How to find and manage your relationship with friends

I can tell you that people are always cheap. For those domineering only children, that is, you want to make those friends, you don't have to pay attention to them, I said you may not be happy, but I am really helping people, the problem is helping others, why do you have to make friends with them? Do you want to please everyone?

I've thought about it this way, the girl in my top bunk is more domineering (she grew up in a rich and powerful family) and often looks down on people, and the friends with her are more like her slaves and slaves, and I disdain to associate too much with that kind of person, so oh, she never ordered me anything, and she sometimes deliberately flattered.

In the class, I also know that you need friends to gain a foothold, you don't have to find a dead friend, and you will also say that you don't know who has the same interests in society. You just have to find a friend. How to find, try to help, they will remember you, the human heart is long.

I'm not an active member in the class and rarely socialize with people too much, but I help them when they need help, they smile and be polite when they talk to you, and now I'm not a friend How much? Remember, don't look for any dead friends in high school, there are not many who can "die"!

The more mysterious you are, the more they want to associate with you, the nature of people.

You say that a lot of people like to joke about you because you are a bully, they think you won't refute and won't get angry, you have to be strong, if the joke is too much you have to refute them, talk back to them, or you just don't talk to them, these friends don't help. Friends are easy to find, you have very good friends or trusted people, it's good to have them!!

Remember: it's good to have a half-friend in life.

As we grow older, we gradually grow up from teenagers to become the pillars of the family, and become adults in the sense of real fighting, then, in the process of growing up, we often find that some friends will gradually drift apart, in fact, when we travel to a certain age, we will realize that this situation is very normal, the reason why in the process of growing up, some friends will gradually disperse, mainly because of the following reasons:

First of all, when you have a career, you are no longer like when you were a student, you have more time to be in constant contact with your friends, and you often go out to play with your friends, everyone has to be busy with your own career, if you use more time to socialize with your friends, then your career will inevitably be affected, you are adults, and you must be responsible for your future life, so from this point of view, it is understandable that you are gradually separated from some friends.

On the other hand, the reason why I will be separated from my friends is also because when my career is stable, I will soon marry a wife and have children and have my own family, which further reduces the opportunity for me to have a good relationship, after all, for many adults, it is necessary to take care of both career and family, and a person's time and energy are always relatively limited, so it is difficult to take enough time to socialize with their former friends, but real friends, Personally, I don't think it's about these forms of daily interactions, because true friends don't get separated, and they often still miss each other in their hearts.

1: Far fragrant and smelly.

Distance must produce beauty, don't rely too much on any relationship.

Just like in a relationship, don't stick together too often.

There must be enough space for each other to think of each other's goodness.

It's okay to see each other, and don't remember you later.

2: AA system, or similar AA system.

The economic base is coarse and the silver base determines the superstructure".

Financial fairness will make your relationship strong.

3: Don't give too specific advice about their feelings.

Remember that emotional matters are always a private matter, do not persuade or dissuade, the success or failure of the relationship must be borne by the parties themselves, do not mix, if the final result is not good, it will inevitably be blamed.

5: Don't do business together.

Too many interests will complicate your simple friendship, even your own brothers have to settle accounts, not to mention that you are just good friends, the slightest unfairness between friends may lead to dissatisfaction, and then resentment and finally lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

6: Try not to borrow money, not to help the poor.

Learn not to reach out to your friends to borrow money, but also learn to refuse to lend money to your friends. Most human nature does not stand the test of money.

Most people don't want to repay the money they borrow, but those who ask for debts are not easy to open their mouths and keep their voices low.

7: Each other's income, consumption and three views should be kept at the same level as much as possible.

This is conducive to the balance of the relationship between each other and is not prone to disagreement. The dust stool is scattered.

If you can't, try to treat each other with respect.

Let the poor not covet or envy, and let the rich not despise or look down on them.

8: Remember that the older you get, the harder it is to find real friends.

Cherish the people who gathered because of dreams and enthusiasm in their youth.

Cherish this good simplicity and those sincere, flesh-and-blood friendships.

9: Keep in touch.

Regardless of the depth of friendship, the right connection is sure to maintain the relationship.

I don't want to let the feelings be diluted by time, a message can pull back even those who are far away.