Tell me what you are most afraid of as a middle aged person?

There are old and young, and they are most afraid of getting sick and losing their health and can't support this family.

There are old and young, parents are old and need to take care of them, children have not yet started a family, their physical condition is not as good as a year, and they have to work hard to support their families.

Half a life has passed, but nothing has been accomplished.

Ben Si people, no car, no house, no money, ......Life is not smooth, and all you earn every year is age and wrinkles......

Except for those who are not afraid of death, the rest are afraid of ......

The most afraid is that I slept well last night, and when I got up early this morning, I felt unwell, and I went to the hospital to check, and unfortunately suffered from some kind of incurable disease——— then everything was lost! As for marriage, income, and the difference is not bad, it's OK to live a healthy life, and people can't be too greedy.

Don't be afraid of anything, exercise well, and live every day happily.

I am afraid that my parents are not in good health and my children are not sensible.

Don't be afraid of anything, come when you should come, come when you shouldn't come, don't come and don't come from everything that is destined to be unavoidable, don't be afraid, what are you afraid of? What is there to be afraid of? It's useless to be afraid.

When people reach middle age, they are afraid of losing not only their health, but also their life-sustaining jobs.

When people reach middle age, they are most afraid of the sudden death of their parents, the children will achieve nothing, the marriage will turn on the red light, and eventually the heart will decline before they are old.

I am most afraid that my relatives will get sick and I can't afford the medical bills. My mother-in-law has cancer and has spent all her family savings. I want my family to be healthy now, and I don't want to regret having no money when I face a life-and-death decision.

I am most afraid that my body will not be good, and in my body, various functions will begin to decline, my energy will drop significantly, I will be susceptible to colds, and some parts will begin to feel pain.

There will be a fear of job instability, and an unstable job will directly affect the functioning of the family. The wife's complaining that the children need to spend money to grow up, but they are not able to give them a good life.

When people reach middle age, the most terrible thing is not even unemployment, passive encounters. It's powerless. Suddenly, the leader reuses, and you stay up late every day to write materials and coordinate problems.

Needless to say, I am most afraid of losing my health, and I am most afraid of cuckolds.

I think that everyone in middle age should have accumulated a lot of life experience, and should use these experiences or techniques to do something meaningful.

The most feared thing is not that life is difficult! What I'm afraid of is that I can't have a passion for life in my heart, and I'm just surviving. Like a salted fish, I spend my days in a muddy way every day, not knowing what the goal and the future are.

When people reach middle age, they are most afraid of not having a partner, and women are even more afraid of losing their partner. It is said in the Tao Te Ching: The noble is based on the low, and the high and the low are the basis, and the prince calls himself lonely, widowed, and not valley. The most tragic thing in the world is middle-aged widowhood, that is, middle-aged widowhood.

The career is not thriving, the career has not improved at all when people reach middle age, nothing has been achieved, and watching themselves age day by day every day is really super scary, I feel.

People reach a certain age. I feel afraid of loneliness, afraid of marrying someone I don't love, and then I feel that I haven't loved and lived once when I am middle-aged, and I feel that I am very helpless.

I am most afraid of serious hair loss in middle age, because many people will have this problem because of pressure or something, I am in appearance, middle-aged began to gain weight, appearance began to decline, the return rate is getting lower and lower, and loss begins to come to my heart.

When people reach middle age, what they are most afraid of is lack of energy. Since Feng Tang wrote "How to Avoid Being a Middle-aged Greasy Man" with self-deprecation, various discussions about "middle-aged" have been on social platforms for a while. "Middle-aged greasy man", "middle-aged mother", "middle-aged crisis" and other related "middle-aged" unique terms emerge in an endless stream.

The young people enthusiastically discussed how to avoid becoming the ridicule they are today in the future, and the real middle-aged people only sighed, and then silently turned around and continued to clean up their chicken feathers.

Not long ago, the controversy over the "996" work system in the Internet world has not subsided, and young people complain that their efforts are not proportional to their income, that they sacrifice too much free time, that they use their lives as the price of their work, or that they spit on the disguised exploitation of companies. These young people can still grasp a certain right to speak in the ups and downs of the workplace, and mobilize their youthful fighting spirit to express their dissatisfaction.

As everyone knows, for most middle-aged people, it is even more difficult to keep up with the pace of 996 with physical energy and time, but the reality can only allow them to endure silently, constantly accumulating unknown bitterness, or completely disappearing in the workplace. Of course, you can say that you have already broken free at that stage, and now you have a rich and stable life, occasionally working overtime, you can drive to play golf with friends on weekends, and the words you say when you push a cup and change a lamp at a social dinner are not indifferent, and the food is quite delicious.

Among the many people in Zhihu who are the ages of "middle-aged", all of them are worried, dissatisfied and tired of the life of the middle search year, among them, there are many analyses of the reasons for this problem, one of which is impressive, he said, "After pushing the car door, you are your husband and father, but not yourself." Indeed, the "hard work" and "hard heart" of middle-aged men are obvious to all. Zhang Ailing once wrote in "Half Life": "When people reach middle age, men often feel lonely, and Li Leaky opens their eyes because as soon as they open their eyes, they are surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on."

The sea of life is long, and the years are fleeting. "Middle-aged" is undoubtedly embarrassing, on the one hand, I still want to carry the vitality of youth, and perhaps there is still an uncompromising attitude towards the world in my heart; On the other hand, the edges and corners are quietly smoothed out by life. If it is said that the struggle of youth is more often caused by the contradiction that the inner ideal cannot be consistent with the real society, then middle-aged people have long been unable to take care of the so-called "self", and more often they can only rise and fall in the ups and downs of life.

The most afraid is that there is no money, because in middle age, the work is already exhausted, and if there is no money, there will be no way to have a very peaceful and wild late skate year, so I am most afraid of this.

When people reach middle age, they have three fears: fear of unemployment, fear of illness, and fear of divorce. For middle-aged people who have entered the age of confusion, they dare not be poor, dare not be sick, and dare not divorce, even if they are isolated and helpless, they must grit their teeth and carry it.

When people reach middle age, they always move forward in tearing their balance, tearing their Shenlu, on the one hand, the success of entering the WTO, and on the other hand, the yearning for birth. But looking at these contrasts, I always feel very close to myself.

When people reach middle age, they are most afraid of unemployment, and after they are unemployed, they will not be able to afford the problems of housing and car loans.

The baby fell asleep, and the old mother, who loved to learn and beat the baby, came out to ...... activities

May Day holiday, no end. Since then, I have been on the road, although the number of steps on WeChat has not been able to dominate the circle of friends, after all, I have not traveled, but it is said that the number of steps in a quarter has been ...... in the past few days

Because the two-year-old beast at the head of the family wants to go out to play, go to the supermarket in the morning, play in the sand in the afternoon, walk in the square dance and night market in the evening, and fall asleep in the early morning.

Multiply this rhythm by 6, don't multiply by 5, I'm tired of this day!

It's too much of a! It's too much! It's really too much ......As a result, I became a grumpy, yelling and screaming old mother. Speaking of which, I feel that I have to arrange a certain parent-child education book, and hurry up and hurry up to cure my fiery temper.

I don't know if it's because I can't take the baby and I'm tired half to death, or this mythical beast was doted on by me and was invisibly implanted in my childhood shadow (I think my cub is afraid of me, there is a shadow), I seem to be a ** while depressed with a baby, I don't know how to make human cubs obedient, and I paradoxically feel that it doesn't matter if I listen to it or not, I want to cultivate an independent personality, and after two meals and several heavenly wars, I still decided to let myself go, In the future, remember to turn on the disobedient button when you start it, keep yourself away from the baby, and be quiet and calm for a while.

So I wittily trained myself to learn another way to vent my anger, and what worked was that Zhou Liang Nian spent money.

That's right, it's shopping! It's just buy, buy, buy! A woman's nature, buy buy buy to make yourself happier!

The happiness of book sleepiness is a bit simple, even if it is just to see that I don't buy it, I just add a shopping cart and I don't buy it, I just take a look at it and I don't buy ......That's also extremely happy like a fairy!

No, I went to 1688 and bought five pieces for less than 100 yuan, and then went to Vipshop to collect a dress of more than 1,000 yuan, although I don't know when I can afford it, or I don't want to buy it when I can afford it.

Harm, women are fickle, but being a happy rich woman should be very happy, right? I don't know, I haven't experienced a lot of money.

Sometimes I envy a woman who is very good at making money, she is simply an idol, how can a woman be so good at making money? How does this work? The big head of IQ arrears is full of doubts and curiosity, and wants to be such a powerful character.

I can't do it, so I can only get closer first, and just getting close will cost me all my ......savingsThe flesh hurts and the heart hurts!

In fact, it's been nonsense for so long, but it's fun to think about one thing, this world is originally diverse, it's you and he, she's me, and they're all in their own ways.

Do you know what people are most afraid of when they reach middle age? It's not that I'm afraid of the aggravation of age, it's not the twilight of beauty, it's not that the years are ruthless, but there is no desire, and there is no desire at all, as if there is a centenarian living in the body of a thirty-something.