What is the right thing to do but embarrassed to do?

Speaking in public, I am a very introverted person, usually I don't communicate with people much, so I especially want to give a speech in public, my unconscious is longing for my performance well, to be recognized by others, and at the same time I have no confidence in my mind, so I feel anxious, and I am afraid that my goals and desires will not be achieved and worried.

I used to think that there were a lot of face-saving things to do. As I get older, I become more and more reluctant to do this. In the past, my friends called for dinner and sang until late, and I wanted to leave, but my friends said that I was not interesting enough, so I didn't leave for the sake of face.

I went to work the next day and felt dizzy. Friends pull the field to get in the way of face. Now I really don't want to spend my time inappropriately for these things.

I always felt that I didn't dare to do anything, I didn't dare to go to the interview, I was embarrassed to go shopping alone, I was embarrassed to face my relatives, I felt so shy, so ashamed, I always felt that I couldn't do anything.

When I was a child, I learned an article that asked me to choose me, and I always thought that I could be as brave as that child to ask the leader to recommend myself and change to a position I liked, but I was always afraid that I was not good enough to be competent, so every time the words came to my mouth and swallowed again.

I've always wanted to go to the gym to work out, but I'm afraid that it will be embarrassing to go alone, I'm afraid that the gym will expose my imperfect body, I'm afraid that the way of exercising is not so proficient, I'm afraid that others will secretly ridicule me, and I'm afraid that I'll be embarrassed if I can't operate.

In order to challenge myself, I want to participate in the English speech contest at school, and I want to share my love for English with the people around me, but I am always afraid that others will laugh at me and look down on me.

I've always wanted to quit because the current job salary is relatively low, the working hours are relatively long, and the most important thing is that I don't like it very much, but because this job is arranged by my family to help me turn around, I have not dared to speak.

I always feel embarrassed to sing when I go to KTV with my classmates! What should I do if I am afraid that I will not sing well and be embarrassed? How can we overcome this shortcoming? I'm afraid of being embarrassed by anything.

I think it's a little bit bad to do this, it's a little bit lighter, it's not good to do it, it's a bit blunt to say it.

It's hard to accept.

Why is it that some people just don't do things well?

For example, if someone wants to cook a dish, he has eaten it and the other person has made it very well, and he has taught him all the ways to make it delicious. And then he'd think, oh, that's so easy! I'll do that too.

Next, he wanted to cook the same dish, but in the end, it was unpalatable.

Do you know how this person did it?

1. Need to add a few drops of soy sauce, he thinks he needs to buy a whole bottle of soy sauce for one dish? It's too wasteful, isn't it just a few drops of soy sauce, it shouldn't affect the taste of the dish. I used salt instead. Soy sauce saved.

2. You need to add a few drops of sesame oil, well, just for a dish, but also a whole bottle of sesame oil, which costs a lot of money, just a few drops of oil, it will not affect the taste, save it. Sesame oil saved.

3. You need two slices of ginger, and there are no two slices of ginger in the vegetable field to buy, so you have to weigh and sell them, and the rest is not to be wasted? Save it, it shouldn't affect the taste too much, just do it the same way.

4. Save it!

5. It is also saved.

6. Save again.

The final dish is made! He felt that everything was made according to the method given by the master, so why couldn't he make the same delicious dishes? It's better to wait for someone else to make a ready-made dish every time, because it's not delicious.

This is where many people never do things well, they are not willing to pay any cost for everything they use, and they can't see how much they pay behind what others do. It always feels like it's too easy, and I'll do it. What I'm going to do is something that is complicated and someone else can't.

Eyes are high and low! Moreover, he resolutely refused to admit it, it was just a few drops of sesame oil missing, all of which were made according to the master's words, and I don't know why it was not done well!

Please note that what is said here is that "all" is according to the master's steps, and he really does not say everything against his will, but in his thinking, he really feels that what he has done is already the same as the master!

What's worse is that under normal circumstances, all of his things are done like this, the teacher taught him, he felt very simple, I would do it, and the teacher was just like that, I didn't have to do it, I would do it. In his thinking, he feels that he is better than the teacher, because what the teacher said is too simple, and there is no difficulty.

And when you don't know what you do, you can't do it at all.

This kind of wonderful, I really don't know what everyone thinks!

Every tattoo requires extraordinary courage, especially after I have been entangled and conflicted again and again after more than a year. Peng Liuyun opened the door for me, and President Mo trusted me and let me join Liuyun, even though my new account didn't even publish any articles at that time. The passion of being trusted also gave me some strength and rekindled my hope for literature.

Walking into Liuyun allowed me to meet more like-minded friends and see the difference between Liuyun. The awesome Ziling knows how to be grateful. Be loyal to your duties and constantly pursue your dreams; Disciplined; Wen Feng is talented and scheming.

Active, enthusiastic, cute, cute little carp, etc., although I haven't been here for a long time and haven't had much contact, but from the silent attention every day, I feel more and more that a group of people are cute, and it ignites my love and protection for this "land".

Chasing my dreams is a good example for me to learn. Through her words, I see a girl who pursues her dreams, as her name suggests, chasing them for thousands of miles.

The meaning is really different, the former is just a little bad at doing things, and the latter is not doing things at all.

Caused by a large production of adrenal hormones, it can be balanced or controlled through exercise, and another point is that the traditional cultural education of Chinese is also affected.