Is it tiring to think too much about a person?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think too much and feel tired, probably because I don't have a sense of security in life. Most of the reason for this is that I entrust myself to others, and I will be tired without my own fulcrum. Feeling tired, probably something can't be solved.

    People feel uneasy when they feel powerless, and they will have a certain psychological pressure to think that they are so useless. Or, when facing the unknown, feeling uncertain and fearful, it will also put psychological pressure on you. It's also nervous!

    What we need to know is that we are human beings, not gods, and that there are things that we cannot solve, or that we can solve now. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. When we do everything, we just have no regrets as long as we do our best.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People who think too much don't necessarily get tired! Everyone's thinking is different, and their experiences are different...I think if you look at it from your point of view, I think it should be tiring, after all, the understanding of life is different, and the treatment is similar and different!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If a person thinks too much, the stress will become significantly heavier, and a bad mood will follow, and the physical health will be damaged. People who are often happy in body and mind will think too much. However, there are also advantages to thinking too much, and in terms of how to behave and deal with things, it will be easier not to get hurt if you pay more attention.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People live to see their mentality, and they must be tired if they think about it.

    Trouble, thanks!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't think about what you shouldn't think, you won't get tired if you think about what you should think, what you should do, and what you like!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and love is even more so. Even if love is perfect, there will always be various problems. It is a normal state that there are problems in love, and whether love can go smoothly depends on whether the two people have the right attitude to solve the problem, otherwise they will be very tired of love.

    The reason why I feel this way is because I have just experienced this kind of love.

    I fell in love with him, and at the beginning there was no difference from someone else's love, he liked me, I liked him, he pursued me, and our love began. I can feel his efforts, his intentions, and his tolerance. He can treat me with his heart, which is the most gratifying thing for me.

    However, his fault was that he magnified my importance to him too much. Originally, it was easy to fall in love, since you love each other, you can trust each other at ease, and there is no need to worry too much about whether the other party will be angry, whether it will change its mind, and so on.

    After a month of dating, it was clear to me that something was wrong with him. Although he still clings to me as before, he doesn't have the same enthusiasm as before. He will tangle why I don't reply to his messages, go back and entangle the emotions in my every sentence, and entangle the mood that I want to hang **, in short, he is "a cup" in everything and becomes very sensitive.

    Although he didn't tell me that he was tired, the state he posted in the circle of friends was obviously a tired tone, and I could feel it. I feel tired for him in this state, and he is always like this, which makes me very tired.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then let it go, because just thinking about it won't solve the problem, don't torture yourself like this, the other party doesn't know at all.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe that person is not suitable for you, fate is a wonderful thing that needs to wait slowly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The person who is really right for you doesn't need you to chase after him, he will stop when you're tired and wait for you to take your hand and walk slowly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Thinking about being alone, sometimes I feel really tired. It is not a bad thing to think about a person and care about the results of a person, but this kind of tiredness should not affect our normal life and work. In other words, this kind of tiredness is the feeling that we long to be with the person we miss all the time, but we can't be together all the time.

    In fact, such tiredness is also a manifestation of love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tired. You have to remember that it is the happiest thing to be able to meet someone you like, so you must cherish it, no matter what problems you encounter, don't give up easily, as long as you love him, any problem can be solved. It's really tiring to wait.

    Of course tired. You don't have to be clever, you just have to take care of yourself, and you have to always think about him.

    Accept not only his strengths, but also his shortcomings.

    Anyway, there are a lot of problems.

    But you love him so much.

    I don't care.

    Tired or not. Hehe.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Each of us comes to this world, we have no right to choose birth and death, and the fate of human beings is predestined for seven points and three points for man. If you work hard enough, and the direction is right, plus a little luck, it will not be too difficult to change, the only thing we can do is to choose how to live, in addition, we have to face a lot of problems every day, from basic firewood, rice, oil and salt, birth, old age, sickness and death, to study and employment, interpersonal relationships, etc., all-inclusive. Even expert-level people can only deal with one of these aspects, not to mention, we are just ordinary people, how much choice do we have?

    Since we can't handle it well, then it is enough for us to live an ordinary and happy life, and before that you have to learn to let go of your baggage. Don't overthink it, it's important to be happy every day. When I am tired of looking at the world, people are tired, and when I look at the world with smiling eyes, people are smiling and smiling, this is what Sister Qiu said when I was troubled.

    Your troubled days are the same, and so are your happy and happy days. Whether you are happy or not lies in your mood, not in life itself, your mood is good, even if you are poor, you are very happy and happy. Compared to those rich people, at least we don't have to worry about the safety of our lives, and we can sleep peacefully every night when we are tired, aren't we much happier?

    Don't always compare yourself to others, we need to learn to work harder to find the happiness factor in our own lives, and that's right. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and if you always compare your weaknesses to the strengths of others, you will feel like a failure. But if you compare your strengths with the weaknesses of others, you will be able to find your self-confidence and live happily.

    At the same time of comparison, maybe a guy who doesn't know the situation will suddenly come out and accuse you of this is not right, right, say that you are useless, and don't give you any chance to refute, it doesn't matter, go your own way, let others say go, just as if he escaped with the family warehouse? Whether people are happy or not to live does not depend on the amount of material, but on whether their mentality is in the right position. For me, don't be superfluous, have an ordinary job, cherish a shocking story, like a confidant who understands me, often send a silent blessing, forget some worldly troubles, leave a string of romantic memories, what more?

    Being able to go on with life is the greatest gift! It's good to be kind to others, but it also depends on what kind of person the other person is, some people are necessary for you to be good to him, and some people are not necessary, if you put your mood in these aspects all day long, it's no wonder if you're not tired Don't be too wronged by yourself, you can do what you want to be happy Don't care too much about other people's opinions, I believe you can do it, come on!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In real life, many people feel that they are very tired of living, and as soon as they open their eyes every day, they have to face all kinds of pressure, urging themselves to move forward with a heavy load. But no matter who you are, whether you have money or not, everyone has their own pressures and troubles, this is an objective fact. But why do some people live easily with or without money?

    Just do 3 things well.

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