17 years old, boy, a little feminine, what to do?

I look more delicate, and my female classmates say that I look like a girl. It didn't matter at first, but if I said too much, I didn't feel good, didn't it mean that I didn't have a manhood?

So I tried to change.

For example, cut your hair into short pieces, deliberately keep a little beard, do more exercise, speak and do things at the right time, never sissy, etc., the effect is still there, you can also try it.

But now that neutral beauty is popular, you see that popular male stars in South Korea are the same as women, maybe you are more popular with girls...

But I've always felt that a man has to be like a man! What do you think?

Have more contact with the boys in the class and exercise more.

Hehe, I'm almost the same as you, it's a little bit, think maybe it's innate, don't think about it! It will change in the future, so pay attention to communicate more, chat, exercise, etc.

You are still young, when you don't have the financial ability to support a family independently, you can only rely on your parents, if you want to go against your parents' wishes and can't get forgiveness, there is only one way to elope, will your girlfriend still follow you?

The opinion of your family can only be a reference, and the key depends on your own choice!

To tell you the easiest and best way, you can find the kind of person you want to find.

Play some guys' stuff: basketball, soccer, don't always be with girls.

Nothing to change.

First of all, let me tell you very clearly. You've recognized your shortcomings and can be helpful in improving. What kind of man you want to be, that's your goal.

You can go in that direction, but you have to be in the right mindset. But it can't be changed all at once. The most important thing is to have a good friend by your side to help you.

I don't know you very well either. You can learn from other boys' practices, and you have to list your own shortcomings one by one and change them one by one. But think twice about what to do.

Be open-minded. The most important thing is empathy. The key to empathy is to know what comes to mind in his mood.

I'll tell you my opinion.

I think there are probably two aspects to sissis: one is the voice, and the other is the movement.

As long as these two aspects are normal, no matter how nosy you are, no matter how much you love learning English, no matter how bad your sports are. It doesn't matter.

So change from both sides.

And goodbye to Brother Chun after going home. Brother Chun will bless you.

Burst the chrysanthemums of the children who say your mother.

Dude, there is a form in this world called pseudo-Niang, there is a kind of person in this world called a beautiful man, you can believe that you can be more feminine than a woman, instead of suppressing yourself, if you want to control it, you can wear it once a week** out to satisfy your desires, hopefully.

Smoking, drinking. Haha, just kidding. Saying that your sissy is probably mainly due to some of your usual postures, which are a little softer.

Try not to make small movements. You can try to participate in some military training. Stand in a military posture, walk right, and shout slogans.

It might be useful.

Well, it means that you already believe in yourself, and I think you should believe in yourself, and the examples you compare seem to be your merits.

Let's go boxing! Train yourself to be rougher! ~~

As a man, if you want to get rid of your feminine temperament, you usually try to keep your hair short and wear professional formal clothes. Observe the walking posture of those masculine men in film and television dramas, and deliberately imitate them. I usually take advantage of holidays and often go to the gym to do muscle training.

Over time, his temperament will be fundamentally changed and he will become a sunny man.

Boys are feminine and don't have to make a fuss. It mainly depends on whether it is feminine in appearance or feminine in psychology. If it's a feminine look, don't change it.

Don't blindly follow it, habitual things may not necessarily be right. Although there are very few people whose biological sex is opposite to their physical sex, as long as they are healthy and beautiful, there is no need to make a big fuss.

Go your own way, let others envy and hate it! If it is psychologically feminine, as long as you want to change it very easily, there is no need to ask for help. No man shall be disguised, and no sea shall be measured.

There are also many people whose physical and psychological characteristics are opposite. Don't look at some men who are big and thick, in fact, their hearts may not necessarily be full of masculinity. Therefore, we are against judging people by their appearance.

Men think that it is too feminine, and it is not specified whether it is manifested in the physical or psychological aspects, which needs to be analyzed differently.

Suggestions: It is recommended to go to the hospital to check whether the endocrine level is abnormal, whether there are female secondary sex characteristics, and it is a physiological lesion that needs to be regulated by drugs and hormones. If the physiological cause is ruled out, it is necessary to find a psychologist for counseling to improve the bias in gender cognition, eliminate possible negative memories, and learn the normal patterns of male behavior.

It is important to emphasize that boys' behavior tends to be feminine, and if the children themselves and their parents do not think it is strange, it is basically normal. If parents are taboo and particularly annoyed, then correct it step by step and avoid blaming too much! Too much accusation, first, will strengthen and deepen the child's sense of strangeness about himself; The second is that it will give birth to the child's inferiority complex of "being different from others" and the guilt of "embarrassing the parents", which makes it more difficult to adjust.

Specifically, there are six effective correction methods for boys' behavior with feminine tendencies:

1. Adjust your diet and eat a non-pathological physique. The best pharmacy is the kitchen, how to become a master of motherhood? There are three ways to learn, one is to study the "Dietary Guidelines for Chinese Residents", familiarize yourself with the "Balanced Diet Pagoda" and put it into practice, and use your own kitchen as a health base; The second is that the Beijing Publishing House's "Foodism Series" has a special study on the foods suitable for adjusting men's physique, and lists 12 kinds of tomatoes, carrots, pumpkin seeds, asparagus, eggs, peanuts, fungus, leeks, yams, mutton, etc., which mothers can do more and make fragrant in different ways; The third is the advanced version, if you have the ability and knowledge accumulation, study and study the "Emperor's Inner Canon", the development of human beings from birth to death, the development and the unity of flesh and blood, body, and soul have a great source analysis, it is worth spending time and thinking in it.

2. Strengthen physical exercise. First, it is recommended to learn traditional martial arts, enter the door, and practice standing piles, squatting and horse steps. The second is to ask a personal trainer in the gym to strengthen strength training in a planned and scientific way.

In short, it is always right to exercise a lot of exercise, because exercise can both increase androgen levels and develop a child's self-confidence.

Spend less contact with women, relax more, and go out with buddies more.

I'm like this, I don't know what to do, I'm 20 years old, and I want to change it.

In this case, you should deliberately emphasize that you are masculine.

In life, such as the action of eating, walking, the tone of speech and the momentum of doing things, etc., try to make more masculine friends.

Usually with girls, try to show as much as possible your own manhood that is different from them, 17 years old is very important, and there is not much variability in personality after the age of 20.

First of all, in terms of dress, choose a masculine one. Then deliberately change in behavior. It takes time, be patient.

Get a girlfriend and do what a man does.

Let it be, there is no deputy to correct, 17-year-old qualitative. The more you calibrate, the more likely it is to go wrong.

Long-term sports training, I used to do the same.

Now it's fashionable to be neutral, it's okay.

If you want to feminize a masculine man, the only way is to take estrogen, which of course will have irreversible effects on the body.

Take some contraceptive pills, because it contains more estrogen, soybeans too, eat more legumes, because they all contain estrogen, I remember that there was a box of more than 20 tablets a day, I forgot the name, that medicine is better, doctors often use it for people with less estrogen.

Want to be whiter? Let's eat vitamin C. Want to lose weight? **Medicine. Want big breasts? l am sorry, no such medicine....

Don't just look on the outside. Just do things by yourself, and it won't make people feel like a girl.

Do you spend a lot of time with girls? Or there are more women in the family.

Train yourself to be more cheerful.

The name is just a code name, don't worry too much.

I'm like you.

When others ask, they say, don't feel inferior!

Nothing you know about Venus, it's not like it's good after being transgendered, you just change your name, it's nothing.

The name is the code name, and it doesn't exist.

It's okay to call it by name, don't care what others say!!

I went to the police station to change my name, too.

It's just a code name, what's there!