Can you tolerate a friend who cheats on you Can you tolerate the other person s deception on you?

I will never tolerate my good friend deceiving myself, and my good friend deceiving myself is the most uncomfortable! The most intolerable! If you really think of her as a good friend, you should find a suitable opportunity to explain everything to her!

If she's still like that after that, you'll have to think you don't have this friend! Friends should care for each other, help each other, and give each other a sense of trust! You shouldn't cheat on your good friends!

Don't be sad about this friend! There can't be nothing wrong with the world!

At the same time, I hope that the unhappiness between you will disappear as soon as possible! Happy to you!

Personally, I think she's lying to you. I also deceived a girl in our dormitory to ask for a meal card to fetch water, in fact, to buy food, but also to eat a lot of money of food, very excessive, and she often borrowed money and did not pay back, people borrowed her 1 yuan she chased to ask, really. There is also a girl who borrowed a girl's meal card from our dormitory to eat, and ate 4 yuan 5 meals, but emphasized that she only ate 2 yuan 5, I don't give her face, I said her, she doesn't dare now, and she has converged a lot (I used to cheat and cheat).

I think if you don't want to be with that girl, just ignore her and don't say anything, because it's hard to make sure she doesn't talk about you in front of others. There is a saying that if you can endure it, you can endure it, and if you can't bear it, you don't have to endure it anymore, just be picky like me.

Since you think of her as your friend, you shouldn't worry too much!

Sometimes you don't have to be too attached to the little things (if you're willing to keep making the friends).

I guess if you don't get along, you won't be friends, right?

Friends have something to say to their faces, and they don't have to speak ill of each other behind their backs!

If she's talking about you behind her back, I think it's her not!

Think carefully about your past, whether you are much happier or happier with her, don't force yourself too much.

It's best to be happy yourself!

Wow! Such a person is so hateful! However, it's your fate to be friends, cherish it, if you really think she's bad, then no, you have to force yourself!

If you look at it, you know a lot of things that are really not necessary. If you try to forgive, try to be understanding......The situation may be different. If that doesn't work yet, I hope you watch Saga from Saint Seiya.

Let's not say that he lied to you, he can't even give up a meal, it's so bad to death, how much can you eat her, I can bear to watch you hungry, I think she's desperate...

It's been broken a long time ago.

Such people can ignore them. When you alienate this kind of villain, there will be more good people around you.

There is no need, such a snob!!

You don't have to be angry, people like her don't deserve your anger, and you don't have to treat people like him as friends.

You treat her as a friend, she doesn't see you as a friend

Cut! What's that, a good friend!!

In a relationship, I have the last way to endure the other person's deception. Because I think the most important thing in a couple is to be honest, I think if the other person cheats on me and finds out, I think it's something I can't stand anymore. I hope that if there is anything, the two of us can discuss it, and he doesn't tell me, even to keep me from worrying, I don't think it's good.

This shows that they regard me as his other half of security, and he feels that I can't face it with him when he encounters problems. It might make me think that I'm not his person yet, and I'm not going to solve his problems yet. So I want my significant other to tell me whatever happens, even if it's difficult, and to let me know that I can't stand my partner's deception and hide it from me before doing anything.

Because I think this kind of deception also includes emotional deception, for example, he doesn't like me anymore, and he still wants to be with me. Because the love I hope I get is the kind of firm choice that no matter what happens, the other party will not hesitate to make a firm choice and this feeling of me. What I want is never the kind of relationship that I will be with you after careful consideration, I just want the other person to be with me completely because of love, not because of any other external conditions.

So if the other party doesn't love me anymore, I also hope that he can tell me honestly, instead of reluctantly living with me because of some memories of our previous relationship, and not because he covets something in me that is beneficial to him.

If he wants to achieve something, he tells me directly, and he can't tell me through some indirect means at all, and I think this is also deception. For example, if he wants to break up with me, he can say that he doesn't love me anymore and wants to break up with me, and I don't want him to make me understand through his daily actions that he has no feelings for me. I think this kind of easy cold and violent way to break up is the most scummy way to break up, which is also a kind of deception, and it is also the most unacceptable to the god of numbers.

This requires a case-by-case analysis.

But I think I'll probably forgive him. In real life, there are actually a lot of lies in the relationship between people. Everyone knows it, but many times we don't want to debunk it.

If I encounter a deliberate deception from a friend, I may or may not forgive, depending on the situation.

There are so many lies in the adult world that we never have the heart to debunk. In school, I always thought that friends had to be honest with each other, and there weren't many secrets between us, let alone lies. But when I really entered the adult world, I realized that lies are actually a fig leaf to maintain the normal progress of life, and everyone is subconsciously maintaining this harmony, and no one wants to debunk it.

My friend fell out of love some time ago, crying and complaining about licking the dog and having nothing, what can I say at this time? All I can say is that everything will pass and you will definitely meet better people. I knew it was a lie, and he knew it was a lie, but it was this kind of lie that made him feel a little better.

I was hospitalized a few years ago because of physical problems, and my mental state was very bad at that time, and my friend came to see me in the hospital, and I smiled and said that it was okay, but at that time laughing was worse than crying. He said that I was much better than before, and I knew it was a lie, and he knew it was a lie, but I was still willing to accept this comfort.

There is too much bitterness in the adult world, and there are also too many lies. But no matter what the reason, adults are well-intentioned to maintain this lie, hoping that life can move forward more bravely.

I will choose to forgive my friend for his deliberate deception, but whether I will continue to get along depends on what happens to me. There are no absolutes in life, and if I say that I will forgive my friend for my deliberate deception, not only do you not believe it, but even I myself will not believe it. But in most cases, I don't blame them too much.

When the other party's lie is out of good intentions, and this lie has been discovered by me, I don't think I blame him, and I am willing to accept this kindness; When this lie is not well-intentioned, I think I will also forgive him and thank him for teaching me how to live, but in the rest of our lives, we will gradually become estranged.

In fact, leaving aside specific issues, just talking about forgiveness or not forgiveness is a rather speechless topic in itself. No one can forgive all lies, and no one can tolerate all harm, which is a paradox in itself.

If deception does not cause harm, it is not forgiveness or non-forgiveness; If deception causes harm, then forgiveness itself is self-harm.

If my friend deliberately deceived me, I would choose whether to forgive him or not according to the situation, and if he deceived me because he chose this white lie for some special reason, I might consider forgiving him, but if my friend deliberately deceived me and deceived me, and it was a deception that did not benefit me, then I would choose to forgive him.

Not lead the Spring Meeting, because deliberate deception is the greatest harm to us, friends should be honest with each other, and Wang Pai is not to deceive, such a friendship has no meaning of existence in Huailing.

I don't choose to forgive him, if he chooses to deceive me maliciously, it means that he doesn't deserve to be my friend.

If a friend just uses herself to get some kind of benefit, she is sorry for you, and you have a clear conscience, through this incident, let you see his personality clearly, which is a good thing, and it is also a warning to you to make friends in the future. Get along with her as if nothing happened on the surface, as before, show your generosity, and just guard against her psychologically.

If there are some external complications due to reverence, then it is difficult to say. Maybe he is unintentional, maybe he is sacrificing your personal interests so that everyone has interests, and can only prove that some of his views conflict with most people, you have to see that you are wrong, review yourself, this kind of friendship is not a betrayal but for your good. That's what you're really a friend for.

Friends are like a mirror in the sky, if it is broken, there is definitely a reason to break it, don't treat it blindly, otherwise it is you who is wrong.

Everyone deceives others.

No one can do it without cheating.

Some are white lies.

Some are unforgivable lies.

There is a lie between friends.

That's because. She probably doesn't want you to get hurt in the way.

Maybe he has his pain that he can't speak.

Forgivable.

Why bother? Kaizhou.

Why not turn hostility into friendship?

Maybe I won't be in contact with him in the future, but no matter what occasion Richard won't say anything about him, after all, the impression of the past imitation is still very good, so let's leave a good memory! Break up and see character.

I will slowly distance myself from him [her].

Find out why you lied to me first.

If it's too much, break up.

Look what she's lying about.

Some people lie because they lack this.

Forehead is inferiority.

Maybe not intentionally.

It's not a matter of making friends.

Be tolerant if she lies to you on purpose.

Then you will stay away from him.

Keep your heart away from him.

Because others will see it too.

At least don't do anything too much.

If you cheat, you cheat.

Just think she's teaching you a lesson.

Smile and relax first, it's not a big deal.

Think about it again, why did he (she) deceive me, if the reason is untenable, it may be that I think too much, forget it, and play to distract and transfer; If you find a reason to deceive, and the fact is indeed "like this", see if you can forgive and whether you can not care.

If you still care about this person, go to him or her and tell him: I'm not happy that you lied to me, and I hope you won't do it in the future.

No matter how you deal with it, don't let this matter occupy your mind and energy too much, otherwise, you will hurt yourself on the basis of being deceived.