How to adjust your mindset when someone else puts you in a certain level?

When I was immature before, I was very concerned about the labels that others gave me, and I felt that if I had any dissatisfaction, I would collapse.

Later, I found out that the label that others put on you is only you in the eyes of others, not all your true self. Besides, whatever label he puts on you, it won't do you any real harm, and it won't let you lose a piece of meat. It won't hurt you in any other way.

Some people say that my reputation has been damaged, and some people say that he has ruined my reputation, and if he labels me like this, others will <> me

Have bad thoughts about me.

Bad impression. This, this is slandering me.

It is true that what he said is not the truth, but if only a few times his slander or a few wrong labels can discredit your image a lot, then how easy it is for this image of your own business to collapse!

The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time. He will divide you into different levels, which will make you very unhappy and even depressed for the time being.

I even think this person is <>

How is this and that?

It doesn't matter anymore, the reason why you draw such an ignorant level is because the two of you are comparable, on the contrary, if you, the gap between you and him is in, and he wants to look up to you, then he will still be so unrealistic in the level of scribbling?

In order to, because of him, knowing that he needs to look up to you, the so-called to hug the thighs. When each of us has to go through such a stage, anger, dissatisfaction, so that the cognition returns to calm, and finally <>

Put something to the side! In the face of words that don't suit you or make you uncomfortable at all, if you can distinguish between them and your advantage.

Absorption! If it doesn't work, treat it as garbage! There is so much garbage in this world, you can't be every day.

Make sure they go into the trash! Calm down!

Level ......Since ancient times, people have not been able to get rid of this word, even in today's socialist society.

And my hierarchy here is a self-centered hierarchy. My mindset towards this rank depends on the person who gave me it.

Suppose this person is my superior and puts me in a bad position. Then, I will work hard to change the status quo, and I will change their perception of me through my own efforts. It's a bit worldly, but I have to.

It's about my income, my future promotion, my family, my life. No matter how hard it is, I will try to get them to change their opinion of me. If I am classified as good, I will not be complacent, because I am born in sorrow and die in peace.

I also have to work harder and move towards a higher level. Don't say that I'm too utilitarian, and a soldier who is not a general is not a good soldier.

If this person is someone I care about, I will ask him what the reason for doing so is. If it's my reason, then I'll change it, because you're the one I care about, and I want to stay with you forever. But if it's not for me, then maybe I should consider whether you're worth it or not.

Suppose, this other person is really someone else. Then, if the mouth grows on others, I can't control others. All I can do is take care of myself and live my life according to my own trajectory.

It's not about going your own way and letting someone else take a taxi. When we are born in the world, we will inevitably be judged and compared by others. However, if there is really a bad behavior, I will still go to their words and change my bad things.

After all, people need to keep learning and constantly improving themselves.

I think we should use a positive, optimistic, and upward attitude to understand it, analyze it, and deal with it.

If it were me, I would choose to ignore it directly! Don't let this affect my life!