Why are there so many leftover men and women in life?

I'm a leftover woman, I think the only reason why leftover women are because of kindness, not beautiful and honest, and leftover men are definitely left because they are poor, unqualified, hungry, obscene, selfish...

Personal hobbies are different, there are too few warm men, they are all manly husbands, and there are many soft rice, no economic foundation, no strength, the door is not right, family education, the gap in all aspects is too big,

There are many men and women, so let's get together and give birth to the child first, what to support, don't look for it, a match made in heaven may be around.

Now that I'm almost 25 years old when I come out of college, many people want to find a partner after a stable job, and work for a few more years.

It should be asked why so many people get married and then divorce.

Just look at how the married (married) is written, that is, women have become smarter and no longer dizzy! It's unreliable to trick a woman into going home to be a free babysitter.

Because everyone has their own life circle, there are too few people who are right and fall in love with each other, and there is a lot of pressure on them to not be right, and they can't get together in the end. ‍‍

Nowadays, many leftover men and women, except for those with poor family conditions, most of them either don't have enough fun, or they are very selfish and don't want to be responsible for themselves and others.

If marriage is really that good, will there be left?

I feel that many young men and women are overly dependent on their parents, no matter what kind of profession they engage in and how successful they are, they are still not independent individuals, and they are still immature at the marriageable age.

Probably some older unmarried young people are not enough to position themselves, overestimate themselves, think that their own conditions are superior, appearance, temperament, character, occupation, education, family background and social status are not worse than others, "high can not be, low is not enough" mate selection mentality makes them miss the best age to choose a mate, but also lack a correct attitude towards mate selection, some unmarried young people choose a mate with impure motives, using marriage as a medium, trying to obtain money, rights and other benefits for themselves. However, material conditions must be considered, but marriage is not entirely based on material conditions, and love that is enshrined with material things will not last long.

I think so, now there is more wealth, the requirements are higher, and they enjoy a high-end life in life, and their vision will be high, and it will definitely be difficult to find a partner if they have a high vision.

Personally, I think that life is fast-paced, work is stressful, work from 8 to 5 in the morning every day, and even work longer, and then I am busy with work and have no time to take care of personal emotional problems.

It's terrible, now the "correct view of marriage and love" that we young people generally agree on is not widely recognized by everyone in real life, and those who are unwilling to settle for themselves have become "leftover men and women" in everyone's eyes.

There are many reasons why people who are getting more and more prepared to answer the question of whether they marry later or don't get married

1.Economic pressure: With the development of social economy and the highest prices, many people cannot afford the financial pressure of getting married and raising a family, so they choose to marry later or not to get married.

2.Conceptual change: With the progress of social concepts, more and more people believe that marriage is not an inevitable life choice, but a free choice of an individual.

3.Career development: Many young people seek higher professional status and career success in their career development, and do not want to be distracted by marriage and family.

4.Personal hobbies: Some people prefer a more independent lifestyle and pursue their own interests and hobbies, rather than being bound by marriage and family.

5.Change in the concept of marriage: Today's young people pay more attention to the quality of marriage, and are not willing to marry for the sake of marriage, but hope to find the person they really like and establish a healthy and equal marriage relationship.

To sum up, the reasons for marrying later or not marrying vary from person to person, and a variety of factors work together.

1.At present, the interaction of information hail difference is very simple, like chat software or through the Internet, in short, a mobile phone can know and understand almost everything, the need for men and women to accompany is reduced, plus men and women are becoming more and more independent, have their own circles and things laughing, so many people who can't meet real hearts will choose to wait and see the source of the skin, resulting in a lot of men and women of the right age are still single.