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It's because you're weak and don't show a strong and self-reliant side, so that's your weakness.
Your love balance is out of balance.
Without further ado, let's just tell you how to do it.
If you love him, you are reluctant to leave him. Just be yourself, don't accommodate him, and let him know that you can still live a wonderful life without him.
In his opinion, you can be tied up with just money.
Listening to you, you can feel that he cares about you, but his way is wrong, he thinks that as long as he gives you money, you will be very happy. So you have to make him understand that you want love, not money.
I don't need to say much about what you said earlier, everyone can feel that he may not want to take you out, for fear that you will not be able to do what he is satisfied with in front of others, maybe he thinks you are very dirty.
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He thinks he's your material savior, so emotionally you should accommodate him.
Is money that important? I'd rather have someone who doesn't have much money but is willing to hold me in the palm of his hand.
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Don't divide. I'll regret it if I break it up. Women should have self-esteem, don't rely on men, don't let him look down on you, you know? Change your situation, and of course you can't get used to him.
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You're just used to having his days, he can give you some satisfaction, so you can't bear it, but I don't think he can give you spiritual satisfaction, a person who can live must make you feel that he cares about you in the details of life, he doesn't look for you when you run away, and he doesn't fight ** I think it's very suspicious of your feelings, if you want to find someone to marry, I don't think this kind of person is suitable.
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is to keep complying with it, so that he can understand you again, you know, a woman's heart is deep, the more men think you have a taste, the more unobtainable, the longer your shelf life. It's also good after making friends, so that he can't figure out your temper. Now it's important to talk to him about how you feel in your heart and tell him that you love him, not his money.
If you love his money, then don't care if he loves you or not, there is no perfect thing in the world, don't be greedy.
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It is important that your boyfriend has good financial conditions. But marriage is not better than love, in my experience, a marriage with love alone is only a prerequisite for marriage, a marriage without love is sad, and the economic basis is the guarantee of a good marriage, and it is best to take both. So my suggestion is as follows:
1.First of all, whether the two really love each other, otherwise, they should break up decisively.
2.To examine a person's economic situation, we should not only look at whether his family has money, but also look at the personal ability and moral character of the young man.
3.Don't be disturbed by outsiders, just listen to your own inner feelings and your own rational judgment.
4.Five years is not a short period of time, to be cherished. If you really want to give up, you must be clear about what you have lost now.
5.Listen to the advice of your own family and friends.
6.Listening to your question, you should be very confident in your appearance, I want to say that if a woman wants to catch a golden beetle, it is not enough to have appearance, the so-called Huiwai show, a mature man will not only look at a woman's appearance.
7.When I fell in love at the age of sixteen, my thoughts at that time should have been immature, and it is normal to reflect now, so don't be psychologically burdened.
8.In the end, you can only make your own decisions, and other people's opinions can only be used as references.
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Observe and test him for a while longer ...
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Why? Don't be together if you don't like it at the beginning, if you say divide, it will hurt him.
It's a brutal wound.
If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place.
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Do it or not, I feel that your boyfriend is still good, what you are talking about is that his living habits are not good, in fact, you can tell him about this problem, tell him what you think, you can change him, if you ignore the change, you can adapt, it is rare to meet a man who is good to you, and his parents are good with you It is rare.
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Face it wholeheartedly, don't regret losing it. You may not feel it now, but if you lose it, it's too late.
Cherish it, it's not easy for two people to be together for so long, love all you have, be content!
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Let's find out if you care about him or his family's finances.
After all, after being together for five years, 16 to 21 years old should be the most youthful time for girls, right? If you don't regret breaking up, just break up!
You can try first, don't contact him, and stay by yourself every day. If it doesn't affect your life at all, then I don't think you have any dependence or affection for him. Out of morality, you should also give others an answer, and don't let others give blindly.
Hehe、、、 since that's the case, you cherish your current boyfriend, forget about the past, time will fade those things, I believe he will find someone he likes, but what do you want to express, I don't understand, but I think you will regret it in the future, for that colleague, maybe it's just your temporary freshness, and when the freshness passes, you will regret it, I think the two of us are very similar, I admit that I am a flowery girl, but I know now that I was wrong, I have redeemed him, he forgave me, I hope you won't regret it like me in the future, in case he likes another girl during the period, you just wait and cry, see what you think、、、 come on.
First of all, it's good that you have this idea, I have the same experience as you, but it's worse than you, my parents have died, about the taboo of filial piety, in ancient times, if your parents died, you have to keep filial piety for three years, if you are ** is no exception, you can explain the situation to your superiors, the superiors will retain your official status, you also have to go home for three years, called Ding Wei, in these three years, you set up a shed next to your parents' grave, and then you have to eat and live here for three years, first of all, the meals you eat can only be vegetarian dishes, no meat, In addition, you can't put oil, you can't wear bright clothes, you can only wear filial piety clothes, and your wife and children can't wear bright clothes, the most important thing is that you live there, you can't think nonsense, you have to recite filial piety every day, think about your parents' hard work for you, you have to think about it before three meals a day, in modern times, because everyone wants to open, forget about the kindness of your parents, you don't need to do this, but there are some basic things to observe, that is, in the first seven days of your mother's burial, that is, on the seventh day of the burial, you have to burn paper and pray, In your mother's five or seven, you have to wear filial piety clothes and pray again, you can't get a haircut for a month after your mother's death, don't eat meat for a month, don't eat meat for three years, and so on every time you go to her sacrifice day, don't forget to remember, and you can't eat meat, as for whether you want to fall in love, it doesn't matter, you can talk, no conflict, besides, your mother must also hope that you will find someone who loves you, loves you, and takes care of you instead of her. Don't forget your mother.
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