What should I do if my marriage is not satisfactory? How can it be prevented?

If you don't want to, you can choose to change yourself. to change your marital status.

1. Marriage too early. We always say that young girls are too naïve, why do we say naïve, that is, to take love as everything, desperate, moths to the fire, moved by their love, thinking that others do not understand their love. will even think that what pure love is, that is, not to talk about the economy, not to talk about character, not to talk about background, not to talk about family background, not to talk about life, in short, it must not be contaminated with a little bit of life, otherwise it is impure.

2. Too sloppy, the so-called sloppy is the meaning of flash marriage. I'm not denying that flash marriages will not be happy, I'm just saying that if two people are immature and don't know what they want, it's basically difficult to be happy in flash marriages. Impulsiveness is an emotion that can make two people decide to be together quickly, or it can easily make the decision to separate two people.

3. Don't care about substances. What is life, life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there is an old saying in China that "poor and lowly couples mourn", not that two people can not have feelings if they have no money, but when two people are poor, there will be a lot of problems, it will be relatively easy to have contradictions, and there will be a pessimistic attitude towards life and the future.

We must understand that love is the beginning of two people's relationship, and the economic foundation is the key to determining whether the relationship will continue. Many girls think that talking about money hurts their feelings, and the idea of being too realistic and too powerful is wrong. Economic problems must be faced sooner or later, and only if there is no material, will they say that they don't care about material, but in the end they can't live with these so-called people who don't care.

Therefore, every girl must understand that marriage should be rational.

You want to know what your husband really thinks, you should ask him, not me. Whether you want to sort out the relationship or not also depends on whether you want to have a fresh start in the future, or whether you can accept the cycle of this situation repeatedly.

Clause. 1. Establish the same three views.

Because the growth environment and family background of the husband and wife must be different, so they also have their own views on how to deal with people, and in the married life of husband and wife, it is very important to have the same three views, because the way they treat life, it also represents the attitude of two people towards life, if two people are very different in terms of lifestyle, then it is basically impossible for two people to have a long-term relationship, so to discuss the establishment of similar three views, to two people, slowly, It's okay to start having the same view of the same thing.

Clause. 2. Strengthen daily communication.

Many couples rarely communicate in their daily lives, because after two people get off work, maybe because the work is too hard, so they would rather choose not to communicate, but in this way, it will only make the distance between the hearts of two people get farther and farther apart, and they will not understand each other more and more, so when something happens, they will definitely think that the other party does not understand themselves, and those smart couples always like to add some communication in their lives to understand each other's current thoughts, Only this can make you have a long-term relationship.

Clause. 3. After getting married, you must continue to grow.

Many people think that marriage is their own safe haven, so they are not willing to let themselves grow after marriage, in fact, you have to know that when you enter marriage, it is actually the beginning of another stage of life, so you must learn how to get along with each other, how to manage a marriage, don't let yourself stay in place, so if the other party is constantly growing, then you will never keep up with the pace of the other party, so marriage will also produce a lot of trouble, only two people make progress together, Working hard for this marriage can make you even sweeter.