Obviously she doesn t love me anymore, but I still can t let go, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because you still love her. Loving someone doesn't mean that you can let go of it, she doesn't love you and it's her business, and it's your business that you can't let go. Past emotions are not something that can be forgotten.

    If you want to let go of this relationship quickly, then start a new relationship, the best way to forget about a person is to like someone again, after all, some things some people are passers-by, don't be obsessed, life must go on.

    Don't think about it when you can't let it go, the more you think about it, the more uncomfortable it becomes. Usually go out for a walk, meet more people, walk alone in the woods in a casual afternoon, listen to some brisk **, you will feel that nothing is unbearable.

    If she doesn't love you anymore, don't practice yourself, leave her, and you will find that she is actually very ordinary. All you have to do is divert your attention and do something meaningful to enrich yourself.

    I remember when I broke up, I watched dramas and watched ** when I was alone. Find something to do when you're not busy. Go out with friends and have all kinds of fun. Don't give yourself time to think about him, time is the most honest, just pass.

    Don't borrow alcohol to kill your sorrows because you can't let her go, and don't hurt yourself because she does something, many times we say that we will become what we hate later. Why it has changed, in fact, it is because of some things and some people. Only when we can maintain the originality at this time can we call learning to grow.

    In fact, many times we can't forget those predecessors, or feel how much pain they have given, but in fact, these are necessary experiences in life, only when we experience more, we will learn to cherish, and only when we know more, can we love others and ourselves.

    It's okay if you can't let it go, because growing up is learning to say goodbye with a smile.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's normal that you can't put it down. Don't push yourself.

    I can't let go of proving that I once loved and still love, but so what, love should be equal. Only when two people love each other can they live happily together. If only one person in the marriage gives, the party who gives will not feel loved, and the party who enjoys it will feel sorry for not being able to give the other equal love.

    People who don't love each other can't be happy together, so what's the point of being together. <>

    So you can't let go of the person who doesn't love you, then you continue to love her, but you can't be together, because being together will make both of you miserable. Silently love her. You're a man who values love and justice.

    Loving but not being able to love is also a common phenomenon, don't imagine it as painful. Enjoy the process of loving her.

    Time will ** everything. The person who used to have a crush has now forgotten what he looks like, obviously he was so careful at the beginning, he didn't dare to get too close or too far, he fantasized countless times about what it was like to be with him, he fantasized about whether he would like me too, and he suffered for his words, secretly wrote his name, and watched the homework he handed in. At that time, I thought he was my whole world, but now he is a**?

    I forgot even what he looked like.

    Time is gone, and so is she. She will be forgotten by you, and you will fall in love with a new girl, who is just as beautiful and equally worthy of love. In the future, when you chat and remember the past, you will still sigh, oh!

    I liked her so much at that time! Even though she doesn't like me, now that I have you in love with me, I'm just as happy.

    Don't take things too seriously. Time will dilute everything. Trust me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is a kind of love called letting go, giving up for love for a long time.

    She doesn't love you, so forget it. Love originally needs to be happy with each other, and if it's just wishful thinking, it will end up separately. She doesn't love you anymore, I think you were in love before, if a love changes from love to not love, this is true love, and there is no chance to even turn back.

    Letting go of a person is actually not as difficult as imagined, the relationship between her and you has passed, and basically the city will not start again. What you can do is to let go of everything, because love is difficult to let go, I can understand this. I think a lot of people have spent a long time letting go of someone they can't let go.

    Men, in addition to love, it is a career. You can develop your career well, career is still more important than love. If you lose your love and your career, it's really sad, and you really have nothing.

    If you take your work seriously, you will find that you are really busy and tired, and you don't have time to think about superfluous things. After a period of time, you will find that you will have obvious achievements in your career, and you will not have the previous obsession in love. It turns out that when you get busy, you can really forget some people and things.

    More contact with people, brothers, friends, family, the opposite sex are all people we can reach out to. In life, we have our own private lives in addition to work. If you continue to contact people, you will know more people, and you will feel that life is still quite interesting, and the past will slowly indulge in the bottom of your heart.

    Perhaps, in such a busy state, you forget everything in the past. You still remember her, but it's not that you can't let go, you may still like it, but it's not because of love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is like this, when one person lets go, but I don't know how uncomfortable the other person is, but since she doesn't love you anymore, what you need to do is to forget her, don't stay in the memories of the past and can't extricate yourself, no matter how uncomfortable it is, you know that two people are no longer possible, then simply let go.

    In fact, only the person concerned can understand what it is like, we go all the way to learn how to love someone, when we put all our energy on a person, the heart is thinking about that person, but when that person says that he doesn't love and leaves, it is when we are the most broken, no one will understand the feeling of the sky falling.

    People say that the best way to forget a painful love is to start a new relationship, it seems to be really easy, but it is even more difficult when you do it yourself, because there is already a person in our hearts who we think is very important, and we have given everything we can give, and we don't know how to love someone again.

    Then do what you want to do! Since it can't be recovered, now that she has made a decision in her heart, even if she goes to stalk again, it won't change anything, so try to let herself let go slowly! You can try to travel alone!

    The best place for lovelorns seems to be traveling! Looking at those scenery on the road, divert your attention, love is the same as those scenery, the past is gone, even if you miss this scenery there is a more beautiful scenery waiting for you to enjoy, so no matter what, you have to slowly get used to it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There was once a person who met someone who thought he could stay with him for the rest of his life at that age of youth and ignorance, when he didn't know anything, and he might later feel ridiculous about his impulsive behavior, but that person will never forget.

    Two people who once loved each other finally separated for various reasons, although they were very reluctant in their hearts, but because they loved each other, they had to choose to give up, and they also gained painful growth. I once heard a sentence: There is no fate between you and me, it all depends on me, I understand.

    I used to think that this was very sad, but now I feel that, to put it bluntly, loving someone is actually my own business, and I can tolerate others with the same attitude as I live. As long as you want to continue, you have to love it. The fate of the world is all by support.

    Two people broke up, and someone asked if you remember your ex? How to say, remember, it seems too nostalgic; I don't remember, it seems too affectionate. In fact, I think that the person in the past is like I hit a stone pillar on the road, it hurts, and I will walk around the stone in the future, maybe after a long, long time, I will not remember how painful it was, but the stone will always be there.

    When you see it, you don't think about the pain you once had. It's just that I want to hide it in my heart and don't want to touch it.

    My first love and I are because of the long distance, but also the difference in the personality of the two people, for many years, rarely intersect, rarely go to play together, more only care and greetings across the screen, I really can't hold on, but I can't forget, I really think she is very good, good and impeccable, I can never forget, but I can only silently bless her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel like she doesn't love me, what should I do? In a relationship, we will experience a lot of ups and downs, whether it is in reality or our spirit, but only if we love each other, each other's final depression must be resolved, because there is love in each other's hearts, and once two people are not aligned, then the estrangement is difficult to resolve, at this time we may feel that we are no longer so in love, maybe she doesn't love me anymore, we can no longer quarrel at the end of the bed like in the past, but cold war, or boredom, disgusted expression, in fact, at this time, There must have been a change in each other's hearts, maybe she was disappointed in you.

    If it is a good couple, and suddenly there is such a feeling, it must be solved in time, communicate with each other, communicate, and then ask each other what they think in their hearts, why it is different from before, maybe she is too tired from work, maybe her family has some difficulties, or maybe she is in a more irritable mood during her special period, such a couple is easy to solve.

    The most afraid is between husband and wife, or between lovers for many years, all the run-in period has passed, and they already know each other's temperament well, and the girl is disappointed in the boy, and she doesn't even have any hope, because she knows that the boy has always been like this, it hasn't changed at all, and it can't change, and it doesn't want to change, then the girl will be desperate and indifferent, and the relationship at that time is the most familiar stranger, and it can't be separated because of unwillingness, and the separation may have an impact on each other. And men at this time have always been an afterthought.

    It's just that it feels like the woman doesn't care about everything he has anymore and lets him develop.

    Once a woman doesn't want to care about men, doesn't want to care about men's early and late returns, and even doesn't have a ** greeting for a day, most women are dead in their hearts, dead hearts to men, dead hearts to their feelings, women at this time only love themselves, because she understands that so many years of hard work are in vain, so, I feel that she doesn't love you, what kind of situation is it, talk about it, introspection.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As you said, feeling that he doesn't love you, you just feel a situation, as long as you like him very much in your own heart, and that is to try to prove it with practical actions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you feel that the other person doesn't love you, then you can continue to be doubly nice to him and see if he has any kind of response to you. If he still doesn't love you, then I feel like you can give up on him, after all, for a person who has no feelings for you, no matter how good you are to him, it doesn't mean anything.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you still have feelings for the other person, in fact, you can still try to try to win them back. But if you don't feel for the other person either, then it may be a better option to separate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    At this time, you should ask the other party to see if the other party really loves you, you must take the initiative to ask, so that you can get the result you want in the end, of course, you should also examine yourself and try to correct some of your shortcomings and mistakes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, sometimes you don't rely on this feeling of yourself, as long as you feel that this woman likes you, you will have such a feeling. At this time, you have to ask yourself about this feeling in your heart, if this woman does not love you, then you can forgive this woman.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If she doesn't love you, then you leave as soon as possible and don't think about it all day, then neither of you will be happy, if you think she still loves you. Then live well and don't be so pretentious.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He doesn't love you, you also have to find the reason from yourself, if you do well enough, the other party is still like this, then you have to consider whether you are really suitable, or talk to him to find the crux of the problem, if it really doesn't work, then find a more suitable one for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Try to redeem it, and reflect on whether you have done it well enough! If it is caused by its own reasons, it will be changed! Care more about her! If it doesn't change, it means that she doesn't care about you anymore, let it go! Don't let yourself be covered in scars.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you feel that she doesn't love you, then you can be kind to the other person, care more, care for the other person, and let the other person change their attitude towards you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The twisted melon is not sweet, if she doesn't love you, let it go, holding it will only make you more painful, let go of your hands and go out to find your other half, you will always appear.

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