Should I give up? Or hold on! Should you give up, or should you persevere!

Hello, have you looked for your own reasons? Her parents are not only against your family, if you have a strong technology, even if your family is not good, then I think her father will not strongly object, it doesn't matter if our family is not good, the most important thing is that you can have a good ability, so that you can convince others! If the two of you do, you're climbing high.

All parents in the world hope that their children will be happy in the future, can find a good support, her family is so rich, and does not look at how heavy the money is, not to mention that the current society does not pay attention to what is right, the most important thing is whether your kid has real ability, can you give your daughter happiness, if you have no ability, after getting married in the future, you will have to rely on your father-in-law to give money to live, then of course people can't marry their daughter to you, are you right? I hope you can think about it, if you think you can do it and can achieve a career, then I support you! Go for it!

Love autonomy, state regulations. Registration of marriage, legal protection. It is recommended to coordinate this matter with the local civil affairs or women's federation. It's not the old society either, it's too hateful.

This question, as a parent, you definitely want your daughter to marry a good family, you still have to work hard, do some careers, and impress others.

Give up, you're not acting in a romance movie.

Call the police. This is called the fundamental idea of restricting the freedom of life and the freedom of love.

God cannot forgive this sin. Let the woman's parents go to jail to clear their own sins.

You give up, work hard.

By returning the chicken 8 newbies. The children have it.

Handle it yourself!

You're giving up the best!

Give up what should be given up, stick to what should be insisted on!

Give it up. Love is a matter of two people.

But marriage is not.

If you love her, you should still insist, and her parents' side mainly relies on her own to convince.

Abandon.

You know that this kind of fruitless relationship will only bring you more and more pain.

But your feelings and reason are in conflict, reason makes you leave, feelings want you to continue, inner contradictions, people will suffer.

When people are in pain in their hearts, they will activate the psychological defense mechanism to protect themselves, and the feeling of being unable to extricate themselves belongs to one of the self-deception mechanisms, and you will have this thought: "She has her own suffering, she loves me." "There is hope for me and her.

I may never see such a nice person again. Use this to convince yourself to continue in order to get temporary emotional comfort.

Therefore, I want to end this bad relationship, withdraw from it, and come out. It is necessary to break your psychological defenses and get out of your emotional comfort zone.

Three suggestions for you:

1. Work hard

Busy, is the best medicine for all cranky negative emotions.

Fill your life with work and study.

Wasting your mind on the wrong person is meaningless internal friction, it is better to use this energy to earn money, to improve yourself, and then you will meet better people.

2. Emotional resolution

Don't suppress yourself anymore, venting can really let the emotions pass.

Instead of relying on yourself to figure it out and calm your mood, it is better to vent directly.

Go to boxing, basketball, and let out all the qi; Go to the K song and shout out the dissatisfaction and grievances in the high voice; Go to the venting house, make trouble, smash and go crazy, and send out all your dissatisfaction; Get together with friends, have a chat, and talk about your thoughts.

When the clouds cleared, it was naturally sunny.

For the little thing of feelings, when the emotions have passed, you can come out of it, and then find sunshine and self-confidence.

3. Change the way of love

Emotional "inextricability" is not wrong.

This shows that you are loyal to your feelings and love. But only the right people are worthy of your sincerity. Men's attitude towards feelings is mostly passive, but when you come out, when you are more handsome, more capable, and more sunny and confident.

You have to change your love method and take the initiative to love someone who is worthy.

Of course, all emotional changes will make people have varying degrees of psychological trauma. Some people are able to come out quickly through positive self-adjustment, but some serious trauma requires psychological intervention and healing by professional psychological counselors.

Life will inevitably have ditches and ups and downs, and it is inevitable that there will be depression.

In the face of adversity and disaster, don't be discouraged, learn to give up. Face the lost.

Something, some people are always complaining, but they don't look for new ways, isn't it?

Knowing that "Seon lost his horse, how can he know if he is blessed?" "In fact, in life, we should learn a little.

Give up, so that your heart will be broad, your pace will be relaxed, yours.

The days will also be brighter because of this.

Learn to give up, cherish life, live well, live happily, and live.

Be healthy, live peacefully, and live in style. No matter how hard you suffer.

It's hard, you have to live. What is truly yours in your life? That's health.

It is said that "power is temporary, honor is eternal; Wealth is posterity.

Yes, calisthenics Kang is its own. "You have to learn to give up, we will always be hurt in life, on the side of hurt.

In the past, people sometimes fell into a deep predicament, and when they could not bear it psychologically, they would act in extreme ways, especially if they were hurt emotionally. At.

Many times, others don't even know how painful your heart is, though.

You've been tortured to the ground, but the one who hurt you won't have any.

Feel. To learn to give up, sometimes I also think, people are hurt sometimes only a few.

Seconds of things, I hope to forgive a person does take some time, I hope forgive me.

So that our hearts are at peace again, and forgiveness is a relief, a kind of heart.

Willing to let the spirit fly.

It depends on what kind of things you encounter, if you can succeed with a little effort, then you must persevere, if there is no hope at all, then you have to give up!

persistence and renunciation; Two words that seem to be easy to write with a single stroke; But it makes it difficult for many people to choose now; Persistence is afraid of failure! Give up unwillingly!

Persistence may not necessarily get you a great result; Or what you expect; or your goals; But it gives you a chance; And if you insist on doing one thing, you will become more and more motivated! But give up; Once you have this thought; You are doomed to fail; You yourself have lost faith in yourself; I have given up my own hope!

Now many people are facing such a problem; Many people are torn between holding on and giving up; Feelings, careers, life, and so on; Some people are insistent without seeing hope; Some are self-deluded renunciation! But whether it's sticking to it; Or give up everything; Why can't we hold on a little more and give up? Some people think it's chicken soup in their hearts; But I said no; That's true; Sometimes hold on a little longer; You can see hope!

But many people give up before hope comes!

It's really a lot easier to hold on than to give up; Sometimes you just have to stick to it; What can bring you is a future that you dare not imagine! But once you give up; It's not just unwillingness; and remorse; It can even make you fall! Looking at the surface may be easier to give up; In fact, it is harder to give up; At the very least, I don't want me to be like I gave up and let myself live in remorse and depravity!

I'd rather simply hold on a little longer; You can see the dawn of hope for tomorrow!

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what is unacceptable.

Knowing how to give up is also a kind of wisdom, and knowing how to give up can also find another kind of happiness of relief. Life is like that sometimes, you can't go through life with everything you want. So, if you want to achieve your goals, you have to give up.

It is easy to succeed by letting go of the chaotic thoughts and desires that have nothing to do with your heart, and only seeing what you want to achieve. If you are willing to give up, you will have to give to you. There is a certain amount of weight that each person can carry in his life, and if you hit the road too early, you will have to give up some of your cherished things in exchange for something else.

The choices in life are so imperfect, but that's what life really means. Lighten the burden of life, give up some troubles, give up some benefits, you will be able to travel lightly, and you will be associated with happiness.

It depends on what reason you broke up, if he is in love with someone else, then there is no need to redeem it, even if it is redeemed, it has deteriorated, and it is said to myself that he gave up on me, it is he who is not blessed, my excellence will be appreciated, I can find a better one than him. In fact, everyone has the experience of falling out of love, the best healing medicine is time, no matter how deep the relationship is after many years, you can laugh it off, and the person you love feels like just a passerby in life after the washing of time. But if the two of you still have each other in your hearts, then you might as well try to redeem him and make yourself less regretful.

Hello! I think it's because we're doing everything on our shoulders! And with heavy burdens, we have to keep moving forward!

So sometimes we have to learn to give up something, something that may have been ours and is or will no longer be ours! Maybe that's going to make it a little easier.

Anyone will have problems, some people have problems solved, and some people don't. A good attitude is destined for a person's success or not. No matter what we encounter, we should have a good attitude, actively forge ahead, be strong and unyielding.

In life, we will encounter such and such problems, the only person who can change these things is himself, only if he has confidence in himself, you can calmly complete your life road, the road ahead is very long, on the way we have walked in our life, there will be an oasis, there will be wind and sand. Bumpiness and flatness exist at the same time. When encountering setbacks, you must show your own courage and face them bravely.

When you try to face difficulties and pressures, I believe that these difficulties will one day succumb to your feet and face life with a new attitude. Believing in yourself is equivalent to having infinite power.

Also, please think carefully about what is bothering you the most now, and then try to solve them one by one, and finally when everything is solved, you will not be as annoyed as you are now, you will think, "Oh! It turns out that life can be so easy and so beautiful! ”

Persistence may not be successful, but giving up will be comfortable.