What should I do if I have a bad personality? The personality has a bad temper, what should I do?

Innate cannot be completely changed, but it can be improved.

If you think you are right, or you like it, you can't be stubborn;

Pessimism of course, of course, requires you to know as much as possible about the positive side of life, which will bring you a bad influence, and it will definitely bring you gains and losses. Exposure to positive things will naturally improve pessimism;

The third sensitivity, my personal suggestion is to relax your mind no matter how you treat people and things, accept everything that comes to you with the most natural feeling, relax yourself, you will naturally not care so much about others, and your sensitivity will be reduced;

Being possessive doesn't have much impact on things, so you can suppress it as much as possible;

There is always a gap between the ideal and the reality, and you want to do this, but you can only do that considering the constraints in reality, and there is no way to solve it, you can only put the degree of compromise to the maximum, and choose a point between your expectations and the actual value that you can most accept.

OK, done!

Do more things. Help others.

Yes, it's very painful, sometimes I know it's not good, but I'm still stubborn, this is really natural, or it may be inherited in the family, I'm like my dad, the mother above, the uncle, including the grandfather. I used to think about consulting a psychiatrist, hehe, but it seems to be very expensive.

I can't help it, it's the same as you. What can it be? This one is innate!

Then work hard to improve your cultivation. Try to keep your emotions in check. Everyone has their own temperament and character, but not everyone can do it casually. Tantrums must be justified and well-founded.

Hello, when we feel that we have a bad personality, we can make adjustments. What are your specific personality characteristics, you can specifically describe the specific ** is not good, so that I can give you more suggestions.

Hello, when you feel that you have a bad personality, we can make adjustments. What are your specific personality characteristics, you can specifically describe the specific ** is not good, so that I can give you more suggestions.

You can describe your personality first, let's see if it's really a bad character, many times other people's evaluations are not comprehensive, we need to look at ourselves more objectively.

Question: I feel that my personality is not good, and the teachers don't like me, even if I have taken this class recently, the teachers don't like me, and they like another classmate, I feel inferior in front of another classmate, and I feel very uncomfortable, and my mother will not guide me. And we had a quarrel today, a super big fight. He's gone to work now, and I'm still feeling bad.

How did the conflict with my mom happen?

Some of the questions are asked because of things in school and my own things, and I can't get them out.

When I asked questions, I didn't dare to vent, I didn't dare to get angry, I didn't dare to cry, I really wanted to cry at that time, but I could be presumptuous at home, and I cried a lot. And then sometimes I started beating my mom when I wasn't in a good mood, and then my mom couldn't stand it, and I didn't know what to do, and then I hit my mom as soon as I was in a bad mood, and my mom said she didn't want to care about me anymore, and then I didn't want to, I really couldn't find out at the time, and then I wanted to vent, and then he was very angry and angry.

When I was at school, I didn't dare to vent, I didn't dare to get angry, I didn't dare to cry, I really wanted to cry at that time, but I could be presumptuous at home, and I cried a lot. And then sometimes I started beating my mom when I wasn't in a good mood, and then my mom couldn't stand it, and I didn't know what to do, and then I hit my mom as soon as I was in a bad mood, and my mom said she didn't want to care about me anymore, and then I didn't want to, I really couldn't find out at the time, and then I wanted to vent, and then he was very angry and angry.

Hello answer, when we are in a bad mood, there can be many ways to vent, such as: running, singing, yelling, etc., there is a principle to vent emotions, that is, not to hurt yourself and others.

Hello, when we are in a bad mood, there can be many ways to vent, such as: running, singing, yelling, etc., there is a principle to vent emotions, that is, not to hurt yourself and others.

The way you vent your emotions is not desirable at the moment, is there any behavior that you can control, or will you not be able to control your behavior?

I couldn't control my mind when I asked questions.

I can't help it.

Question: Is counseling necessary? Or do you need to tweak it?

You can adjust it yourself first and see if it works.

First of all, we have to think of an alternative behavior, what do you think you can do to vent your emotions instead of hitting your mother?

Hello, did my advice help you?

Teach your child to do things independently.

Many children are only children in the family and have been pampered by their parents. When I was in elementary school, I didn't know how to wear clothes or tie my shoes, and I had to help my parents with the little things in life. In fact, this kind of doting will make the child lose his ability to live, which is not conducive to the cultivation of his various abilities in the future.

When the baby begins to walk, parents can teach their children how to go to the toilet and how to use the tableware correctly through early education educational toys. By learning these common senses through play, it can not only cultivate his interest in learning, but also deepen his impression of these things, which is conducive to the formation of his future living habits.

Admit your mistakes in time. No shirking of responsibility.

In life, we often see such a phenomenon, when the child does something wrong, the mother is punishing the child, and the elders will be his shield. If this happens for a long time, the child will have a wrong perception of the problem, and always think that it is not a big deal to make mistakes, and someone will clean up the mess for him. Allowing children to have such a psychology for a long time will not only make him not afraid of making mistakes, but also always push the mistakes to others when problems occur, such children will not only be very selfish in the process of growing up in the future, but also lose the ability to deal with problems independently, and always want to rely on parents to solve problems.

Be polite to people.

No swearing. If a child's exit is "dirty", it will not only be disgusting, but also make outsiders think that it is a problem with their parents' education. Therefore, if a child understands politeness, not only on behalf of him personally, but also on behalf of the whole family.

A well-mannered child can gain the favor of teachers after school, get better care, and make a lot of good friends. In later study and life, children who know how to be polite can often gain more respect, gain self-confidence, and get more opportunities.

When you are away from home, you must observe public order.

Peacetime. In our lives, we will see many children crying and fussing in the shopping mall because their parents do not buy toys, and when watching movies, they do not care about the feelings of others and speak loudly. This kind of behavior will make people very disgusted, not only affecting the mood of other people, but also making others feel that the child is very uneducated.

Therefore, it is important to go out and let children obey public order, not only to avoid quarrels, but also to create a good environment for others to travel. If parents do not pay attention to this for a long time, the child will not only be isolated, but also have an increasingly eccentric personality.

In short, many of the child's bad behaviors are caused by the wrong way of dealing with the parents, if the child can grow up healthily and be recognized by others, parents should make more efforts in this aspect of education, and when the school gives the child knowledge, parents should also teach the child the truth of life, so that he will become better and better.