What is it like to be born with bad luck?

Luck is only an external factor, and the key is to turn things around on your own. Luck is an occasional event that affects an individual or a group, and it can be good or bad. Luck is different, and the outcome can be completely different, so luck is beyond human control and unpredictable.

Some people also say that luck is luck, strength is strength, the two are complementary to each other, but many things are determined by strength and luck together, luck may not be able to grasp, but what you can grasp is your strength. All you have to do is improve your strength as much as possible and minimize the impact of bad luck on you. Generally speaking, the stronger the strength, the less bad luck will be bad for you, but no matter how strong the strength is, sometimes the impact of luck cannot be completely counteracted, what you can do is to constantly improve your strength, use your strength to get through this period of bad luck, and wait for the "good luck" to come, that is, to prove everything with strength.

Even if you're lucky, you may be satisfied for a while and succeed, but what about later? There's still plenty of time for you to be sure that good luck will be with you? What luck can't do, strength can do, and it will only get better and better!

No matter who you are, you want your life to be full of excitement every day; No matter who you are, you hope that your career can go smoothly and smoothly to brilliant achievements; No matter who you are, you want your future to be a smooth road without bumps and falls. However, many things do not follow people's wishes, so that people always encounter some unpleasant setbacks in life. In ancient times, numerologists formed a fortune according to the year, month, day and time of birth, and then took every ten years as a major fortune and each passing year as an annual fortune.

According to the information displayed by the fortune bureau, you can calculate the wealth and poverty of each person, and then you can see the good fortune and misfortune of each time period by combining the information displayed by the fortune. In this way, the aura formed by each journey is called luck. Luck has a good side and a bad side for everyone, if anyone encounters particularly bad luck, then he will be more than lucky in this journey, often showing illness, bankruptcy, disability, official misfortune and other unfortunate life disasters.

For a person who understands his own fate, when he encounters bad luck for himself, he will face it with a steady and low-key mentality, and to transition, so that he can avoid and alleviate the occurrence of disasters and setbacks, and even if he inevitably suffers some misfortune, he will calmly accept the arrangement of fate without giving up on himself. In this way, we can make the unhappy life not lose an optimistic attitude, so that we can better get out of the predicament.

I'm a chicken, a shaver, and I often miss opportunities in front of opportunities. When I graduated from junior high school, in terms of study and test scores, it can be said that I was the second in the test score in the two graduating classes of the whole level at that time, and as a result, I was recommended by high school politics, and my family belonged to a middle peasant family, and the political recommendation was not recommended, but I recommended a study second-to-last, because he was born in a poor middle peasant family. As a result, because he couldn't go to school in his studies, he couldn't get along in high school for two years, so he dropped out of school and went home to farm.

This is to give him such a good opportunity to continue his education, but due to his shallow cultural knowledge, stupid brain, and slow reaction ability, he did not seize this good opportunity and missed his bright future. I also have a classmate, much better than me in studying, he is not greedy for fun and only knows how to study, and is often bullied by me and other classmates, but people are never annoyed or hidden, how to study or how to study, never give up the opportunity to learn, to graduate due to his father's care, directly sent to the army as a soldier for several years of training, from the squad leader to the company instructor, and finally to the regimental political commissar. Until now he is retired, he has relied on his cultural knowledge in the army, a good pen, and a brain.

This is called opportunity plus skill, that is, he used his knowledge and seized the opportunity to achieve his life. The same two classmates have different fates.

A lucky life has its own reason, and an unhappy life has its own inevitability. In the process of life, there will always be all kinds of tests and blows, and if there are no bruises all over the body, I think at least it is an imperfect life. Only by bravely facing the unfortunate life can we completely change our luck and thus change our unfortunate life.

We often attribute luck and failure to a person's luck, but luck is a combination of luck and luck. The ancients in China believed that the so-called fortune is fate, and the so-called fortune is the qi number of fate. The good fortune and misfortune that people suffer are determined by fate, in the "Southern History.

The Biography of Yang Xuanbao once described the fate of "a person is not only talented, but also lucky", that is, whether a person has a smooth career or a proud officialdom, talent is not the only one, but also must be affected by fate; As for the so-called qi number, Bai Juyi said in the poem "Xue Zhongcheng": "The situation is good for people's lives, and the length is the number of fortunes." In other words, I often hear about human life, and I think that the length of human life and the quality of one's destiny are determined by one's fortune.

In a person's life, the only opportunity for personal success is opportunity. And in our short decades, we may have to work hard for a lifetime for this opportunity that is still slim, and with the factor of luck, there are very few successful people. I don't think there's a need to exaggerate the factors of personal effort, there's no need to talk about the inevitable equation that hard work will lead to success, but we can't look down on the life changes brought about by opportunities, and take opportunities as part of our abilities.

The correct outlook on life lies in how you change and self-understanding, study hard and forge ahead in the process of constantly lowering, and have the courage to admit your shortcomings in the face of failure, adjust your mentality, don't always feel that success is your inevitable path, and don't think that opportunities are your best key to success. The road is very long, and you need to take it step by step, don't look down on yourself and underestimate others. The road must be walked by yourself, things must be done by yourself, aiming at opportunities, showing your talents, and fighting to create your own world.

I know a family of three, a daughter. The family is happy and prosperous, and the family is healthy and happy. Right?

But fate is ever-changing. One day, the hostess went to work in the fields, but a big cart fell off and flew up and broke her leg. A few years after my daughter got married, the subject had cancer, and she was just buried this year!

Don't think about luck, live actively, don't be afraid of others looking down on you, and don't look down on people. No one can guess when it will rain and the weather forecast will be inaccurate! People who are unlucky must have a good attitude, only then will good luck follow you.

People with a good attitude are naturally willing to play with you, and no one is willing to pay attention to you if you are in a bad mood, and no one is willing to take care of you if you are angry, and they will not look for you if there are good things. In addition, it is not enough to have a good attitude, contact more with positive people, and learn more with people with ability, only in this way can you slowly get better, come on! There is sunshine in the heart, and there is no point in sadness.

The ancients said: Life is determined by heaven, and fortune is born by oneself. That is to say, the unfortunate life of a person with bad luck is predestined and arranged by God, and cannot be changed, but luck can be changed as much as possible by his own efforts.

For example, the disabled, the very outstanding and outstanding Zhang Haidi, and many outstanding disabled athletes who have won the world championship, etc., are typical examples of their own hard work and change the unfortunate fate of their lives.

A person who is unlucky, first of all, must face the unfortunate life correctly, establish self-confidence, never give up on himself, dare to fight against fate, within the scope of his ability, with the help of others, try to work hard in a good direction, the sky does not live up to the painstaking people, and on the unfortunate road of life, there will be beautiful flowers, applause and tears of happiness!

In life, no one will have smooth sailing! The high and the low are different, the length is dwarfed, the blessing and the misfortune follow, the anode is yin, the cathode is yang, this is the precious philosophy of life left to us by the ancestors, we understand these, then when we reach the trough of life, we will have a clearer understanding of our own future, we will be more certain, no one will go well, and no one will always be at the trough, so that even in adversity, we will not be too anxious, too doubtful of ourselves.

The key is to get your mindset right. Maybe you feel that you are unlucky, it is all in the past, we can't change the past, but we can accept the past, learn from the past, and have a positive attitude. Are there miracles in the world?

No! That's just another name for effort!

I've been unlucky for more than 20 years, until now, whether it's a part-time job, or doing business on my own, it's a failure, going to work there and going out of business, never a day happy, but as long as you have a little money, you have to break the bank, really, for more than ten years, I really admire my own experience, a person can't even support himself, I don't know how to offend the uncle, such torture, more than dozens or stand-alone....

I think it's innate. No matter how hard you work if you are unlucky, you will be disappointed in the end. If you're lucky, you have an advantage in every aspect.

The number of dice is related to the strength and angle of the throw, etc., which can be said to be doomed as soon as you leave your hand, and there is no such thing as luck.

(1) Don't deliberately change, stability is a blessing. Many times, the impact of several consecutive years has made some people feel pressure, there are many things, there is a lot of resistance, and there are many troublesome things one by one. At these times, many people seem to have to choose the same way to deal with it, which is to escape, to change and get out of these unlucky days.

Such as quitting a job, such as ending a relationship, or even ending a certain marriage, or leaving a certain place. Actually, these are all unwise. Many people think that as long as they leave the current environment and go to a new environment, everything will go smoothly, which is wrong.

When luck is blocked, no matter what color clothes you are wearing, it is basically still a lot of trouble. Therefore, at this time, stability is a blessing, endure the moment, accumulate strength, and wait for good luck.

2) Try to participate in less white events and more happy events. Unless it is necessary, for some unlucky friends, it is better to participate in activities such as white things as little as possible. Because when your luck is low, if you take the liberty of participating in some white things, your luck resistance will decrease, although it may not have a great impact.

But to the already eventful life will add some variables that you don't expect. On the contrary, if you can, people are in good spirits when they are happy, and they can participate in more happy events. When you're unlucky, try to get closer to someone who is lucky, and although the process is difficult and you don't necessarily get together all the time, it's also a good way to get closer.

3) Learn more, meditate, and constantly increase yourself. In Bazi and life, there is actually one thing that will not change or be greatly affected by good luck, and that is learning. Therefore, in our world, a poor family can produce a noble son, and a scholarly family can also produce a noble son, and learning is generally not affected by luck.

People who have a bad life, people who are unlucky, can learn well just as much as they study. Therefore, when you are unlucky, the best thing to do is to keep learning and increase yourself until the opportunity comes. At the same time, through study, continue to cultivate the mind and meditate, and improve yourself in all aspects.

There are things that should be there, and there are things that shouldn't be there. Joy and jealousy, half a catty and eight taels. The luck of the year is turbid and clear, and the opposite is fierce. Therefore, there are many successes and failures. Such a life requires self-cultivation. Planting cabbage on the wall, whether it is high school or white, is in one mind. Lotte knows its fate, so it is not worried.

After all, people who are born with good luck are in the minority, and we can only learn through hard work. The harder you work, the luckier you get, that's what I believe in. Remember that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, and good fortune does not come to the lazy for nothing.

People who are unlucky are caused by both subjective and objective reasons. The summary has the following aspects:

Subjectively, I didn't find my position, I didn't have a sense of direction when I worked hard, and I didn't know where the center of gravity was, which could easily lead to standing still.

If you don't know how to be flexible, make a mistake or make a mistake, you must correct it in time, stop your losses in time, and continue to move forward.

Objectively, there are always people behind you who manipulate you or dig up your fruits. A person has great ability, but like the Monkey King in the palm of the Buddha, everything is under the control of others, but he doesn't know anything at all, and he will not succeed in doing anything in the end.

Or you make unremitting efforts and move forward bravely, but someone takes the fruits of your labor behind your back, and you can't find it but think it's bad luck.

Life is between heaven and earth, and the operation of heaven and earth has a significant impact on people, so the ancients said that heaven and man are one. If people's behavior is in line with the Tao, things will be done smoothly and luck will be good.

Lao Tzu said that man is the law of the earth, the earth is the law of the sky, and the heaven is the law.