People are very selfish, and we are forced to separate ourselves by our families.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Parents will always treat you as their private property, I hope we will obey my words, I want to marry my girlfriend, lead the family to meet my parents, my parents dislike my girlfriend is too short, say that I don't agree, don't ask me to marry him, in fact, people are slowly getting used to it, but what things, when you see too much, you get used to it, now our parents don't buy us a house, we save money together to buy a house, although life is very hard but quite happy, my parents slowly approve, time will change everything, Love is free, and true feelings will break through any limit!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you feel that love is more important and can accept all the pressure of being with him, be brave enough to say no to your parents! Then what you have to do is prove to your parents that you are worth it with him, and take the time to gain their understanding.

    Withdrawing and not facing it is an escape from the problem and will not solve the problem at all!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Alas, in fact, don't always blame each other for being extreme, two people together, if you want to be long, there must always be one party who will be particularly able to endure, since this feeling is your own, why bother who pays more and who pays less, as long as you can be happy, it's enough, try to think calmly and talk, is it that those happiness was so insignificant, is it not worth talking face-to-face with you? For your parents to force you to separate, maybe the parents' intentions are good, but their ideas are also old-fashioned conservative thinking, you can try to talk to your parents, after all, parents love their children, and in the end, most of them are based on their children's wishes. If your parents don't agree, you really want to be together, simple, spend 6 yuan, get a certificate, everything is OK; It's really divided, and I can tell you with great promise that time can wash away everything, just remember, be good to yourself.

    If no one loves you, you have to love yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I guess you're not old, don't worry, look at it, maybe you'll be sad in a short time, but time will dilute everything, and I didn't believe that time will change everything, but really, I've told you that you'll get better, study hard, work hard, and when you make achievements and become independent, no one will force you, and you can pursue your own happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, there is no need for this, but in the end it is you who will hurt yourself and your parents. A man is nothing, there is no one in this world who can't live without anyone, don't care too much, maybe you will say that the person concerned is not me, of course it is difficult to understand your feelings. It is the authorities who are fascinated and the bystanders are clear.

    If you live your life well in the future, you will take revenge on that man.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm a bachelor with "three nos", and your fate is much better than mine, hehe.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Seeing what you said, I expressed my regret in my heart, I hope you can come out of this life as soon as possible, there is no unbearable Kan, time is the best doctor, I believe that everything will slowly get better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you cherish two people who love each other, no matter what kind of hardships they go through, I think as long as they care about each other, why fear everything.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Parents are the best people in this world for you, they are the most selfless for your love and hair, and their choices should be sober and rational, so, I suggest you accept it well.

    The woman and her family are innocent, you can't hurt them because you don't like them, and the relationship between people is not established all at once, don't say it is impossible too early, try hard, and use a period of time to prove whether it is right or wrong, it is really inappropriate, I believe your parents will also compromise.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The sun shines on the earth and does not care about the shadows on the earth; The sea is tolerant of all rivers and will not care about the filth of the river. Be a loving person, whether others love you or not, at least you can love them. May you have more joy and love in the new year instead of living a miserable life full of hatred.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The power of love is great.

    Just love each other. You have to work hard to get it.

    The lover can be with him for the rest of his life!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is selfish, as long as you don't regret it, let it go!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then you have to try to get your boyfriend's family to approve of you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As long as the two love each other, they don't have to pay attention to other people's opinions.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1 If he loves you, that's not a problem. 2 If he doesn't love you very much, that's an excuse.

    If it is the first case, you should ask the real reason for disagreement, and prescribe the right medicine, not only for your efforts, but also for him to work together. If a man annihilates family affection for the sake of love, it is not worth marrying, if he gives up love for the sake of family affection and has a tragic hero complex, you are both in pain, a wise man will not let this happen, and a woman with the same brain will assist a man not to let this happen. You take care of his relationship with his mother, and maybe, it will help you.

    We don't know your specific situation, so it's not good to give you any constructive advice. Besides, feelings also depend on fate. If it's the second case, just say goodbye.

    Is it you who suffers, or do you think he's just as miserable? Maybe he's on a blind date with a woman, maybe not.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why should they disagree! Hold on, but never live with them!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Right and wrong grievances are laughed at with the wind.

    Gathering and dispersing is inevitable in life.

    Love may grow old.

    Really young forever.

    There is me, you have tomorrow.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, parents don't agree that they don't need to separate, I think you should first find out what is the reason for the other party's disagreement? Some can be remedied, and you should find a way to make the other parent like you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I have experienced pain similar to yours, although the most painful time has passed, but maybe the scars will not heal for a lifetime, and it is inevitable to have attacks from time to time, so I can understand your current feelings. Love is a very strange thing, no matter how much you hear or see it, if you don't experience it yourself, it's always someone else's story. The sweetness of love is the same, and the pain is basically just a few versions, but only when it really happens to yourself can you experience the heart-rending and heart-wrenching feeling.

    Looking at your narrative, there are several reasons for your pain: first, you love him so much that you can't continue to be together because of your family's opposition; Second, he used to be very determined, but now he has changed, and you feel disappointed and abandoned. Third, you can't let go of this relationship, but you feel that he has let go, you can't keep it, and you can't get his understanding, you don't even know what he really thinks.

    Poor thing, I was in a similar situation. I almost killed myself for it! Fortunately, I have a lot of responsibilities that cannot be shirked, and Sanmao also said:

    Those who are responsible do not have the right to die. "Although it was very painful, I still boiled it day by day, and I still took the responsibility that I should bear. Now, I still can't let go of it, and I think about him every day.

    Perhaps, I won't be able to let go for the rest of my life, but at least I can be sure that I won't die because of this again. It doesn't matter if I die, but I can't put the happiness of my relatives on the line, it's too selfish to do so!

    In my experience, your pain cannot be alleviated immediately, and it must be timed, and I suggest that you read more books during this time, so that I will continue to find comfort in books, be alerted, and be inspired, so that I will not continue to sink too much.

    Also, that man is hard to count on, even if he has his bitterness, but after all, he is a more cowardly person and is irresponsible to you.

    You can continue to suffer, but don't give up on your normal life, you still have to do what you need to do, and then, if you can't help it, cry again! There will always be a day when tears will drain!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can't give him a positive answer He's also tired So what he needs is for you to give him a positive answer You can't give it and then he can't decide that he has to do it, either you elope with him, and you're like this He thinks he's not important to you, if you don't hesitate to go to him and be with him, he'll love you very much, but you drag it out and don't have to prove it, he just thinks that you care about your family, not about him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't be stupid Don't be knocked down when you encounter a little problem Even if you don't do it for others, you have to love yourself Women should love themselves He doesn't know how to cherish He encountered a problem and avoided Leave you alone and run away What is the use of this kind of man Time can forget everything I believe there will be more people to cherish. Happiness wow. I don't know for what reason, though.

    But something is over, let it pass. Live well. Don't do anything stupid.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No one wants this to happen to them, but it's already happening. I hope you have to be brave in the face. Love is a part of life, not the whole story.

    Marriage should be considered holistically, and it is not just a decision for the man and the woman. If you continue to persevere, even if it is successful, then this matter will be a rift in your future marriage, and it will lead to a breakdown in the future. There is a good chance that this is possible.

    Love is sometimes beautiful, but it is also confusing, and it can make people not think about things and make wrong judgments.

    Many things are clear to the authorities and will only be understood after thinking about it, but it is too late.

    I hope you keep a clear head, see the essence of the matter, and think about it fundamentally.

    Everyone has his own characteristics, his personality. No one can guarantee later. To believe that the future is good, as long as you are alive, this is fundamental. Cherish life, cherish family affection, be kind to everyone around you, and be kind to yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's broken, and the man who doesn't dare to fight for your status in his family will have problems in the future if they are really together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have to know that he is already engaged, and if you go together, it hurts you anyway, either you simply give up and don't get in touch, or the man still likes you or wants to be with you, then talk about it, you can't be separated or still have to be together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you are really selfish, you should think about yourself, there is nothing bad about your fiancée, people are famous and shared, but you, you will become a junior when you play a good youth, you can be with him regardless of everything, but he can't pursue his love against the wishes of his family, it can be seen that he doesn't love you much, he is tired of you, people can return to the family, I am afraid that you have nothing, youth is no more, and the future is bleak.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let it go, dear! That girl is innocent, and everyone is hurt like you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Just break up and find someone that everyone is happy with.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Understand your suffering, the burden of inner pressure is the heaviest, and long-term failure to solve or release it can even change a person's temper or way of acting. But there's something wrong with your approach :

    First of all, there is a lack of heart-to-heart communication between you, and you should talk to him about the pressure in your heart, so that he will understand you even if he can't help you, and understand why you are losing your temper.

    Secondly, your lack of heart-to-heart communication indicates that there is a certain emotional barrier between you, at least you don't trust him very much, which will invisibly affect the emotions between you.

    Because you don't understand your inner pressure, and the anger you show will be understood by everyone as having a bad temper. What to do now is to open your heart and talk to him, and sincerely apologize, hoping to get his forgiveness, if he is a responsible man who broke up just because of your "temper", after understanding the inside story, he should forgive you and will redouble his care for you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You've all been through so much, you shouldn't be separated because of a little thing, calm down and think about it, solve it well, and you should be reconciled.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If it's wrong to love you, I don't want to be right; If right is equal to not having you, I'd rather be wrong for the rest of my life; If I had to add a time limit to love, I would say 10,000 years.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The boy is a good boy who attaches great importance to feelings, and in the end he was forced to break up because of your many unreasonable troubles, which was caused by nonsense, men also have a weak side, you have a big temper and he has been used to you, because he cares about your feelings for the past two years, and you, you don't know how to give, blindly taking, this is a very selfish performance, this is a bad behavior of your feelings. If you respect this feeling, you should not waste this precious feeling like this. If you want to redeem it, it is recommended that you find a boy, be calm, sincerely admit your mistakes, and say that you will respect each other in the future, cherish each other, change yourself from behavior, and be a quiet and gentle girl.

    The more gentle the girl in the relationship, the happier the two of you will be, I hope it will be useful to you, thank you!!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The happiest time to fall in love is often when the two of you can be together, suffer together, advance and retreat together.

    You go and apologize to her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it's right to tell her something, and it's not that you've done anything to be sorry for her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What can I do if I don't like you?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Is it that he has been tired in the middle of these two years?

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