Do you want to give something to chase girls?

If you send it, you can, catch his habit, send something small, be sure to persevere, don't send too valuable things at first.

According to their own economic strength to send, occasionally, do not need to be too often such as festivals or something, gifts should be intimate, do not require gorgeous luxury.

When you have a holiday, you can give a small gift, remember not to send too expensive when you haven't just arrived, usually don't give it well, if you really love each other, the gift is just a token to take as a souvenir, if you play with that, the breakup gift is garbage,

Girls like small surprises, small touches, and give them small things as they like. What matters is how much she is in your heart.

Look at what kind of girl she is, don't be too expensive, but have a heart.

Scarves and hats to be given for the holidays.

In fact, the problem of chasing girls to give gifts is a very common problem. I'm sure many boys have encountered it. Everyone's approach is different, and the results are different. So should I send it or not? How to send? I'm going to tell you about it today.

I would say that during the courtship phase, it is better not to give gifts to girls. Of course, I also understand the mood of your old iron, like someone, and definitely want to be good to her, but before the formal relationship is confirmed, giving gifts is a radical act of showing love. If a girl has a crush on you, she may accept it, but if the gift is more expensive, it will still cause pressure on her.

Think about it, if you don't succeed in the future, what will she do with this gift? What's worse, if the girl doesn't have a crush on you, she will definitely refuse to accept the gift. After all, for girls, accepting it means acceptance, and refusal is direct persuasion.

The above is all about the situation of encountering serious girls, if there is a spare tire and a basket of masters, then your gift is only a regular offering for her. Of course, it doesn't mean that chasing girls must not give gifts, if you want to give, it is recommended to only give some meaningful but not costly gifts. For example, a book you like, a handicraft of your own home, some local products from your hometown.

Give these gifts to girls will not seem too purposeful, and there is no pressure on girls to receive them.

Under what circumstances can you give a gift to a girl? It's very simple, one is that the girl shows an obvious affection for you, and she takes the initiative to pay for the relationship. For example, if she wakes up early to make you a bento, you can also return a small gift.

The second is to give a gift to a girl on some special days, or if you can find a reasonable excuse. For example, if a girl has a birthday, or if she shows that she likes something very much, and you happen to have the resources to do so, then you can give her this gift. And before sending it, it was just a gesture.

Of course, if your relationship has developed into an ambiguous period, or a stage where you are only close to the door, you can also give some gifts. At this time, giving a gift is tantamount to sending a signal to the other party to advance the relationship. As long as the other party accepts it, it also means that you can hold hands and succeed.

So what should you do if the gift is rejected by the girl? What needs to be done at this time is to reduce the sense of need. Get along like an ordinary friend first, and if a girl is tepid to you, you don't need to lick your face to please her.

If you have time, you can learn about the interests and hobbies of girls, as well as their daily work and life dynamics. With this information, you can start a conversation with her smoothly. In fact, the rejection of a gift is already a confession failure, so when you maintain normal communication with the girl again and let the relationship out of the embarrassment, it means that the other party is willing to develop a relationship with you.

But you still have to pay attention, don't be too aggressive to pursue girls in the future, and don't be too proactive before the other party shows a good impression of you, so that you will be hurt in the end.

In fact, there are many boys in our lives who uphold the concept that chasing girls is to give things. Generally, sending flowers and cosmetics is relatively common, and in their opinion, there is no girl who doesn't like these. Here's a look at whether chasing girls should give gifts.

In the early days of chasing girls, it is best not to give gifts easily, especially things that are still relatively expensive. The girl and you are not related to each other, and you are not meritorious, and suddenly send a valuable, the pressure on the girl is very great. On a deeper level, does accepting your valuable gift mean accepting you?

You know, girls are very emotional, and giving gifts at the right time is better than you keep giving them, and you can't give them as soon as the festival arrives, which will only have the opposite effect.

And many boys like to choose jewelry, you must know that girls have high requirements for jewelry, especially symbolic jewelry. A girl who doesn't have a good impression of you, she won't bring the jewelry you send, and it's useless to send it.

Before giving a gift, you should figure out what kind of identity you are, and in what capacity you want to give this gift, is it a friend or a lover? If you are a friend, what should you send? If it's a lover, what should you send? Girls never hate boys who pursue themselves, but want to pursue them as many boys as possible, they only hate boys who only know how to vent themselves, regardless of each other's feelings.

According to your current relationship, you have met a few times, some of them are familiar, and they don't know each other deeply, that is a friend, above ordinary friends, below good friends, there will be more similar gifts, such as, red apples, fruit gift boxes, gloves or something. But then again, it's always about giving gifts, and you're famous! Give it for no reason, it's not the New Year, it's not a festival, what is the gift for?

Everyone around me does this, and there is a trend that boys give gifts to girls they like. For example, give chocolates on Valentine's Day, choose birthday gifts for birthdays, give apples for Christmas, and so on. In addition, such a picture is often described in movies and television, the male protagonist gave the heroine a bouquet of flowers, and the heroine was moved to cry and kissed with the male protagonist.

These boys watched TV and believed in the design of the plot, so they really did it in reality, and felt that it was natural for boys to give gifts.

Love is a science, and there are many ways in it. I think that giving gifts is good for girls, and I think that what I like is what girls like. These people have not been studied by emotional education, and they don't know what it's actually like to fall in love with a girl, and they don't know how to do it.

So I will impose my imagination on girls and pursue it indiscriminately. These people are often very straight men, do not understand the psychology of women, and although they themselves have the opportunity, they mess up the relationship because of the wrong thinking and direction.

I think you should give gifts, and during the period of chasing girls, you should give some gifts, show your heart, and also show your position, it is better to do so.

You should give a gift to the other person, so that it will leave a particularly good feeling, and it will also make the other person feel that he cares about the other person very much, and will make the other person like you very much.

Forget it, but there's no need to send a lot, you can give a little ten yuan to express your heart, so girls can also feel it, and you can go further in the relationship between the two people, you can send an appropriate amount.

There is no need to send particularly expensive things, you can buy her some particularly cost-effective gifts, such as bags, cosmetics and the like.

Gifts, of course. If you want to pursue a girl without giving gifts and not willing to spend money, how can you? Because when you give a gift, it represents your heart.

When you pursue a girl, you must put some small gifts, otherwise, how will people know that you are pursuing her?

It may be that such a girl does not want to owe you too much, or it is possible that such a girl is not ready to continue to get along with you, so she does not want you to give her too many gifts.

She may feel that you are not the type she likes, so not wanting to accept your stuff is a way to reject the pursuit of others.

The pursuing girl doesn't let you give her something is a very independent psychological idea, he feels that there is no definite relationship between the two of you, and he doesn't want to charge you anything, but also respects you.

I just feel that the two people have not yet established a relationship, so I don't want to accept your gifts, because it is useless.

Because she doesn't want you to pay too much for her, she is afraid that the final result will not be what you think, which will make you very sad.

On the other hand, it may be that this girl doesn't like you, so she doesn't want to accept your gifts, and as a girl, she may not want you to spend money indiscriminately

I just don't want to accept you as a person easily, and I want to wait a little longer to see it, so I don't accept things.

Maybe it's because I'm afraid that I owe you favors, so I can't know you and understand you objectively and fairly.

It's a very normal psychology, she doesn't want to owe you, it's a normal thing, and you won't be embarrassed if you don't accept things together.

Maybe it's just that I feel that my hands are short and my mouth is short, and I don't want to owe you too much favor, and I want to test you before making a decision.

Such a girl may not want to owe you too much, or she may not have thought about whether she wants to fall in love with you, so she doesn't want you to give her a lot of gifts.

Girls either don't like you, or they like you but don't want to see you always spend so much money on gifts.

This is a psychology that doesn't like you, so I don't want you to give her something. Just to not owe each other.

First of all, in terms of reasons, some boys may find girls difficult to figure out and don't know what they need, so they will choose to take the initiative to ask the girl's brother if he wants to be cautious, so as to save the time when the time comes.

However, doing so often makes girls feel that boys are not assertive and independent enough. Female students generally want boys to think and make decisions for themselves, rather than relying solely on their opinions.

When a girl feels that you are not assertive, your attraction to her will be greatly reduced.

Secondly, if a guy asks a girl if she wants a gift before giving it, it may give the impression that you don't really want to give her a gift.

Gifts should be given out of your own heart, not because the girl said she wanted to give them. If the boy does not really take into account the needs of the girl, and just gives it for the sake of giving, then the gift does not have much meaning for the girl.

Thirdly, if the guy doesn't know the girl's preferences, then he should find a way to find out instead of asking directly.

She. Boys can learn about a girl's interests and needs by observing her lifestyle and tastes. If the boy does a good job in this regard, then the gift he gives is more meaningful and more able to show his concern and importance for the girl.

In contrast, if a guy asks a girl directly if she wants a gift, the girl may feel that it is just a very casual move.

Finally, not asking the girl's opinion before giving a gift will surprise the girl** even more.

When a boy can accurately guess the girl's needs and give a gift that is very kind to her without telling her, the girl will definitely be more moved and surprised. This feeling cannot be described in words, but this kind of surprise and emotion will make the girl feel the care and love of the boy.