Share one of your most successful experiences of invisible coercion?

It's about years of being a student.,And the teachers have all kinds of open and secret arrows.,Every time I'm unprepared.,Every time I take advantage of the victory.。 When I was young, I was more inferior, and I was more timid, and my voice trembled when I spoke in front of teachers or many people, because I was nervous and afraid, and because of this, I didn't play well in the art examination interview, and in the end I could only go to two C-class schools, which can be regarded as ruining my life if I don't fight. But when I got to university, I was more and more open-minded, and I finally put my ideas into practice.

I am fair and honest, what is mine is mine, I will not fight if it is not mine, but if others want to rob me, I will never back down. Don't cower when you do something wrong, be brave enough to admit your mistakes and bear the consequences. But others don't think I've made a mistake and don't have any fear, they think I'm cheeky.

But I admit my mistakes bluntly, and I will correct them, very straightforwardly, why do others think I am cheeky when I do this? Indissoluble.

One of the most successful experiences of invisible pretense was when we first arrived at the beginning of the university, our management class was led by the dean himself, and the first assignment at the beginning of the class was for each of us to prepare a short speech, any topic can be. I listened to this assignment, but I didn't prepare, and later in class, the dean took the roster and prepared to call someone, and I suddenly had a bad premonition in my heart, and sure enough, the first thing to call was my name. So I stood up and walked to the podium in a righteous and awe-inspiring manner, and in front of me were nearly two hundred classmates, as well as our dean.

The moment I picked up the microphone, I calmly talked about the changes and some unaccustomed places after entering the university for a long time, and even asked the classmates in front of me if they felt the same way.

After talking for more than ten minutes, the dean said that my classmate was very calm when he spoke, calm, not nervous, not afraid, what he wanted to say Barabala, and praised me for a long time, and my classmates gave me meaningful looks. Later, the dean remembered me as a person, and in order to make the dean remember me, he often discussed this topic with the dean, and the dean would tell me how unique my ideas were in class. So ......I fought battles for which I was unprepared, but I never lost ......

Everyone wants to show off their strengths and strengths, and that's when it's our most basic nature. From the time I was a child, I showed my parents the best side, I wanted to get a few words of praise, and I wanted to make my parents proud of us. Oh, this is a kind of show-off, and it's also a little pretending.

However, sometimes although we pretend to be successful and are very beautiful in front of people, who can know how much effort we have put in behind us, let alone how much time we have spent on the phone, how many tears have been left, and we just want to be beautiful for a while. But countless people are flocking to it. <>

I remember when I was studying, every time the exam was over, we would communicate with each other about the situation of our exams, and of course we would not know whether we were modest or like to pretend to be forced, the more good the grades, the more we would say that we did not do well in the exam, what questions did not think comprehensively, there were a few questions that were not written or thought wrong, such people will generally show joy on their faces, without a little disappointed expression, but at the end of the exam, these people who say that they did not do well in the exam will disappoint other people who want to see jokes, Those who do well in the exam generally do very well. However, this kind of situation is not only good students will pretend like this, but also people like us with mediocre grades will do this, so that they feel that they have done well in the exam, and they will pretend like this. In fact, we don't just want to pretend to be forced, sometimes we want to prepare for the worst, want to get the best results, and get more surprises.

However, sometimes many people pretend to be very unacceptable, make people feel very disgusted, and don't want to communicate with this kind of communication, so it's okay to pretend to be forced once or twice, don't pretend often.

In the second year of junior high school, the school held a speech contest of "Lecturer Deshu New Style", which was originally our class leader, but she had something to do temporarily, and the head teacher let me top, because the competition was going to be in the afternoon, and there was no time to prepare, so he searched for me on the Internet A speech of "Campus Blooming Honest Flowers" for me to memorize, I drew lots to the fourth, and the second contestant on the stage had exactly the same speech as me, and when she spoke, I and the head teacher were basically desperate. Later, it was up to me, and I got on the head, and then all kinds of nonsense, all kinds of editing, saying that some class cadres used their power to bully men and women, and some classmates bribed class representatives in order not to do homework, this is a corrupt phenomenon, we must establish a clean and honest style, and gave the example of Bao Qingtian's integrity, I really said that there is such a thing, and then mixed the jokes and jokes I saw in the magazine before, all kinds of insertions, which made everyone laugh, only to hear the commotion below, and the principal's eyes narrowed into a slit with laughter. In the end, I won a second prize, which was the most pretending to be the first time I ever put it on.

At the age of 16. and a buddy, dyed their silver hair together at night, wore Tang costumes similar to Chinese heroes, and wore a jar of wine, similar to the brand of Qiao Feng Qiao's gang leader, the wine is sealed with mud, and you have to smash it open before you can drink it...The two of us came to a place where we had an open-air supper and a drink, and called a waiter to prepare something to eat, and the waiter saw that we were dressed strangely, so he asked us where we came from? I said that we came from ancient times far away, and I asked him who the current emperor is.

Our words and deeds are also a bit like ancient times, and the waiters are also a little drunk, so some believe it, and ask if we have money? I took out a silver ingot, and said don't worry, if there is anything delicious, (in fact, the ingots are used to smash the mud-sealed wine jar) As a result, many people around looked at the two of us that night....