I want to get out of my current state, how do I get out of my current state

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In this relationship, you let yourself be too obsessed with liking him, which shows that his every move can affect your emotions

    Girl, be kind to yourself, maybe say that women don't invest too much in the relationship, and it is empty talk to be able to stand up again if you fall, because few people think about the end of the relationship at the beginning, but since you find yourself heartbroken when you think of him, you feel that you are singing a one-man show in this relationship Why bother yourself?

    Although it is not easy to find a good man, there are many of them, why don't girls find a boy who loves herself more than you love him, instead of making herself so miserable?

    It's hard to get out of a relationship. If you don't leave, you will continue to suffer; Leaving, although it will also be painful, but after all, there will be a day when the sea and the sky will be wide.

    There is a dead end ahead, hope is around the corner, try to divert your attention to other places, don't think about him every day, the more you think about it, the more you can't leave

    If you decide to leave, give yourself a little time, don't rush it, take your time, slowly forget about him, and everything will be fine

    I wish you happiness

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Lonely because you want someone, gentle because you love someone, clinging because you have a dream, tormented because you wait for someone, liberated because you want someone, tolerant because you love someone, indulge because you have a dream, and wander because you wait for someone.

    Life is in the world, but it is only a hundred years, and there will always be people who praise and scold.

    If you can't forget him, don't forget him.

    Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant.

    Excuse me, what do you have in mind?

    You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

    The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.

    It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed.

    One day, you'll forget about him.

    True forgetting doesn't take effort.

    One day, you came out of the bathroom shower, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered, you once loved someone, ah, it turns out that you loved this person, it seems to be a very distant thing, you don't feel it at all. That's forgetting.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I also had this situation,,, and then he began to rely on me, began to change for me, although he changed, but I became dissatisfied, and now I began to want to give up, but I can't lose this feeling, if you love him, please love well, at least this relationship can have a clear conscience!! Remember to love yourself more!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since he doesn't love you, try to let go! In his heart, you are a toy, women are stupid, you can give your all for love, and in the end it hurts, only you understand.

    He's not yours, try to forget, you can talk to your friends often, you can find some books to read, keep yourself busy, I think time is the best way to make you forget...

    If you don't have any interest, you can come and chat with me, hehe).

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't understand, you know that you are nothing in his heart, what else do you have to be nostalgic for? Are you so empty and lonely? There are so many men in the world, why do you want to practice yourself like this?

    Keep saying that you can't do without, you try, can you die if you leave?

    Can you give our women a long face?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This man is really a master! Same with me.

    That's how my wife was bluffed by me for 3 days of heat and 3 days of cold Wakaka.

    Everyone, this trick is really powerful, and everyone learns it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    One is to die, and the other is to find someone who loves you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In this way, the only solution to give up a relationship is to start a relationship again, if you don't mind, you can develop it online with me, my, thank you, share it with me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Better a finger off than always aching! He doesn't care about you at all, and even if you're with him, you're not going to be happy!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard to forget someone, especially like you, so it's better to leave it to time, and you have to remember that your feelings are important, but if you keep going on and on, it's yourself who will be hurt, and you'd better forget about them.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you're unhappy with the status quo and can't get rid of it right away, what's the best strategy to do?

    Adjust your mentality, accept it, do what you want, use it, and do it well, use it well. Don't feel that life is bitter and then spit bitterness everywhere, doing so will only waste time and energy, but find a way to make yourself happyHappiness is a skill.

    You will find a phenomenon that most of those excellent people are very satisfied with their lives.

    Because they have a clear goal, they will move forward without distractions, and if they encounter dissatisfaction, they will quickly adjust and accept it with a good attitude.

    These people are always in the advancing ranks.

    You can't get rid of the status quo right away, only by accepting it and doing your best to do it well, can you break the situation and be reborn in Nirvana.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is the self-loss caused by excessive anxiety, feeling that there are many things but not wanting to do anything, and numbing yourself with boring things. And the more this happens, the more painful it becomes! What you have to do now is to find yourself and prove yourself!

    You calm down and make a list of what you have to do and what you should do; Then prioritize and do it one by one! People prove themselves and discover themselves by doing what they think is meaningful! I believe that you will be able to achieve the biggest leap forward after this pain!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, I advise you not to put too much pressure on yourself, even if you make achievements under pressure every day, you will lose more than you gain (this is experience) and it will have a great impact on your body and mind in the future.

    Secondly, after so many years in the society, I personally feel that school grades do not play a key role, (of course, I hope it will not mislead you, I just hope you don't put too much pressure on yourself).

    Let's analyze again: you can see that you are a self-motivated and strict person with yourself. Because of this, since you were a child, you have suppressed your thoughts of wanting to relax, and suppressed it to the point of **?

    Repressed into the subconscious, it hasn't gone away, it's always on the move, and you've been keeping it from resurrecting with your own consciousness. But now, it may be because of some factor that your consciousness is unable to suppress your subconscious, so the situation you said will occur.

    It is recommended that you relax for a day or two, and do not think about anything else, which may make your subconscious mind calm down naturally, and of course, you can also think about whether there is any other way.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can try to unplug the computer cable and let the parents take care of it, I used to be the same as you, but I will do something that I am slightly interested in doing, distract my attention, you can ask your classmates to revive with you before preparing for the exam, and then discuss your feelings, upstairs is right It is best to change it before regretting it, try to restrain yourself, treat yourself as two sides, one side is good, the other side is bad, you are now on the good side, you think about it, don't lose to the bad side, believe in you, it can be done.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You belong to a state of psychological slackness, learning numbness, which often happens, but some people don't know, and often go with the flow, and you can realize it, and it's also good. To solve this problem, you think about it carefully, do you have something that you really hate other than studying, to experience an experience, or very intense exercise, now that it is autumn, take a cold shower and try it, it will definitely feel different.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, insist on getting up in the morning every day and exercising for a while, adjust your habits, don't contact the Internet if you can, stay away from the game little by little, and to be honest, it is not realistic for you to suddenly refuse the game.

    Of course, if you have a strong willpower, you can do this, and if you can succeed in the game, I believe that your mentality will come back, and then you just need to devote yourself to learning.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Too much pressure, are you missing classes too much? There is no confidence in the guide! Study hard! It's been a few days. Get your best score! Online games are harmful! Communicate more with your classmates.

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