Why am I always bullied by my relatives, and why do my relatives bully me?

Updated on society 2024-05-28
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Relatives? Quarrel? Boy!

    You have to know that you are the strongest, because you have to become strong now, independent, autonomous, it is good for you to feel this way, you know that there are troubles to solve by yourself, there are many unspeakable difficulties in your father's generation, you have to understand, but also fight for the family. When you go into society, you know that you are the most adaptable to society, because you are weak on the outside and resolute on the inside. One day, you will see that you will surpass those who are forever protected by your parents.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Actually, it's not like that, it's just because you see that you're a bully, and you surprise them once in a while, and they beat you up, and you let them see how ruthless you are, and make them afraid of you in the future.

    Maybe they'll tell your mom that it's another thing to have fatherly love or not, and it doesn't matter, and in my opinion, it's just my personal opinion. (*hee-hee......

    Bless you from being bullied by them.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Come on! Work hard, fight for your father, now if you have any grievances to your mother and relatives, don't say anything if it doesn't work, work hard yourself, you will definitely be better than your relatives!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are big, you must let go, and if you are small, you must endure.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't have this kind of relative, tell your mother directly, and if she does the same to you, I suggest that you become independent earlier.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Work hard, use things as motivation, make enough money, and when your relatives want to slap you back.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Sympathize with you and suggest that you resist.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe you really have the character of your inherited father, long live understanding!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. Your parents are very humble, have no money, no connections, no ability, are poor and ugly, cannot support you, and are often the target of bullying by relatives. In the eyes of relatives, there is no price for bullying the town and carrying you!

    Second, it is possible that you are overreacting! The personality is too strong, too sensitive, and the casual words of others are just over-amplified.

    Third, there is one of the most important reasons, some parents have a problem, they always find fault with their children in front of others, and praise other people's children. When a child Yusenzi does not have the support of his parents, those relatives naturally don't take you seriously. Because they carefully observe your parents' attitude towards you, and feel that even if they treat you badly, they will not lose anything.

    Thanks for the support.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why do your relatives bully you? You may always be timid and scared, and you will back down when you encounter things. It can also be related to the education of your usual parents, and your parents are also quiet, so they will bully you, if you don't bully you, you have to be tough, and they won't dare to be peaceful in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Relatives should be united and help each other, share difficulties and happiness. However, some relatives ignore the friendship of generations, covet small profits in front of them, commit inappropriate behavior, and bully their fellow clansmen.

    Everyone is equal before the law. Since you don't care about your face, don't blame me for being unkind and unjust, for this kind of person, you have to take up the law, fight resolutely, and make him pay.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you are bullied by your relatives, at this time you should not have any contact with him, cut off all contact with him, and then you do a good job of yourself, you yourself through your hard work, through your own struggle, you let yourself live a very good life, let him envy you, let him envy you, this is the best revenge for him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you can endure it, you will be safe. Take a step back and open the sky, it's a big deal to cut off contacts and not disturb each other.

    Don't do anything you regret.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Grasp the bottom line, be tough when you should be tough, and being good at talking doesn't mean being good at bullying. Let him know that when he's bullying you, he'll hang out himself!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Whether a person is strong in his own right.

    Recharging more and reading more is the foundation of a person's strength. If you bloom butterflies, you will come.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Depending on the situation, if it's serious, tell your family!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Many grievances and grievances are from past lives, so let's take a look at ancient cause and effect stories to understand.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Wouldn't it be fair to bully back.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My sister was also bullied by her relatives.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    How old are your male and female how they bullied you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    First of all, you probably don't listen to your parents very much, so your parents have a certain opinion about you, so that your relatives will treat you like this because you are not very well maintained and supported by your parents in a timely manner. So learn to be a child who listens to your parents first, your parents often praise you, and your relatives will not dare to target you, because your parents will support you in time. They will be wary of that.

    Of course, if you do things by yourself, you must be properly gregarious, always different from others, and without the approval and support of your parents, others will always have an excuse to say things. Talking and doing things more than your brain, making people think that you are still sensible and decent and have ideas, then ordinary people don't have the heart to bother with that.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have to be tough, or the people who bully you, just ignore them.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, according to your description. First of all, you have to really determine whether it is your relative's reason, or if you have a reason yourself? If you are sure that it is the reason of your relatives, then as long as he does not break the law, it is not good for you to call the police. There is no point in calling the police either.

    People to people. When something goes wrong. There must be a reason.

    Because it is a relative, try to find the cause first, and if it can be solved, then find a way to solve it first. Try not to blindly use the alarm without looking for the cause. Solve it with the law.

    The law is against the bad and the unruly. A relative is someone who is related to you, try not to use this method.

    If only he hadn't acted too much. Then you can communicate with him. Then you communicate with her and say what you think, and maybe the other party will change after communicating with each other. Because there are some people who you don't say will take you for a fool, and when you say they know that you are actually a person who understands.

    If the other party is really a very excessive, and a very unreasonable person. And he's broken the law. Then you can call the police to solve the problem.

    If he doesn't break the law, then you can find a way. is to stay away from him, and to be less entangled with her and less in contact with him in the future. That would be a lot less trouble.

    Stay away from scumbags. Your life will be more comfortable. Relatives can also have a choice of relationships.

    If it is not good for you, you can cut off the relationship. According to your own situation, choose the appropriate method to solve the problem, personal opinion, thank you!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs, and this kind of thing is difficult to manage. If it is your relative, then find a person who is more afraid of your relative, talk to him, let him persuade him, if it is not possible, you can only stay away from this kind of relative, and have less contact with them.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If a relative has a bad attitude towards you, just ignore him, he wants to beat you or insult you, you can choose to call the police, but just because of the bad attitude, it is useless to call the police.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's useless, don't waste the police force, treat you badly, and if there is no substantial harm, even a civil dispute does not belong. You can ignore him or tell your parents. Don't add oil and vinegar, just tell the truth.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Generally speaking, it is a very serious thing to be able to make you call the police, so if you just have a bad attitude, it is far from the extent of calling the police, like this situation, you can express your true emotions, or just ignore him, but I think after all, it is a relative, if it is an elder, you need to give corresponding respect, even if he has a bad attitude towards you, at most it is to communicate less with her, get along less, and it will be nothing.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is useless to call the police, because he has a bad attitude towards you, does not hurt you, does not cause losses to you, does not violate your rights, so it is useless to call the police. For such a relative, you can just not deal with him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Relatives speak badly, swear, etcIt is an internal conflict in the family, not a criminal case, and calling the police is a waste of police resources, so it is not possible to call the police.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Since this relative of yours has a bad attitude towards you, then you should stay away from him. No more with him. If you don't need to call the police, just stay away, otherwise it is easy to hurt feelings and also involve family disharmony.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If he just speaks badly, it's useless for you to call the police, unless he has caused you any substantial harm, I suggest you talk to your parents and let them communicate with your relative.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The light ride has a bad attitude towards you, and there is no direct injury that is very serious, in general, the attitude is bad, and it will not call the police.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    That relative of yours always has a bad attitude towards you, because you are so bullying, of course it is useful to call the police. If you deal with such a relative, you should call the police, and he can't think that you are a bully and will bully you even more.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    How bad the attitude is, and there is no physical altercation. If it's just sarcasm in words, it's useless to call the police. If there is a physical altercation, you are the self-defense party, and the police can hold him responsible.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    As long as it does not rise to the level of violence of scolding Ou Da, even if you call the police, the police will only ask you to solve it by yourself, which is basically useless.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    A relative has a bad attitude towards you, you just ignore him. There is no need to call the police to deal with it, don't make a big deal about simple things, after all, they are relatives.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Relatives have a bad attitude towards you, it is useless to call the police, you can talk to him, if the other party still has a bad attitude, it means that you are usually too tolerant and are good at being bullied.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In fact, for such a person, I don't think you need to pay attention to him at all, don't care about what he does to you, you do it yourself, you can do it yourself, and use your practical actions and abilities to resist.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    He has no violent tendencies towards you, and it is useless for you to call the police, so you will stay away from such people.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's just that the attitude is bad, and it's not easy to call the police, you can't afford to provoke, you can't hide, after all, it's a relative, don't see it every day, don't like to listen, you can listen to it, why do you have to listen to him???

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There is no need to call the police for this, as long as you don't take care of this relative, it's like this relative doesn't exist, and some things should be sorted out by yourself.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you ignore her, it's over, what do you care about him with a bad attitude, if you always speak badly to each other, you can call the police to deal with it.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's useless, housework, and the police can only mediate when they come. It's good for you to stay away from him, although it doesn't hurt much, but it affects your mood.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's useless, this kind of dispute can only be regarded as a dispute between relatives, and the police will not care if there is no harm to your personal safety.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    This kind of thing is not to the extent of calling the police, your relatives have a very bad attitude towards you, you can stay away from him, try not to contact him, so that this problem will be solved?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    This so-called relatives are far away, people should not behave too weakly, otherwise soft persimmons are easy to pinch

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    He has a bad attitude towards you and has no other impact on you, so why call the police, just stay away if you don't get along.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's useless to call the police, it can only be regarded as a family dispute, and it will only be useful unless he hits you, otherwise you should think of other ways.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You don't have to pay attention to him, there is no need to call the police, how to say that it is still a relative. Just ignore it.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Calling the police is useless, and it will be said that it is a waste of police power. Unless he has the fact of hitting you.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's useless to call the police, this kind of relative Ni Min tries to have as little contact as possible is Luo.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    First of all, I'm sorry to hear what happened to you. Conflicts and conflicts between relatives are common, but that doesn't mean it's the right thing to do. Here are some of the reasons that can cause a relative to bully you:

    1.Unequal status and status among relatives.

    In some families, the status and identity of relatives are unequal, and some of them may be looked down upon or bullied by others for some reason. For example, the eldest son or direct relative of a family may receive more attention and care because of his or her status, while other relatives may be ostracized or neglected. In this case, the bullied relative may need to seek help or intervene to eliminate the inequality and unfair treatment.

    2.There is a conflict or contention of interest between relatives.

    There may also be conflicts and conflicts between relatives due to issues of interest or power, especially in some family businesses or extended families. For example, some relatives may have disagreements and rivalry over issues such as inheritance, power, or resources, which can lead to undesirable situations such as bullying and exclusion. In this case, the bullied relative may need to seek the help of an independent third party, such as a lawyer or notary public, to protect their rights.

    3.There are differences in culture and values between relatives.

    Sometimes, there will be contradictions and conflicts between relatives due to differences in culture, values, etc. For example, some older generations believe that men should be the dominant ones in the family, and women should be subordinate to men, which may be very different from the younger generation, and can easily lead to conflicts between different generations. In this case, it is necessary to gradually change or adjust the old concepts, and carry out mutual respect, tolerance, and communication to achieve the goal of harmonious coexistence.

    In conclusion, the causes of bullying among relatives are varied, and there may be problems such as unequal status and identity, conflicts of interest, and cultural differences. When dealing with such situations, it is advisable to actively communicate, seek help, adjust the degree of distress and take action to reduce tension and protect your own interests.

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