How did the Dink come up with the Dink idea?

For the Dink people, the material conditions can basically meet their own needs, if they do not have children, they can have more personal time, more money, and more energy to realize their self-worth in life. Not only that, but if they don't spend their time busy with their children's affairs, they will have more opportunities to live a better life. <>

The child is a burden, after giving birth to a child, no matter what you do, you have to take the child, no one cares about it, it affects your work, the child is still difficult to bring, crying all day long when you are young, the crying person is upset, and when you grow up, you have to save money for him to marry a daughter-in-law, if a girl marries out, she is still uncomfortable, so it is better not to give birth.

Some people are influenced by Western culture. In the developed countries of the West, families who are reluctant to have children are on the rise, and the exchanges between China and the West are becoming more and more frequent, so that Western concepts are introduced to China, and the Dink family begins to appear in China, especially those with a higher level of knowledge, it is easy to accept the Western way of life, and they feel that instead of focusing on raising children, it is better to focus on their own work and study.

Maybe it's because I've seen enough of the warmth and coldness of the world and the trivial things in life, I have a certain fear of having children, I yearn for personal time, I am willing to give the most precious time in my life to myself, I have my own ideas, I have more personality, and there is a possibility that I met the person who loves each other, and I don't care about so many worldly things.

It should be that when they were growing up, the family asked them to coax the children, I know that coaxing the children is a very tiring thing, and it is very annoying. I have to watch them every day, I can't let them bump into them, and sometimes I can't sleep well at night. I think they probably hate children a little bit, leaving a shadow in their hearts.

With the continuous development of the times, people's thinking has also been constantly broken through and improved, and people are no longer limited to the traditional thinking of the old society. Choose this idea of Dink. In fact, it is also a right and way of life that belongs to individuals, which is not surprising, but many people have not yet opened that kind of thinking.

In a way, it's just hard to understand.

In ancient times, there was a saying about raising children to prevent old age, but now, with the improvement of people's living standards and the increase in the demand for spiritual level, they are committed to not having children, but the enjoyment of various spiritual lives.

Life in the world, not just for marriage and childbirth, the value of life is reflected in many aspects, with Dink's idea, I think, it may be that his thinking is more advanced, more pay more attention to his quality of life, not imprisoned by the world, live more open and comfortable.

It may be due to the pressure of life, because the pace of life is getting faster and faster, and the pressure of people's lives is naturally getting higher and higher.

I think their idea should be very simple, that is, they want to live in the world for two years, and they don't want others to disturb their lives, and the life of two people belongs to that kind of beautiful state. It's good to only care about the lives of two people every day, and you don't have to worry too much about what you want to do.

I always feel that after having a child, there will be a burden, a child costs a lot, obviously there is not much pressure, but after having a child, there will be a lot of financial pressure, having a child is to increase the pressure on yourself, but also to disturb your own two-person world, after having a child, most of the energy is focused on the child, and there will be less time for each other.

Don't guess here if it's not Dink. I'm a 71-year-old Dink, and my wife and I both love children, and my wife laughs when she sees the **** of her nephews and nieces. I have no problem with my body, and the contraceptive method is calculated randomly before the age of 40, about 5 times before and after marriage (2 times for my wife).

Active contraception after age 40. We're dink! I missed it like this, I can't figure it out!

A family of origin who likes freedom, is interested in pursuing, has a short life, and is full of cups.

Finally ......Life (children) are precious, love is more valuable, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown