Why are Chinese women so tired with children?

Because there are too many people in charge and too little help.

The main thing is that there are always people pointing fingers. Including husbands.

Why is it so hard for Chinese men to make money.

I want to be on a mission! I'm tired like mud! Men shouldn't be just going to suffer damn pain. A man can be responsible, but a woman can be a cup of cold expired tea! Need to look! Give the heat?

It's the woman who forgets herself, the needs of the child are met, in fact, it's not necessary, the child is crying, and the pepper is hanging ......

Because men are unwilling to take care of children, they can't afford to raise a family!

Because Chinese women don't let their children do housework, they are tired

Because the children are mainly taken by the mother, but a bunch of people are pointing fingers there, and it is your fault that the child is thin and sick.

Because of the difficulties of the in-laws, Westerners will not deliberately make things difficult for their daughters-in-law. Because men don't want to be wet nurses, Western men will have a stronger sense of responsibility for their children. But there are pros and cons to each other, and Western men have too strong personalities and sometimes they are not easy to get along with.

Because in China, children are brought by women from their parents' homes.

Because most of the current mothers are the post-80s generation of only children, who are pampered and can't endure hardship. In the past, life was more bitter, have you heard the complaints of your parents? Now a woman, cooking once in a while is like a big deal, as if everyone else owes her, and she doesn't want to think about who made the food you have eaten for decades, has she (he) complained?

The seven aunts and eight aunts are in charge of a lot, and what clothes to wear for the children, the neighbors have to say that they are exhausted.

Because many mothers live like single mothers, fathers are like shadows that cannot be seen.

Because in the Chinese family concept, it is a woman's responsibility to give birth to a child and take care of a child, and it is also a woman's responsibility to bump into a child when she is sick. Treat men relatively leniently

If you don't work, you're too nosy.

If you learn the indifferent education method of Western women, don't ask, don't ask, if you are hungry, you can eat, drink and wear him, and other things such as playing, sorry, my mother is not free, and Chinese women will be relaxed, but children will lack love, and Western children's independence, sexual openness, and making money at a young age are also because of this extension.

Because Chinese women basically bring their babies to the big by themselves, it's good to have grandparents and be able to help bring them down. Or some wealthy families can hire some nannies to take them down, but most of them can't afford to hire them, and now the hiring cost of nannies is too high. Therefore, Chinese women are full-time wives at home with the baby, unlike those women in foreign countries, they will still work after having a baby, and the task of taking care of the baby is the responsibility of the nanny.

It may be the reason why the nanny abroad is relatively low.

Moreover, Chinese women basically have to bring their children to adulthood, and they have to give their children all kinds of education in the middle, all of which are done by themselves. Moreover, the child's diet and other problems in life are basically the responsibility of Chinese women, so Chinese women are particularly tired. Unlike in the West, parents there teach their children from an early age to learn to be independent, like what to bathe by themselves, eat by themselves, do their own laundry, etc.

In China and even in Asia, mothers are under more pressure than fathers in the process of raising children, because in the overall pattern of Asia, the woman represents a role in educating children and accompanying their children's growth. Compared with Western society, China puts more pressure on mothers and downplays the role of fathers. <>

In Chinese women, they take care of their children's life, health, and study. And fathers only occasionally take care of the psychological development of their children, and even some fathers are not responsible at all.

When there is a problem with the child, they will blame all the blame on the woman and accuse the woman of not raising her well.

The pressure of mother-in-law, many Chinese women will be suppressed by their own mother-in-law, they must follow the advice of their mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law will take care of the children as much as they want, and even Chinese women will quit their jobs to become a nanny for the sake of the children and the family, which is actually not right.

In foreign countries, the raising of children requires two people to help each other, and they will not dilute the responsibilities of either party, and will guide the children better. So I think in China, this point needs to be reformed, this is a very rotten and traditional thinking, and this is a disguised pressure for Chinese women, after all, the family is for two people, not the woman alone.

1.When you are pregnant, you should have a prenatal check-up with a big belly.

The hard work of a woman with a child actually begins when she is pregnant. The father of the quasi-Qing pants is in charge of the work, and the mother-to-be is in charge of the housework and the baby in the belly. When you need a prenatal checkup, go to the prenatal checkup alone with a big belly.

**, pay the fee, queue up, do the inspection, run upstairs and downstairs, and then go home alone.

2.When taking care of the baby at home, the child is like growing on the body, and he has to take it with him.

When you have children, you have almost no time for yourself. The child is busy with household chores when he is asleep, and the child should be by his side whenever he is awake. Bao Ma has to take her children with her when she does housework, goes to the toilet, and even takes a bath.

So those who think that a woman is "happy" with children at home, you should really "shut up".

3.After feeding the child, hurriedly eat a few leftovers.

A mother with a child, eating is like a war, as long as you can eat it in your mouth, it is considered a victory. Especially some children are more difficult to bring, he just doesn't allow his mother to do his own thing, and wants his mother's attention to be on him at all times. If Mom concentrates on eating, he will cry.

If you really meet such a child mother, it will be even harder. But you can't blame the child, because the child is really too young and really doesn't understand, so he can only teach patiently.

4.The most anxious thing is that I take my child to the doctor alone.

If the mother is sick, she still has to take care of the child, and the workload will not be less at all, and she can't "ask for leave". When I am sick, I can only hold on, but when the child is sick, there is no way. Children have poor immunity, there are always places that can not be taken care of, every time the disease is high, the cavity shortage pediatrics is full, as long as the mother is placating the child while queuing, the heart is still very worried about the baby.

It is not easy to take care of children alone, so the family should try to share some of them, especially the father, taking care of the children is the joint responsibility of husband and wife, it is what you should do, don't always change a diaper is to help your wife.

1.It's really tiring to take care of a baby, and no one understands me, except for my own mother. All men are a virtue, and I just hope that I can become strong and no longer rely on anyone!

2.Take the child out with a large bag and a small bag, carrying and hugging. Tired, but it is enough for the child to be happy.

3.The sweetness you have given me has already outweighed the bitterness you have given me.

4.I hope the baby grows up healthy and healthy. The future is bright and there is a bright future.

5.It's really tiring to think about taking care of a baby alone for nine months, but sometimes life is still a mess, and sure enough, women only have the difference between having children and not having children.

6.If you are a mother, you are strong. I am also Tegang, and I have become the object of admiration of everyone around me, and everyone is wondering how to do it with two children alone, and I am willing to die!

7.Lack of sleep every day, good heart tired. I really want to find a week where I don't have to do housework and don't have to take my baby, take a telescope bicycle to the beach, open a room to read a book, listen to a good song, sleep well, stroll well, and watch the sunrise and sunset.

8.Resting at home with a baby, I'm really tired and irritable, I've never worked so hard to eat, I actually ate two banana egg cakes.

9.The heart with the baby is so tired, there is a rest at home can also play the game as usual husband heart is even more tired, sitting on the chair empty tears, turned his head to see the baby's eyes looking for me, take a deep breath, continue to work hard!

10.It will be very hard for a woman to take care of children alone, and I remembered how many families there are, and the other half of the people are still there, but there is no "widowed" parenting, and "widowed" marriage.

Children are the mother's heart, the vast majority of women, divorce will choose the custody of the child, however, everyone understands that the cost of raising a child is very high now, not just to let the child eat and dress warmly, the child's education is a lot of expenses, for those women with low income with dates, she has to compromise, for the future of the child, if the other party has superior economic conditions, and is willing to raise the child, she will endure the pain.

After the divorce, everyone will think about their future, as a woman, with children, remarriage will definitely be affected, so she will not take the "burden" of children, which will affect future happiness, maybe you will say, such a woman is ruthless, but in reality, there are not a few women who are ruthless.

Divorce is not all because of husband and wife conflicts, the modern stupid boy demolishes people's marriage concept is more open, two people feel that they live together with each other and do not feel, it is good to get together and disperse the agreement to divorce, who will raise the child, before the divorce, the two people have negotiated, the child is the crystallization of the husband and wife, the two will consider custody from the perspective of the child's future, if the child follows the man, the future will be better, and the woman is willing to give up the custody of the child.

Couples who want to divorce should think clearly, maybe you are living a very unhappy life now, but it is the children who really hurt the most in divorce. In fact, for marriage, it is not that divorce can find happiness again, for the sake of children, you can work hard to change the relationship with each other, as long as the two people are attentive, the marriage will slowly get better.

Xiaomei is 25 years old and gave birth to a son in Guangzhou. As a first-time mother, she was very unaccustomed to it all of a sudden. She is a white-collar worker in the company and her income is quite high, so she hires a nanny to take care of her.

Xiaomei went to work after confinement, she still has to go abroad, and she doesn't want to spend all her time on her children. She usually loves makeup and dresses fashionably, and her body is well maintained, not at all like a woman who has given birth.

Two years later, Xiaomei gave birth to another daughter, and she was very happy because she had completed the task. That weekend, the nanny came home, and she was at home with the baby, as if there was a war. Grocery shopping, cooking, laundry, mopping, etc., children run up and down, and they are sticky, which is really exhausting.

Her husband would also help, but she did it alone. The babysitter came back much more comfortably. Xiaomei Zen dig also occasionally goes to the kindergarten to pick up and drop off the children, watching her son and daughter like wild horses, away from the nagging of their parents, running to play with classmates, she feels so good, let them slowly stand on their own.

Xiaomei is busy with work and rarely has time to take care of the baby. She plans to spend half of her time at home and half at work. She felt that enough was enough.

She thinks that children will eventually leave the arms of their parents, grow up slowly, and finally spread their wings and pursue their dreams.

It is indeed very hard to take care of children, the children have to eat, drink and lazar by themselves, and all the housework of the family has to be borne by themselves, so women with children are not complaining about the hard work and this is the case.

Sometimes the girl's nagging and complaining is also because of the irritability caused by taking care of the baby, not really, understanding is the first. It can also be seen that there is a problem, only when the baby's growth encounters a lot of troubles, the mother will collapse, if the baby can grow up healthy and happy, the mother will be very relaxed, and there will not be so many complaints, so the source of everything is still in the baby.

When it comes to girls' reluctance to go out to work, I don't agree with that. Because of the fact that many girls around me also start working after giving birth to a child after maternity leave, and there are not many real stay-at-home mothers. Having said that, do you think that your wife really goes out to work, and if you don't have parents to help take care of the children, ask for a nanny or something, and don't need money!?

It's not as careful as the care of my own relatives.

Which mother has not changed from a goddess to a girl, in order to give birth to a baby, women have really paid too much, some women have paid so much for the family, but they have not been comforted by their husbands, and they are said to be hypocritical by their husbands, let's take a look at how hard it is for mothers to take care of children, it is beyond your imagination. How tired women are with children, men don't talk about their wives anymore, and every one of them hits the tears.

It's not that women can't go out to work, just imagine, a family, the hostess goes out to work, not to mention how much money she earns, the male owner is at home to watch the children, cook, clean up the housework, what do you make outsiders think, what do the girl's parents, colleagues, and girlfriends think! Do you think your wife will be proud? I don't think so!

First of all, what my wife said is right, if it is not right, refer to the first one! Raising children is hard, it's just life. Minute myocardial infarction, this is not a joke! Therefore, fathers should also assume the obligation of education and avoid "widowhood" education.

Is this a complaint? Isn't it hard to take care of children? Have you ever brought your own children? Don't want anyone's help to take your own children for a day have you tried? The children's eating, drinking, and lazing, housework, and clothes must be taken care of! You thought it was easy to take care of children?