What about introverts in boys? What to do if a boy is too introverted

Whether it's a man or a woman, introversion is subconsciously trying to protect yourself. Why does the subconscious mind unconsciously protect itself? Maybe it's something you were born with, maybe it's something that hurts you at some point, but in any case, it's just not confident enough.

The only way to change this personality is to develop your self-confidence. Let yourself try something difficult slowly and find some confidence in it. Enrich your knowledge, cultivate your eloquence, and let yourself speak with a sense of humor to narrow the distance between people.

A person with a sense of humor is the easiest to like, as long as you know how to joke and master the sense of proportion, and do not offend people, then life will slowly change. When you can joke with strangers, your introverted personality will be cured! I used to be a very low self-esteem and very introverted person, and even had a slight autism, but what changed me was a book called "Humor and Eloquence", since I learned to tease others, now I can communicate with anyone calmly, friends or clients also like to call me to liven up the atmosphere when they have important entertainment Although I am always the poorest of them, in their eyes I live the most free life!

Most introverted boys are emotional people, and they are more down-to-earth, as long as their hearts are full of love and hope!

Introversion is a child's personality and temperament, parents must learn to accept their child's character, and introverted children also have a lot of advantages, careful observation, careful work. For introverted children, on the one hand, empathy education is carried out, more praise, more praise, more recognition, and more recognition, so that children can think about problems from different perspectives. And to communicate more, to comfort the child more.

When an introverted child has a problem, give more inner excavation, including not scolding, and leading the child to engage in effective games and communication activities to improve the child's cognition of things.

What to do with introverted children.

1. Most of today's parents are very busy, and even the mother may not be able to stay with the child from time to time, and the long-term loneliness will make the child gradually close the door of his heart, and would rather talk to himself than communicate with other people, so that after a long time, the child's personality will be more introverted.

2. If the mother wants to change the child's personality, she must accompany the child more, actively participate in the child's life, and let the child participate in your life, so that the child will be full of security in his heart, and he will naturally become more and more bold and lively.

Reasons why children are introverted.

1. Parents don't speak. The vast majority of parents don't like to talk and are more introverted, so when the child needs to communicate, parents can't understand the child's needs in time, and finally develop an introverted and timid character.

2. Family disharmony. Either parent is acting violently, or the parents are constantly arguing. Then the child loses dependence on the parents in the middle, and the younger child will also have the mood of fear.

3. Often hit. If the child does not do well, he will consult his parents, or learn from him in the same way, but after his own efforts, he will be blamed if he fails to meet the requirements of his parents.

Introversion or shyness is not a child's fault, it is just an innate temperament that does not need to be corrected.

Generally, introverted children will be like this, it does not mean that he does not express, he may need more time to prepare, so if you meet a very impatient parent, he will lose his temper after waiting for a long time before a word comes out, how can this child be very annoyed, so for the introverted child we have to give him a very long time, give him a space, let him play freely in this time and space, our parents give him an encouragement, encourage him to learn to listen to himself, learn to express himself, At this time, parents may be ideal to this point, you have to have enough patience, sometimes we parents will be very tired, tired after feeling how this child is so introverted, but you have to know that a child like you is born, he is such a character trait, so you have to understand him.