignoring you, maybe he's playing a game and ignoring you. I think it should be the lull period and run-in period after falling in love.

    At this time, I think it's normal to have this kind of mentality, you have to talk to your boyfriend more, communicate more, and care more about each other. I think it's going to be fine.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In the case of your boyfriend playing on his phone, it doesn't matter so much to make yourself feel like you're yourself. My boyfriend ignores me every time he plays a game, and sometimes he refuses to come out when he plays, as if he is hooked by the game and loses his heart, in short, in front of the game, love becomes secondary.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, it doesn't matter if you don't have a boyfriend, after all, we can also support ourselves alone, and we can also make ourselves happy, especially when I travel outside, he doesn't call me much, I don't think there is a boyfriend, then I will also know how to appreciate the scenery at the moment.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As a boyfriend and girlfriend, I think it is natural for her to spend some money on herself, but since we have known each other for a year, he has not even bought me a decent dress, I really don't know if he really loves me or is perfunctory on the surface, and suddenly I feel that I really may not be so important!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As a boyfriend and girl, I think it's reasonable for her to spend some money on her own, but we haven't bought ourselves a decent dress for a year, I don't really know. You really love me or my perfusion surface, and I suddenly feel like it might not be that important. In fact, if your boyfriend doesn't have that, that's okay.

    After all, we can also keep ourselves. We can also make ourselves happy. Especially when I'm out on a trip, it doesn't give me much of a hit.

    I think if I didn't have a boyfriend, then I would appreciate the landscape of this era.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes He almost ignored my presence while he was chatting with his parents.

    At first, I was a little lost, but gradually I got used to it. After all, it was his family of origin, and I didn't know many things before, and I didn't want to know.

    As long as he and I don't snub me when we meet other friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When I go out with my boyfriend to party with his friends, he usually ignores my existence and just interacts with his friends, leaving me sitting alone and sitting stupidly next to me, feeling like I can't fit into their circle, and my boyfriend doesn't consider my feelings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I often feel this way because I don't play games, and then he can play games with others for a long time and ignore me and don't reply to my messages. Then he can go to dinner alone without calling me, and if he encounters anything, he will solve it by himself without telling me. I feel dispensable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, because women treat you as a spare tire, most girls enjoy the feeling of being pursued, but these girls are just enjoying, they will not turn you into their official boyfriend, when many boys are pursuing the same girl, then this girl will feel that there is light on her face, and she will also feel that she is very beautiful and attractive to boys, and at the same time enjoy the envy of the people around her, after all, there are some girls who no one wants to deal with.

    The second is because you can't meet her standards, but she doesn't want you to run away so easily. It is a very happy thing to enjoy the care and love of many people, when the girl you pursue is better, then the girl will feel that she has a sense of superiority and thinks that she deserves a better man, not with you, so she will have an affair with you at this time, because she is afraid that in the next time, she will not find someone who meets his standards, and you are far away from her, so she can only hang you, making you mistakenly think that she is interesting to you, but in fact, she just wants to find a spare tire.

    In the end, it may also be because this girl is soft-hearted, she can't bear to refuse you, so she has been getting along with you in an ambiguous way, he thinks you can understand her heart for you, but in fact, you misunderstand, there are still many such girls, there is such a girl around me, she is very beautiful, she is the darling of the boys in the class, almost all the boys in the class have pursued her, but she has maintained an ambiguous relationship with every boy, which once made me mistakenly think that she has been with many boys, But in fact, she has never been with a partner until now, because she thinks that these boys are only suitable for friends, not for love.

    So when you pursue a girl and the girl doesn't make a clear statement, it means that she is using you as a spare tire, and you have to think about it at this time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your boyfriend still has you in his heart, especially when you don't get home, he is worried and wants you to message him. But I have a feeling that you have something to do personally. Therefore, try to find more reasons for yourself to get more love from your boyfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That proves that there are some small contradictions in the relationship between you, and it is necessary to solve these small contradictions face-to-face for the development of your relationship in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your boyfriend is like this because it contains a little heart, so it doesn't feel that you are not important, because he still wants to send you a message and still find you, which means that he still has you in his heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, this practice of yours is definitely not good, you shouldn't always pester your boyfriend, after all, he has his own space for friends, it should be better for him to be casual, two people should understand and tolerate each other, you are angry that he goes to you after all, so your position in his heart is very important.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    From your words, I really don't feel that he cares about you! As for the time to keep in touch with you, it might just be boring....Sorry, I may be too direct, but don't guess too much about what the guy thinks, many times he shows what he really thinks, there are no metaphors!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A large part of the degree can be seen that your boyfriend, in fact, is not that you are not important, but you think too much, to complicate the problem, it is normal for couples to quarrel and quarrel, but bow their heads to each other and admit their mistakes, and this matter will pass, otherwise, once two people do not let anyone, the contradiction will continue to expand, and on the contrary, it will affect the emotions of two people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He just thinks you can't fit into his circle of friends, and if they don't have fun, you won't be happy. If I don't care about you, I won't be with you, and I won't come to you when I can't get in touch.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it's a bit disrespectful for your boyfriend to ignore you for the sake of her friends, and in his heart, a woman is not as important as a brother, or in his heart, you're not the kind of person who is unique.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    So I don't have time to send you a message, or hit ** to make you feel that you are unimportant, because he has you in his heart, not that you are not important.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think your boyfriend is so attentive to you, and you don't stick to him, you just keep cold to him, and you want him to feel that he is not so important, and then you go to find something interesting on your own, which will distract you from thinking about him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, I think your boyfriend should be working harder for your future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Shouldn't you stick together if you only see each other once or twice a month, it seems that his buddy is more important than you, otherwise his EQ would not be so low.

    Love yourself well, there is no need to please someone you don't love in such a low voice.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since he is important to him if you are important, he will not be like this, which means that he is not important to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A person is accustomed to the existence of the other party, and thinks that the other party's contribution to himself is a matter of course, and he is accustomed to it when you are around him every day, and he ignores your existence, and when you leave one day, he will understand your importance.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Of course it's important. The reason he says that is because he thinks you don't care enough about him. However, lovers do have to leave space for each other, maybe the difference in your personality causes him to misunderstand you, he should be a sensitive person, right?

    People who are generally more sensitive are also prone to insecurity. So in addition to not interfering with his privacy, you have to care more about him and let him know that you care about him too. A boyfriend can't be restrained and can't be left alone.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The reason why a person falls in love with you is not how good you are, but how important you are to him. It is for this reason that some people do it better than others. Your excellence is just your kindness.

    When others play women, they make men feel important. Falling in love is to weigh the proportions between two people. How much you mean to him shows how much he loves you.

    You are insecure, and you also say that sometimes, instead of always feeling that you are not important, it is better to communicate with your boyfriend in a timely manner and trust the couple more.

    It's also possible that he wasn't good at expressing himself, and my girlfriend felt the same way, and I became her ex. Questions about gifts. I don't think it must be important to give you an expensive gift in his heart.

    Because you can't exclude some guys from having money, giving expensive gifts is nothing. It's to see how much he can give you, to see if he remembers important holidays, to prepare gifts with heart, just for you to laugh happily. When I didn't speak to the man, I told him that I had never received flowers.

    Later, that day, he rushed back to our school from home and said he wanted to stay with me.

    Actually, I'm already very happy because he remembers every festival with his heart. Later, he arrived at my school very early, bought flowers outside the school, and waited for me to pick him up because he was too embarrassed to enter the school alone. Later, I watched him standing at the station with flowers in his hand and waiting for me.

    When I was far away, tears came out and I ran over to hug him because I had felt his heart. Regarding the length of time you mentioned. Feelings are never measured by the length of time.

    If he walks with you all the time, <>

    He must be in love with the next in his heart, and I would like to share some of my romance with the male ticket. I'll give you some test to join the army, but I still say that everyone is different, and the unprepared label is not accurate. I'm the kind of girl who doesn't feel secure and confident.

    It's so serious that I don't believe that the man loves me, so he has to pay a lot with me so that I can slowly feel that he loves me. I told my parents about the female ticket. Not long after we were together, he told my parents about my existence.

    My parents didn't quite agree with it for many reasons.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course it's important, he will treat you as the pearl of his palm. Otherwise, you would have had a problem with him and would have left him. But one thing you have to be clear about, if you want to go to the end with him, you have to work hard with him, so that you can have a better future with him.

    will always be together and happy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I feel that I am still very important in my boyfriend's mind, because my boyfriend likes me very much, and he loves me very much, tolerates my little temper, and never gets angry with me.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I feel that I am very important in my boyfriend's mind, because my boyfriend can't do without him, and he wants to be with him all the time, and when he is by his side, he will feel special happy and happy.

    You should have enough self-confidence and charm to have an important place in your boyfriend's mind.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course, it's important in the boyfriend's mind. Because Kongdouyu's boyfriend will work hard to make money, and will often give himself money to spend, he doesn't want to let his burden be too heavy, he just wants to take all these burdens on Dou Roll himself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it's very important for me to talk about the position of my boyfriend, because my boyfriend is very good to me, and he is very gentle to me, and then the two of us are very happy together, which means that I feel that my position in my boyfriend's mind is very important.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think I'm still very important in his heart, because usually what I say will affect his mood, and when I'm angry, he will try his best to coax me, and he will also find out why he makes me angry.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you really like and love your boyfriend to return to your friends, you must be a very important person in your heart, such a person will bring you happiness and happiness, two brothers and friends together have a very warm and happy feeling.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think I am very important in my boyfriend's heart, because my boyfriend loves me very much, he cares about me very much, if I have any headache and cold, he will be very anxious, very worried about me, and I am sick, he will affect my mood very much.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is important, because he listens carefully to every morning I say, and although he is always careless, he will finally fulfill my little wish. I think Lu Zhen is eating sugar gourd, he will call me naïve, but he will buy it for me to eat when he sees it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Of course, the brotherhood is very important, and it can be ranked on the same level as his family, because as long as your boyfriend will only love you, he will send a search for potatoes and now he has firmly caught you and stuffed you into his heart and will not let you run out again, he is also very dedicated to you, and will not envy oranges and flowers outside.

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