After four or five years of relationship, can you still be friends?

So good, why divide?

I'm in the same situation as you now. I can't let him go. But he had already relented.

I don't think it's time to ask if it's a friend.

Only take one step at a time to see one step at a time. If you can really continue to be friends calmly, you can. If you can't, it's useless to force it.

Really, take your time. If it's really a good friend, it can only happen in a few months.

Now that I have just scored, I can really only be familiar strangers.

I bless you, and I bless myself.

Maybe like you, I've known my boyfriend for 4 years. I have been in love for 4 years, familiar with his habits, but now I have come to the step of breaking up, a month after the breakup, I tried to restrain myself not to think about him and not to contact him, but I can't do it myself, it seems that I can't leave him for a day and still love him so much, but we can't be together anymore, it's better not to contact than so painful, now I've been in pain for a year, I'm in a much better mood, I try to restrain myself, learn to regulate, emotional things should be rational, it's best not to pestering him after separation.

Are you still not letting go? Or is it just sentimental!!

No matter how much you once loved each other, you are destined to be strangers after a breakup.

There are so many passers-by in human life ... Memories ... It's the trajectory of your life!!

So, let the past pass. No big deal!! It should be picked up and put down. People have to look ahead!!

Of course, you can continue to be friends, as long as everyone opens their hearts, I think it's okay, but whether you can completely let go depends on yourself, and it's a little difficult. If you become a stranger, it might be a little unforgiving.

Xiao Yaxuan has a song called The Most Familiar Stranger. You'll be touched by it. If you are still suffering from emotional torture, why break up! If you want to break up, then you have to be a stranger first, so that you can use time to erase the dependence between you, like...

It's better to be a stranger, if being a friend will have hope for each other, then hope will always hinder your future life, so it's better to be a stranger!

It's better to be strangers because you've loved each other.

Can you look at the creation?

Let's do more good deeds. Allah..

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy, and because you have hated, you will not become a lover!

As long as people live long, they will have more than seven years of friendship. If you don't have such a long-term friendship, it means that you may have a flawed personality and are not suitable for making friends.

Of course, it is also possible that it is simply bad luck and not meeting someone who is suitable to be friends with. Our friends from childhood to adulthood generally have more than a decade of friendship. Friendships can lose touch with each other over time.

But there are also some general friendships left behind by the big waves. The relationship with each other will be very good. The premise of being able to maintain a friendship with friends for more than seven years is mutual respect.

Similar interests and hobbies, so that everyone has fun together, even if they can't see each other often, they will be full of warmth when they think of each other. Friends can also help each other at the right time.

The other person gives the other person moral and material encouragement and support. If there is a lack of respect between two people, then it is impossible to have a long-term relationship and not be able to become friends.

Using sincerity and kindness as the basis of dealings is the key to maintaining long-term friendships with friends. In the process of interacting with each other, treat each other sincerely and kindly, you can joke with each other, and the aura of both sides is combined.

We get along very well. Being like-minded and able to be harmonious and different is the core of long-term friendship between people.

You must be reluctant to break up, being friends is like knowing how he is doing, right? It's not easy for two people to be together, you have to cherish it! Why not go to him? How happy we are together. Even if it's holding hands ... Heart's.

It feels different!

Friendship is the affection of a friend. If you use some words to compare the relationship between friends, then I think the word friendship still carries more weight.

Friends are together, and I don't think a few years of friendship mean anything. It can only show the length of time they have been in love, and it does not represent whether the friendship has reached the tacit understanding between friends.

To be friends, we must treat each other with sincerity, the so-called sincerity for sincerity, be careful to reach a certain amount, and you will get tacit feelings.

So I don't think five years of friendship and two years of friendship can be equated with opposites.

In fact, friendship still can't be compared with the length of time, the main friends have a strong relationship, even if it is only one or two years, it is not necessarily deeper than the relationship between friends who have been dating for five or six years.

Friendship mainly depends on whether two people really get along? If you really get along for a short time, it may be true, and if you spend a long time, it may not be heart-to-heart.