I am very conflicted and unwilling... I am very conflicted, why do I always have trouble with myself

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, the beauty has rice, you can make a sugar daddy, maybe she has rice at home, normal psychology, making a lot of money is not a part-time job, of course, the psychology is unbalanced, and it is precisely because of the imbalance that she will not accept it, and she will find a way to pursue it

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People are more angry than people.

    People have many stages, take your time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe you're thinking too much about it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Go out for a walk, look at the landscape, buy two books and get a good night's sleep?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's because you don't have a clear goal and don't know what you're supposed to do.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Or I am not strong enough, professionally, emotionally.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everyone goes through times like this. Get up and do something.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Didn't you even say that you had decided not to bother her in the future?

    That is, you have decided to let go.

    But I still feel a little reluctant.

    There are still some unwillingness.

    Love is two people are love.

    Love is two-sided.

    You love her very much, but it's clear that she doesn't love you anymore (maybe she didn't really love you in the first place) and let go of what you should do.

    Does it make sense to dwell on it any longer?

    She's tired of it anymore.

    Even if you stalk her, she reluctantly agrees.

    Will you be happy?

    She is not the one who is destined to be with you for the rest of your life.

    She's just a passerby in your life.

    The person you have to wait for in your life will meet you at the next intersection.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Giving is not rewarded, love is not gained, some people, there is a shadow for a lifetime, can not live in your heart, and some people, just a second, you have fallen! When you can't have it, the only thing you can do is not to forget about it....Some things don't belong to you, and you can't keep them no matter how hard you fight for them, in fact, giving up is to have, because then your heart won't be too tired.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, you like him, but you are deliberately avoiding it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You just treat him as a friend, ask your heart more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's just a favorite, not a like.

    At first, I have a novelty for him, and then once the novelty is over, there is nothing left, don't take it as a liking.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It means that you are only talking to him, but not your ideal type.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You have to understand your boyfriend, the average person has a bad personality, it's better to talk to him more.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You've begun to get used to his presence.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To say that you are unwilling to be ordinary is to have a high-spirited pursuit in your heart, and to say that you like an ordinary life is to show that you are unwilling to be in the whirlpool of the world of complicated disputes--- a kind of pursuit, a kind of mentality ---

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, it's not the same as liking an ordinary life. And even if there is a contradiction, it is okay, the pursuit and the preference are not in conflict.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Unwilling to be ordinary is his style of doing things, liking the plain is his way of life, and there will be no conflict.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    One will swear an alliance, and one will go their separate ways! Is it a conflict? No, because that's human nature.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Life is inherently ordinary, there is no conflict with this, but everyone has a lot of unwillingness, even if they are unwilling to be ordinary and have to face a dull life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Ha, the life he is referring to is the kind of "ordinary life" where he is the richest man in the world and has been the richest man in the world for a long time

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He wanted to put all eyes on it, and then it would be dull.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Sometimes I know that this love is over, but I still do everything I can, try my best, talk about it all the way to the end, and I don't care if I hit the wall and the mountain until it is destroyed. Why? It's not because of luck and extravagance that there will be any turnaround, but vaguely know:

    If you miss this time, you won't have a chance to burn completely...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Although he is adrift outside, he is free, and he can also exercise himself and realize his personal dreams independently; But sometimes a person has been wandering outside for too long, has been hit by a certain blow, has no comfort from relatives, has no harbor, feels very tired, very hard, and sometimes wants to go home, but he is unwilling...

    Actually, we can go back for the Chinese New Year and see it often, but it's better to exercise alone than by our parents' side, so that our wings will become stronger!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Oh.. I don't know what to do when I go back, why do I go back???

    Stay here, at least you know what you're supposed to do...

    Or you can look elsewhere for opportunities ... The vast world has a lot to offer. Why go back to your hometown to pinch?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The odds of regretting your choice should be low.

    Hopefully, you can choose to be true to yourself and you won't regret it in the future.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Simple, find a coin. Just take your pick. The hardest to choose is also the easiest to choose.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1.From now on, shift your attention, do something that you haven't tried before, you can also do some sports, work and study more, keep yourself busy first, and after a long time, you won't think about these things when you meet an excellent girl (boy).

    2.Unwilling and still like is different, most of the unwillingness is because you don't achieve what you want, you don't finish what you want to do, etc., and this unwillingness will shift your goals with the change of time. I still like it, I can't let it go in my heart, so let's put down your boys' (girls') self-esteem and face for the time being to find that person, but you must not exceed your bottom line, which is very important!!

    3.Since you yourself know that your personality is not compatible and you are not a person of the same world, it proves that you have a certain understanding of each other, but before you break up, you must have collapsed because of some things and disagreements, resulting in separation, so even if you get back together later, you will definitely break down here because of the same problems After all, it is difficult to reunite after breaking the mirror.

    In the end, if you want to go for it, at least do it, don't take the final ending too seriously, maybe your last half is waiting for you not far away?

    ps: You don't have to give up the whole forest for a grass, at least you can't exceed your bottom line, people live for the first time, and no one owes anyone.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Since it's been a long time since you've broken up, let's let it go, the personality is not compatible with her and she is not the same world, it means that there will be a lot of contradictions in the future, since you are willing to tolerate everything about her or you can try to ask her if she can come back, if not, then let it go for a long time, maybe the other party has already let go of you, so for each other, sometimes it is better to let go.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Although I can't let it go, but it's not compatible with each other, I hope you still let it go! Let's fall in love again! There's always someone right for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Recently, Dark Lori Damei broke up with Gaudí What he said touched me the most He said Don't grow up with a boy When you are young, you want to grow up with him You want to dedicate your life to love When you grow up, you don't die I gave you a low life I really don't believe in any love anymore Girls should be sober Love in TV series is what we look forward to The truth is cruel.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Do it if you want to do it, suggestion: think about it, you yourself said that you are not a person of the world, why do you want to go to her? Since it is not in sync, there will be contradictions in the future, so you have to be mentally prepared. You said you could tolerate everything about her, think about it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Brother, promise me, don't lick it, big man, it's not bad for women, men can be affectionate and righteous, but don't be bound by this. There is a wider world waiting for you to soar.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This is fate, but many times it is fate, too persistent will hurt you, let go and live yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Now that you realize that you are not a member of the world, why can't you let go! The twisted melon is not sweet, don't be together again if you can't get together, the rabbit's future will be painful! You can look for a better relationship, a good girl has it, why not stay in this relationship!

    Let's find a girl who is compatible!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Since you broke up with her, don't worry too much and be reluctant. Because your personality is not suitable, even if you are reluctant to be together, you will not be happy, after all, marriage is not child's play, since you can't have a good future, then simply give up.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    As much as there is tolerance, there is as much possession. Love is the greatest tolerance.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. We must learn to give, and only when we give can we gain. Now that you have broken up, you should let go and find someone else again, which is your own happiness.

    A good horse doesn't eat grass, and if he is a good man, he should find his own future. People who are not in the same world will be separated if they live together. Only by finding someone who is destined can you be happy for a lifetime.

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