Under my current conditions, will there be a man who will marry me

Alas, sympathy.

When meeting a man who has no sense of responsibility, it is indeed a little sad for a woman. I don't want to live with you, but I still let you have a baby. I don't care about the children. This kind of man really doesn't have any merit.

You can talk to him seriously and see what he really wants, and you have to know what he thinks now. If he also really wants to get a divorce, there is nothing he can do. However, if it is a divorce, will you be able to raise this child?

If you are financially able, or if you can get a lot of money from a divorce, it may be okay to say. Now it's mostly about what you do later in life? If you still want children with you, it is estimated that it will be a little difficult to find a man again.

It's better if you don't have children. If you really want to divorce, then it is better to let the man raise the children (what a poor child, so young to be kicked around). If you are alone, it is more or less better than "getting married with children".

Can't tell, others can't make decisions for you. Think about it before making your own decision.

The current society is no longer the patriarchal inferiority of the old society, you have to be brave to pursue your own happiness, and children cannot be your excuse. There is no happiness in people who have no feelings and are reluctant to be together. You have to think about how long a life is, although it is only a few decades, but we only have such a life, we have the right to live comfortably and happily, don't suppress ourselves too much.

It's good for both of you. Otherwise, if your child grows up in a loveless environment, in an environment full of gunpowder, then he will have a shadow, psychologically.

All I can say is just a suggestion, and it's up to you to do what you want to do in the end. No matter what your final decision is, as long as you can not regret it, then I will bless and support you; )

It stands to reason that they should be persuaded and not discouraged. But I don't think so.

To be a woman, you must be self-reliant. If you are self-reliant, you can find any kind of man.

If you do what you describe now, it's not just you who will be hurt, but also the children! If you leave that man and stand on your own, if you find someone who likes you again, I believe he will accept your child.

If you let your child continue to grow up in quarrels, it is estimated that when he grows up, he will hate the two of you.

It's going to be a little! Because life is a long road! I fell in love with a girl who had a husband, and she didn't like her husband because that person was always forcing her to do things that ordinary people couldn't imagine!

She was so sad, I listened to her, I was so uncomfortable, the first time I saw her, it was a bit like I had seen her in my life! She also said the same, she wants to get a divorce, but now that she is pregnant with a child, she really doesn't know what to do! She's only twenty-two years old!

Yes, I sympathize with you, and I understand your feelings, it is better to leave him than to live a miserable life together, there is still a long way to go, I believe you will meet a good man. Because you're a good woman! Be strong, most of today's men have this situation, and we as women can only be strong to face the reality.

I have a friend who is in the same situation as you, she has remarried, and she has her son with her, and she is doing well! Don't think too much, the earth lives the same without anyone, and he may really not be the final destination of your fate! Give it up!

You shouldn't stay with such a man! Find your own happy life!

You are 1000 times happier than me, you should all feel happy, at least you still have a future, I have nothing, what a lively girl I used to be in my hometown, how many boys pursue the goal but I just married to a place that everyone in Beijing envies, the nightmare began at this moment, for him I became a cripple for life, his love for me slowly decreased, and domestic violence was slowly added, I didn't have the courage to divorce, just wait for the day I can't bear it, and make my extreme solution.

What does such a man want him to do, and the upstairs, don't be cowardly, it's better to give up such a marriage. I'm sure you'll all find someone who truly loves you...

He was the one who turned around first, and I look down on him for such a man. Although I'm a boy too! To be a man should be to be a husband! Now you should be brave enough to face the reality and welcome a better tomorrow!

It's only 27, what are you afraid of, some people are just getting married at 27! But it also depends on what kind of man you are looking for to marry! ~！Isn't it???

There will be good people, I wish you happiness!

1. Sufficient economic foundation as support.

In this era, if you want to start a family, the condition that you must consider is undoubtedly money, which is not to say vanity and power, this is just one of the conditions for surviving in this society.

2. The character of both parties.

Marriage is a matter of two people, the most important thing for two people together is to be able to run in, if they can tolerate and understand each other, then it is possible to live, the man must have enough sense of responsibility to take on the whole family, and the woman must be tolerant and understanding, two people to manage the marriage together, in order to harvest a happy life.

3. Freshness will maintain the quality of the marriage.

Freshness is the most important thing in any situation, keep a proper distance, and give the other half a new experience every day, such as giving each other a little surprise every day, a flower, and a beautiful dinner.

4. The parents of the other half will not interfere too much.

The most breaking thing for a woman after getting married is to face the problem of her in-laws, for fear that her in-laws will not like it and make things difficult everywhere, which is the problem that women are most worried about. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact, and two people cannot understand each other, which is prone to many problems.

5. Whether a man has true love for you.

Whether a man has true love for you, whether he has a heart to play or really wants to live with you for a lifetime, you can see from the man's usual details and attitude towards you, whether he can tolerate you and tolerate you, if he is not sincere, don't get married.

6. Family atmosphere.

The family atmosphere of a family is too important, if the family is deserted, everyone does not talk, and everyone does their own things, the family will be very depressing after staying for a long time.

When a man feels that two people are dependent on each other, living together energetically, and being very happy, he can consider getting married. As for the economic conditions, it can be changed through later marriage, relying on the ingenuity and hard work of two people to create wealth and make life perfect.

A man does not have to have much wealth, as long as he can support his family, and at the same time be considerate of his wife and children, such a man is suitable for marriage.

Indeed, many women think this way in their hearts, but in reality, there are always times when they don't meet such a person, but just with a person who is inferior to themselves in all aspects.

In this regard, some women love when they love, they don't think so much, they will only go well with each other, but there are always some women who, after being together, will still be very entangled, not knowing whether to continue forever, or even get married.

I will feel that the other party's conditions are not as good as my own, I am afraid that I will drag myself down, and I will think that I can find a better one, and I don't have to do it.

After all, marriage is a big deal, and as a woman, you will think about it more, which is actually normal.

In the face of such a situation, whether to continue or not cannot be generalized, it still depends on the specific situation.

It depends on whether you are comfortable with each other.

When a person's conditions are not as good as yours, such as education, family background, work, etc., you will choose to be with him, there must be a reason, which means that there are still things that attract you in him.

Now that you have chosen him, when considering whether you want to go on forever, you might as well feel how you feel in terms of communication with each other and in getting along with each other on weekdays.

If you find that you are often not on the same channel, your thoughts are not at the same level at all, even the quarrel is that no one can understand anyone, and it is just very painful to be together, then of course, you have no need to continue this relationship.

Two people who are not at the same frequency as each other, no matter what you chose to start for, in the years to come, the contradictions between you will only get bigger and bigger, and it is really difficult to have a good result.

And if you say that although you seem to have some differences in some hard conditions, you always have a tacit understanding in chat and daily life, and you feel very comfortable, this relationship is actually worth continuing.

To live with a person, the conditions are very important, and more importantly, it is true that they can really get along with each other and get along happily.

Being able to be so happy together has already outdone too much, and it has already shown that you are really suitable.

Your boyfriend doesn't have to be better than you, as long as you can be aggressive, self-motivated, and responsible.

First of all, I want to ask you, do you love his people?

Many girls think that most boys like to choose in love, and getting married is not about finding someone they like, but casually, just live a good life. So, is it really the same for a guy to marry whomever he marries? It depends on personal conditions, and most people can still choose who they want to marry.

1, probably not, people will choose to be with the person they like, look and character, etc., some men will also choose good economic conditions, helpful to themselves, if he feels that it is the same with whoever he marries, it is not normal, it may also be a gay, if he had an unforgettable relationship before, and then not together, maybe later he will feel that it is the same with whom, I am looking at **, I don't know if there is such a situation in reality.

2. It still depends on the person, some men themselves have no room to choose, and everyone is a general. Some men have the conditions to choose, and they must still want to find a favorite and suitable one. It's like a one-click to eat, if you're hungry and have no money, others will give you porridge, steamed buns, noodles, and rice, but you have to choose to eat what you like.

3. The rich and powerful marry the one they love; those who have no money, no power, and good looks marry and love themselves; Someone with a stupid mouth, low appearance, and poor family conditions is better than himself; Marry someone with a disability like yourself, live with a partner, and stay warm!

In general, no matter who you marry, the view that the knot is the same is a negative proposition. In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to find the right person to get married and live. The divorce rate in modern society is extremely high, with 64 in Heilongjiang Province and at least 34 in other provinces.

I believe that first of all, the two should have similar interests and the same goals, and secondly, the three views are the same, and they are responsible again, and fourth, abide by the love contract, be loyal, and love is not another.