How can you be attractive, that is, domineering??

There are two kinds of domineering people, one is natural appearance, and the other is self-cultivation. A person with a strong heart will unconsciously exude a charm that makes people feel that he is very special. So, enrich yourself, and slowly you will become attractive and will be liked by others

The so-called domineering means that the appearance should be able to shock the scene, and the momentum should overwhelm others, not vulgar, but moderate, in fact, I don't understand.

In fact, having charm has nothing to do with looks, the main thing is temperament. The story of Cao Cao's bedside knife must be known. "But the knife catcher at the head of the bed is a real hero! ”！Cultivate your own temperament first, and charm will naturally form.

According to their own personality, appearance, and doing things, simply put, what they do is different from the popular ones, {personality is not for everyone}

More contact with friends and more integration into society require accumulation.

No, it's the way you do things, you have a good lifestyle and habits.

From the heart, it all depends on self-cultivation.

Everyone's charm is different.

There are many kinds of charms, and domineering is not counted.

Be frank and decisive, do things without procrastination.

No, there are many kinds of charm, and the key is to like it and be attractive.

It depends on the individual. If you don't fit that kind of person, you won't feel that way no matter how much you dress.

The first thing to do is to learn to develop your self-confidence.

Hello, seeing your question, I feel that what you lack is not self-confidence, but self-awareness! I don't think being the best in the crowd is about being successful! Everyone has their own value, and that doesn't mean that you can only get it by being a dragon among men!

Since you can ask this question, it shows that you are not lacking in self-confidence! That's why you want to change yourself! For those who look beautiful but don't dare to confide in private, you are very courageous So I don't think you lack courage, what you lack is to recognize your own mentality!

Saying that you are not confident shows that you are not happy with your current situation, but can you really change the situation by getting ways to improve your self-confidence? I guess it's impossible in a short period of time! So how do you change that?

You don't really need to change! Now you take out a piece of paper, write your shortcomings on the left, and your strengths on the right (you can write anything, even if it's small, if you really can't write it, ask the people around you, don't be shy, it's everyone who will have your problems). After writing it, look at it carefully for another five minutes...

Well, now this piece of paper is your full picture!

If you look closely, you will find that no matter how many shortcomings you have, you actually have advantages! So what you need to do now is not to eliminate your shortcomings immediately, but to develop your own strengths

Dare to develop your own strengths, face up to your own shortcomings, and rely on your own efforts to change it! No one will say that this person is not confident!

You must know that it is better to be the best in the crowd than to hold your head high and be yourself!

So from now on, hold your head high and see anyone, anything, think about the good in your right! Get your mind right, in fact, you are no worse than others!

Start with temperament cultivation.

Adults say: For those who are younger than themselves, you should give way.

But I don't think so, because I have a cousin who is 10 years younger than myself, and every time he is very inch-inch, and many children nowadays have this problem, so as twice as old as them, we should give them some "lessons", of course, it is not okay to beat people, you should be a little bit like a very serious teacher, when they make mistakes, often criticize them harshly, or let them suffer some hardships, as for how much, to deduct the number, not too much, as long as they know that it is powerful.

Also, you mentioned that there is no way to communicate with them, so you can ask them to do something that you are good at, you know, you can show off to children with their temperament, as long as they know something, they will say it, to show that they are "very good".

You can educate them about that, so you may not quite understand it, for example.

For example, if you have read a lot of literature and are very proficient in it, then you can pick something that they can read at their age and let them read it, and then they will come and discuss their views with you, and then this is your chance: you can tell them a lot of unique opinions, make them convinced, and then worship you. Then your standing in their hearts will increase, and they will listen to you.

First of all, you have to have enough confidence in yourself. The charm is to amplify your own characteristics and specialties, show them well, and if you are domineering, you just need to be firm in your work.

This is a breakthrough in character, as well as a competition in appearance

If you are a man, you can learn a musical instrument, people who learn musical instruments are very temperamental, exercise more, and men with a little muscle are the most.

Just be beautiful or handsome.

Charm needs to attract attention, domineering, and outstanding!

First of all, of course, you are talking about self-confidence, which must be inside and out, not the kind that says: "I want to be confident", but the affirmation of yourself from the bottom of your heart after you really understand yourself comprehensively and correctly.

Domineering, of course, is the momentum from the inside out. It's not domineering, it's not arrogant. It is a kind of piety, a kind of bearing.

You are an introverted person, so you don't have to be domineering at the beginning, but you should let others feel it in their relationship with you.

Decisive but not arbitrary, firm but not stubborn, confident but not conceited, modest but not humble. It is necessary to show without publicity, and to make decisions and adopt them.

Have a broad mind. Accept your personality from the bottom of your heart, be calm and calm, your so-called bearing, domineering will naturally come out.

I think that the domineering here does not refer to the "domineering momentum" in the original meaning of the word, but a kind of momentum, a spirit that does not give up until the goal is achieved. With this kind of spirit, even if the appearance is weak, it will be admirable! Take Bill Gates as an example, he wears glasses and looks like a scholar, but in the face of his performance, who can deny his hidden domineering?

To obtain this kind of "domineering", it takes effort. I remember reading his biography in the past, he was very smart when he was a student, and he usually didn't take his homework seriously at all, but the week before the exam, he would put aside other things and concentrate on tutoring day and night. So, he can get a high score.

Whether it is "domineering" or "success", it is not superficial effort, it is not that you can dominate the world with the face of a deputy overlord, and behind the "fame in one fell swoop", there is a decade of hardship that no one cares about. So, work hard, have dreams, have actions, such a man is a real man!

Domineering, these temperaments are cultivated due to the environment!! Generally speaking, it doesn't mean that change just changes.

Knowing how to play to your strengths and overcome your weaknesses will make you more attractive. Be open to your own character.

If you really want to change, then you can try changing the environment.

I heard many superstitious friends say that having a serious illness can change your personality (probably to understand the truth of life and death).

Ambition: A great but not divided desire for territory, power, or fame, e.g., careerist, ambitious, wolf-like.

Ambition falls under the realm of psychology. Human ambitions range from cosmic to quarks.

Domineering: From a work point of view: 1It is necessary to have the concept of being overwhelming.

2.Ability to work beyond others.

3.Be decisive in your decision-making.

4.From time to time, hegemonism is adopted.

Learn more about the momentum of the monarchy, and be a high-profile person and do things! The domineering must have quality!

Have a sense of maturity in doing things, and let others obey you...