We often misunderstood and I often proposed to break up

Hehe, my wife and I too. Both people like each other, but the personality is not very suitable, which needs to be understood, I personally think he may have a lot of things to hold back, and he doesn't like to express it is his character. You have to find a way to understand that it is not easy for two people to be together, you must persevere, don't give up easily, and you can see that you still care about him.

Get to know him better, and it will be fine. I wish you all happiness.

You can see that he cares about you and proves that he still loves you, but he has his difficulties, he needs your understanding and support, you go to his space to stay, no matter what happens, I trust and support you, wait for you forever and other words of encouragement.

If it was because of a misunderstanding and broke up, can it be solved? This will definitely be solved. There are many things that you will miss in life, but if you miss them and do not regain them, this approach is obviously wrong again and again.

If you break up because of a misunderstanding, it will be a pity for both of you, if you find that you don't get it back quickly, and you keep dragging it out for time, the chances of slowly recovering it will be slimmer, and the tragedy may become bigger. Men and women get along with each other, misunderstanding is a normal phenomenon, can deal with the misunderstanding is the most important thing, if you use an aggressive way to deal with it, and finally find that the center of gravity itself is wrong, it will cause too much harm.

Therefore, the relationship between men and women is also a learning process, learning how to deal with problems, learning how to treat each other, etc., can not be blindly stubborn, and need to take each other into account when doing some things, so as to reduce a lot of misunderstandings and contradictions, so that two people can get along better.

So how do you solve it? In this case, the misunderstanding will lead to a breakup, and we must quickly recover and reduce the loss.

It is not easy for two people to meet, and the two people who meet will leave a good memory in each other's lives, if it is just because of the unhappiness caused by the misunderstanding, and erase the previous good memories, it is not worth it. When saving, don't care about the so-called face, the most important person in life can not be measured by these things, this process is a two-way process, do not have to ask for each other more than their own requirements, in the relationship between the two sides, two people will slowly understand each other, misunderstanding may be not deep enough, maybe the trust in the other party is not strong enough. Misunderstanding is also the whetstone in this relationship, Tang Seng also has to go through nine hundred and eighty-one difficulties to obtain the true scriptures, and the same is true for feelings, which need to resist thousands of tempers, after this, the emotions of the two people will be more solid, and the misunderstanding is not too bumpy.

If it's just because of a misunderstanding, of course it can be solved, the two of you should talk about this matter well, and the two of you should also tell each other what they think in their hearts, so that the misunderstanding can be resolved.

Personally, I think that if it is because of a misunderstanding and breaking up, then it can still be solved, and if you want to solve the misunderstanding, then you must explain the reason for the misunderstanding to the other party in time.

It can be solved, and two people must communicate more to solve this misunderstanding, so that they will not break up.

It can be solved, you can get in touch with each other, explain the matter to the other party, and if two people are in love, the conflict can naturally be resolved.

I think it's necessary.

Because I don't like to be misunderstood, I don't like to let people misunderstand me all the time after a breakup, which makes me feel very uncomfortable. I like to be clear, I like to be straightforward, there are no secrets between each other, and this is the best ending! Even if we can't be together, at least we must let there be no more barriers between each other.

There are a lot of misunderstandings between you, but you still broke up, which shows that this misunderstanding has always made you linger, in this case, after the breakup, explain it to him, although, the explanation is not to be with him again, but, at least you can change yourself in his heart, after all, no one wants to leave, and leave a bad impression in the hearts of others.

A lot of relationships separate each other because of misunderstandings! Since it is destined to be separated, then after separation, you must become the person who likes it, and no longer disappoint the other party, which is the most correct way to open after a breakup.

I don't understand, you don't say. This creates distance! In fact, there are too many misunderstandings between two people, because there are usually too few explanations, because everyone feels that explanations are very tired, thinking that even if they explain, the other party will not listen, but in fact, what the other party wants is your explanation, and it is because there are too many misunderstandings between you that you separate.

Explain to him that even if you are separated, don't be enemies, and you must remember that in the days to come, don't let others misunderstand you! After all, it's really not easy for two people to be together. Separation is still a friend, this is the best ending of love!

Even if you can't be lovers, don't have a deep hatred for each other, there's really no need to be like this.

In fact, I personally suggest that even after a breakup, you need to solve the misunderstanding and let each other break up cleanly! You used to love each other very much, but in the later stages of love, you communicated inappropriately with each other, which caused the other party to have a lot of misunderstandings about you, which became the fuse for your breakup.

Whoever brought up the breakup accepted it. At this time, the misunderstanding should be explained clearly and this love should be brought to a successful end. Don't leave a bad impression in the hearts of your former lovers.

Even if you see each other again, it's better to be a stranger than the other party to treat you as an enemy. Leave some leeway for each other, and who can say for sure what will happen in the future. Maybe after the misunderstanding is resolved, one day after you, the two of you will sprout love again and choose to get back together.

And in case the two of you have some mutual friends, and the other person feels that he has been greatly wronged and treated unfairly in this love. And go around saying bad things about you.

Thus it will also have a very bad impact on your personal image.

Think about it openly, in case the next person you like knows your ex, these misunderstandings exist, and you will become a negative man or a bad woman in the eyes of the person you like. This coincidence is also very likely.

If you feel like you can't say it in person, you can email it.

way or write a letter to the ex. Tell him all the misunderstandings between you, and then express that you have no intention of disturbing each other's current life, as a former lover, I wish him to meet the right person in the future and find his own happiness.

Regardless of whether the other party replies or not, let these things go, and your heart is more comfortable, so start your new life.

In fact, I think it is still necessary to explain, for me before, I may feel that this relationship is over, I may not talk about anything anymore, whether it is a misunderstanding or not, in fact, I don't think it is so important, maybe I don't think I want to say anything.

Later, until I met a friend. She's a girl, and the two of us seem to talk about these topics a lot.

I remember very much about one time when I broke up with my boyfriend, but I didn't want to say anything, but he told me that if there is anything, I need to explain it, and I think for me, I will definitely make everything clear, so that I can not regret it.

Her words actually touched me deeply, it seems that this is the first time I have heard such words, because for many things, I think I may be a more impulsive person, but his words make me feel that there are things that still need to be explained!

After all, between the two of you, since you are in love, you will cook a fate, which belongs to a fate, so if there is a misunderstanding between the two of you, I think the two of you will continue to start a new life with a misunderstanding, and there may be that problem in your heart.

Although the two of you are separated, although the fate of the two of you is over, I think that for a relationship, I think that since it is over, it should be made clear and clear.

In this way, when we recall this relationship, we may still have a little regret in our hearts, saying why we didn't solve those misunderstandings at that time, maybe you can solve these misunderstandings, if the two of you still have love, you may continue to be together, maybe.

Although there are many misunderstandings between you, there is no need to explain after you break up, because if you explain too much, he will only think that you are justifying, and there is actually no meaning between you, he will not feel any guilt because of your explanation, and he will not feel unreasonable because of your explanation.

In fact, in my opinion, the more important thing that separates the two of you is that the two of you are incompatible, because the two of you are incompatible, so there will be all kinds of misunderstandings, and there is also the fact that the two of you do not trust each other, which is also one of the reasons for the misunderstanding, so I think you are not separated because of misunderstanding, but because of incompatible personalities or lack of trust. <>

Although I don't know what misunderstandings you have between you, I think the misunderstandings between two people who are in love are nothing more than because of some attitudes, or because of the opposite sex around each other, but these misunderstandings cannot be solved through explanations, because if you don't trust each other, no amount of explanation will be in vain.

Imagine who will not have the opposite sex around them, but if the other party has the opposite sex around them, or if there are some around them, two people will be suspicious of each other, so no matter how normal you are with the opposite sex around you, it will become the object of suspicion, how can such a misunderstanding be solved?

Usually there is no trust in each other in this situation, it comes from their own lack of self-confidence, so it will cause this phenomenon of paranoia, I will be afraid that my other half will be abducted by others, and I will try my best to control everything in the other party, which is like holding a handful of sand in my hand, the tighter I hold it, the faster the sand will flow away.

You've all broken up, what else do you explain, if it's me, I'll definitely choose not to explain, since it's over, let's go.

1. Your breakup is definitely not just a matter of misunderstanding.

The reason why you broke up must be because of the problems between you, in addition to the misunderstanding, there must be other problems, such as trust problems, in comparison, your relationship problems, these problems have not been solved, I just feel that a misunderstanding will make you break up, I think it is unlikely, so I think there are other problems.

2. Since you broke up, let's break up.

I won't explain after the breakup, once the breakup, it can only mean that there is no need for the two people to continue, since there is no need to continue, what's the use of explaining and not explaining, besides, even if you explain, do you think he will believe you? If I don't believe you, how can you deal with yourself? Asking for trouble, for sure!

3. Live your own life.

Since you have started a person's life, then live your own life, don't think about those past things, if you always think, you can't live well, so the impact on you is that the present no longer belongs to you, the past can't be recovered, and in the end there is nothing, it is better to stop thinking about those things from the beginning, so as not to make trouble for yourself.

Actually, I think that since you can get to the point of breaking up, it must be because of many things, a misunderstanding may just be the fuse, but the result is the same, if two people cherish this relationship, if two people trust each other, how can they break up because of a misunderstanding? Since it's a misunderstanding, let's keep misunderstanding, maybe one day I understand what happened, I guess I'll feel sorry, but it's better than you to redeem your distrust of you!

I don't feel like it's necessary.

At that time, the two of you had already caused a lot of misunderstandings, but you didn't explain these things clearly at the time, and now that the two of you have broken up, even if you both know that the incident at that time was a misunderstanding, but now you are both disappointed in each other, what's the use of explaining these things clearly?

When two people are together, they should cherish the opportunity to be together, and accumulate all the misunderstandings together, which is originally the mistake of the two of you, if a misunderstanding is solved at the time, it will not accumulate more and more, and accumulate to the point that a person feels disappointed, does not want to continue the relationship, and even accumulates until the two of you break up.

There are really a few couples who can be friends after a breakup, even if they can really be friends on the surface, your state of mind is very different from before, and after the breakup, you may feel that everyone should start their own lives, so you don't want to have any interaction with the previous things. Of course, there is no need to explain everything so clearly.

If you still like him, continue to want to be with him, and feel that the original misunderstanding between the two of you can continue to be a couple if it is resolved, you can really try it, but if you don't want to continue to be with him, and you just don't want him to think that you are a bad person, then there is really no need to explain for this.

Everyone can't let go of the past, but they are full of illusions about the future. For this, there is really no need to dwell on the past.

If one of you has nothing to do with your future, but the people around you are unhappy now, it is really unnecessary.