The confession was unsuccessful, and it was all because of something

Everyone has requirements for their own goals, and in the period when appearance is justice, many people are looking for a partner, more likely to look at appearance, height, etc., and then look at whether income and character will ensure the living status together. Although everyone has different rules for their own objects, they are basically in one big category.

If you are good-looking and have a good character, you will definitely be warmly welcomed by friends of the opposite sex. If you are not outstanding in appearance, have average character, and have average returns, then it is very likely that you will be at risk of being picked out and used as a spare tire. Naturally, the above is just some regulations for each person's goals, but it actually depends on the person you like, what kind of person you are, and whether you can achieve each other's goals and specifications.

There are a few who are at risk of separation, even if they are together. It doesn't mean that after being together, they will be together for a lifetime, and it doesn't mean that after the confession is rejected, there is no possibility of being together. It all depends on the fate between you, some people will still come back to you when they stumble, and some people will stay by your side for a long time, but they will have to face each other after all.

This is everyone's fate, and it is difficult to separate. Therefore, sometimes after the confession is rejected, don't think too much, and say that it can't be passed at your insistence, maybe it can be passed again? However, if you have been liking someone, have been confessing, but have been unsuccessful, then there is no need to continue like this, after all, sometimes fate cannot be forced.

Maybe after two stumbles, you'll find your true love. Therefore, you should cherish fate at any time, maybe one day fate comes, you want to get it naturally.

The objects mentioned above all have certain conditions and standards, and what we want to talk about here is whether the three views are satisfied. Everyone's view of a matter is different, and the reason why everyone stands is different is because everyone stands on a different position, and the angle and viewpoint are also different. Therefore, when looking for a partner, it is also very important to see if the three views match.

The other party can't meet his own three views, so no matter how the standard meets your requirements, it will eventually be separated because the three views don't match.

Therefore, in the case of finding a partner, many people pay more attention to the three views, because the three views can better maintain the common views of two people on life or something, and they are also an indispensable hidden element to maintain the relationship between them. Two people who love each other do not have the same three views, which can easily lead to disagreements, and they will be unbearable and break up in the long run.

It may be because the other party doesn't like you, there is a problem with your confession, the other party already has someone you like, the other party is embarrassed to accept it, and being too impulsive will lead to unsuccessful confession.

The unsuccessful confession may be because the confession is not done in the right way, or the other party does not like you and will not agree to you if they have no feelings for you; It may be because the other party doesn't like you, has no feelings for you, or you express it in the wrong way, then the other party will reject you.

Because the other party doesn't like you, the other party tests you; The time is not ripe enough, you are not good enough, the other party is not interested in you, the other party thinks it is too fast, and has no feelings for you.

It may be because the other party doesn't like you, or the way you confess is incorrect, or it may be because the other party wants to test you, or it may be because the other party hasn't thought about it yet.

After a failed confession, you can help defuse the awkward atmosphere and divert the attention of both parties by saying the awkward and honest about it, comforting yourself or laughing at yourself, changing the subject, or leaving the scene quickly. At the same time, we must learn to improve our self-acceptance and affirmation, be tolerant of ourselves, and not be entangled in confessing failure.

1. Be honest about your embarrassment.

Hey, I failed to confess, and I'll be embarrassed to face you in the future. Although you don't think we're suitable now, I still like you very much, and I'm afraid I still can't help myself like you recently. Maybe I'll be able to adjust my mentality after a while, and I hope you don't hate me too much. ”

When you talk about this awkwardness honestly, the atmosphere on both sides will be relaxed, and it is okay to talk about the usual topics or just end the conversation. At the same time, your heart does not need to be with the "what if." will not be "fighting."

2. Self-soothing or self-deprecation.

If you don't agree, I'm relieved, I don't think it's reliable, or a good buddy can last a lifetime. ”

It seems that my this one is only suitable for Wu Yanzu. ”

Man: "I like you, be my girlfriend!" Woman: "I'm sorry I might..."Man: "It's okay, then let's have a bow!" “

When I can laugh at the embarrassing thing of confession failure, I am also telling myself, "I can be honest about everything I do."