What should I do if I like a man who is 23 years older than me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Sooner or later, you have to separate, and sooner or later you have to face loneliness. For the sake of him and his family, and for your own happiness in the future, I personally advise you to have the courage to cut off this feeling. Reading between the lines, I can feel your liking, but I can't feel your happiness.

    There is a kind of love that is silently blessed in the heart. Don't force a man who already belongs to a family to stay around, you will be miserable and he will be very embarrassed. This kind of love has changed its taste, and it doesn't match your original intention of liking him, right?

    I'm so dizzy. I feel from your description that the one of you has not yet accepted you emotionally, ** there is opposition from your family and your friends? If he really accepts and is already in a relationship with you, it will be a painful thing.

    Not much happiness and sweetness. Think about the happiness you want for yourself, and don't be content with the present moment and stagnate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Personally, I think it's better for you to give up! Because after all, he is a man with a wife and daughter!

    I know it's going to hurt! Because I loved it too, but he can't give you happiness!

    His happiness can only be given to his wife! And you're just a lover at best! Why bother!

    Even if he and his wife don't have a good relationship! But they're still husband and wife! You don't have the qualifications and no reason to intervene!

    Let it go! It's better for you to be in pain alone than for so many people to follow you! I can see you're a kind girl!

    You should know that it is very bad to destroy someone else's family!

    So you have to think about it! Your decision has a big impact on his family! I'm also sure you can find a better man than him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I suggest you give up.

    Don't set yourself up for the consequences.

    The other party is a family person.

    Don't ruin a perfect family anymore.

    Your true love won't be his.

    Be sensible yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Is it realistic? Is it love? I don't think it's realistic, you can't just think about the present, you have to think about the long term!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Think about whether you have a father-love complex.

    Take a look at the article above, it will be helpful to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you're brave enough to face the eyes of the people around you, then go ahead.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If he has a family, he will dump him, and if he does not, he will observe and observe.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Adolescent psychology, wait a little longer, it'll be fine after a while.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You'd better marry him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no limit to age, no matter how much older he is than you, as long as you truly love him, age is not an issue.

    But before getting married, I don't know if you have thought about it carefully, love is not the same as marriage, and then two people who love each other, into marriage, after a long time, the days will become dull and trivial, at this time the generation gap between your ages will gradually be revealed.

    As people get older, they will become quiet and not active, and they will pay more attention to health in their diet, while you are in the prime of life, and you like to be in a situation where you are far away, and you can barely let the other party adapt to your own rhythm of life, and after a long time, both parties will feel very tired.

    The 30-year-old age gap, living habits are on the one hand, more is the concept of life and the way of doing things in life, the 30-year-old generation gap, let him accept new things, many times slower than you half a beat, for a long time, I don't know if you still have the patience, waiting for him to synchronize with you.

    After you get married, you will definitely have children, people in their 50s take care of children, many times they are more than enough and not enough, but the advantage is that the older people are, the more patient they are with their children, the cat eats children, people love children, life experience will be very rich, and it will be more beneficial for children's education, but the disadvantage is that they will not take their children like young fathers and experience the outside world.

    When you are 40 years old, he is already dying, and he needs you to take care of her more than he takes care of you, although many people have good material conditions and pay attention to health, and look young on the outside, but it is only the appearance, the vicissitudes and years of the heart, no matter how you can't hide it.

    But all buts, for people who really love each other, it's just buts, and two people of the same age can't be said to enter the city, there must be no contradictions, so if you really want to marry him, then get married. You can feel what you love yourself, and you don't have to care about what others think.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm from here. Tell you. Exit now. Aloof.

    This is not fair. Old men are abundant, this is the accumulation of age.

    He was stupid and incompetent and weak and mean and sloppy when he was the same year as you, you know?

    This is not fair. They are now accumulating superficial.

    Stuff too. False. Below.

    Also hidden, hypocritical and indecent. How old are the same.

    Teenage men alike, to adult women, 18-80

    As the opposite sex. Regard. Stay away from him. It's disgusting.

    Right away. There are so many good boys in the world. In the future, each will be compared.

    This old thing. 100 times better.

    Silly girl, hurry up.

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