My girlfriend has an inexplicable cold war with herself, and she is reluctant to let go, how can she

First, do what you have to do, eat, drink, sleep, and use the normal order of life to dilute the depression brought about by the Cold War.

Second, adjust the heart, men and women who have just fallen in love are very impulsive, there is no room for fools in their eyes, and learn to find out that they pay attention to the outside world, in fact, it is impossible for a person to be good with only one opposite sex in his life. Learn to be calm and open-minded.

Third, dispose of your mentality, try to care about each other, try to communicate, if you give sincerity and love, and still can't get true feelings, then let go, you don't have to be sad, because you give up a person who doesn't love you.

I don't know if you want to let go and not be sad, or if you want to solve the problem and reconcile.

If you want to let go and not be sad, you just think about what is not suitable for you, there are indeed these problems, and there is no way to continue to be together, then let go and start a new life. There are more suitable and better ones waiting for you in the future.

If you want to reconcile, then you take the initiative to contact her, ask the reason, and then resolve the conflict.

The above is the method, but it is certainly not easy to do.

Hope it solves your problem!

Affection is not just for one person. Two people want to resonate together, and are they tired of blindly catering to others? It's better not to have such feelings.

Find an opportunity to sit down with her and talk about your future and your plans for the near future. The truth understands the key to how to make decisions. Please!

Gradually, if you don't meet, if you don't get in touch, it's really fading.

When we encounter such a situation, if your girlfriend still insists on breaking up, I think it is best to obey your girlfriend's will first, and then try to save such a relationship, after all, in the case of emotional instability, even if you hold a long talk with your girlfriend, it will not seem to have much effect.

Therefore, I have the following observations:

1. Reasons

For the reason for the breakup, it is very important to each of us, and it is also the point that many people care about the most. Because only after knowing the reason for the breakup, we can better get rid of our bad problems, so as to make our girlfriend change her mind, so that the relationship between the two of you will be very deep, and the probability of breaking up again will be reduced a lot, I hope everyone can be taken seriously, instead of choosing to avoid.

2. The depth of love

If two people do something excessive because of each other, then breaking up is the best choice, after all, sometimes, love is blind can not be forced, we have to determine according to the depth of their love, and then decide whether the core is to be redeemed. Because if you still choose to be together, but you don't have a deep relationship, the time for two people to persist will not last too long, and it is not conducive to finding your next relationship.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I hope that after starting a love, you must get along with each other well, understand each other more, and think more about each other, so that the relationship between the two of you will not be too bad, and even become the object of envy of others.

If you don't want to break up, apologize until she agrees not to break up, if you can't hold on, then break up neatly, don't drag the mud and water, and you're all good for the collapse.

Then it's better to break up, since the other party has been very persistent, such a reluctant love will not be happy, and the most taboo in the relationship is the cold war.

If the girlfriend insists on breaking up, then break up, the two may already have contradictions, and they have no feelings, and they can't get Brother Qing's true love if they deliberately keep each other.

The biggest problem of the Cold War is that the two sides do not communicate, and if you want to break the Cold War, the most important thing is to start communication first, and even if you quarrel, you must break the silence. In the evening, two people sit down and find a topic, such as "each person takes turns to talk about the shortcomings of the other party", "say the reasons that led to the cold war this time", they are unwilling to speak, and convey it through words, as long as they communicate, they will have the opportunity to implement the first method, and give each other steps down in the process of communication, indicating that they attach great importance to this relationship.

To retreat as advance, the core of this trick is to give each other a step, Cold War couples may have a heart that wants to reconcile, but can never let go, if someone gives a step at this time, I believe that the other half is very willing to communicate along the steps. For example, prepare a loving breakfast in the morning, or take the initiative to talk to the other person, admit your mistakes and point out your shortcomings. The contradictions are not very big, they should all be resolved, and after a period of cold war, they may no longer be angry with each other. ‍‍

It is necessary to seriously reflect on one's own mistakes. Don't think that someone else is wrong, and don't use other people's attitudes and behaviors towards things as a standard to measure the right and wrong of things. In other words, he is in the Cold War, but the Cold War is not wrong, at least who is wrong must be analyzed, and the premise of objective analysis is to find fault with oneself first.

If there is a problem, then change the problem, if there is no problem, there is nothing wrong with this move to find the fault from yourself first.

Your girlfriend is your girlfriend, don't you coax, do you wait for others to coax? Of course, you have to coax your girlfriend with your girlfriend, girls, sometimes it's just like a child, there are a lot of little tempers, maybe you lower your head, you will be reconciled, don't be the same as the movie ex, don't bow your head, you think the other party will come to you first. In the end, it was really in a prosperous place to say Lin Jia, I love you, I love you, the woman really eats mangoes, and she has allergies.

It is said that women are made of water, your temperature gives her attitude towards you, don't cold war in all quarrels, what is there to sit down and talk about it, it's good to talk about it, you as a man must learn to give women a step, even if you win, what can you do.

Give each other some opportunities to get along with each other, the cold war will calm down the emotions of both people, and it will be easier to communicate after leaving enough space for each other.

I think you should lower your head, apologize to her, go to him, talk to him well, don't have a cold war, a cold war will destroy the relationship between two people,

I think you can impress her from a lot of small details, like melting an iceberg, she is cold, you can't give up.

If that's the case, you should go and take a break and come back when he's in a better mood.