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Anonymous users2024-02-10If it is true love, it will not care about the distance between time and space, the heart will be together, love will be together, and each other can warm each other! The fate depends on the heavens, and the share depends on oneself. If you manage your love with your heart, you will definitely get what you want.
Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you shouldn't care about how much the other party can give you, because you have nothing in the first place. There are no two people in the world who are born together, God is fair to everyone, never attached to any love, only with tolerance, understanding, trust to work together to build true love. There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts...
Take it easy, keep an optimistic attitude, no matter how much you think, you still have to face it, and you don't have to add extra burdens to yourself... Believe in yourself and you can do it ... Life that's too easy isn't much fun, right?
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Anonymous users2024-02-09In contrast, it seems that long-distance relationships do have some problems that cannot be avoided. For example, if you get together less and leave more, you will feel that you can't always understand what the other person is doing; For example, the other party did not reply in time, worried that he didn't care about himself or had a new lover; For example, there is little time to get along, it is difficult to have common topics, and so on.
But in all fairness, these kinds of problems can still arise even if they aren't long-distance relationships. Because everyone is an independent individual, in their emotional life, people with a high sense of security tend to have a certain sense of control over their emotions, while people with a low sense of security often suffer from gains and losses. Therefore, a good relationship needs to be maintained, and it requires the joint efforts of both parties.
First, in the relationship, we should first do our own role, and then do the role of the other partner. Exist without attachment to each other, so that both parties have room to develop their own personalities and lives. In addition to being lovers, both partners should have other social support such as friends, family, classmates, and colleagues.
Second, you should be equal and respectful in your relationship, and you can have your own views and attitudes, but you can't completely use your own standards to define others. Get along with each other on a case-by-case basis, and communicate in a timely manner when encountering things. Do not judge each other arbitrarily, do not insult each other emotionally, and do not use violence and cold violence.
Third, in a good relationship, you should give each other the necessary emotional support. People are happy to share good moods, but bad moods need more attention. When you are in a bad mood, you can remind the other party so that your emotions do not cause the other party to misunderstand; When the other person is in a bad mood, you can give attention and see people instead of things.
In times of sadness, people want to receive comfort and encouragement more than the great truths of the Tao.
Finally, if you're looking for a more in-depth analysis of relationship issues in your relationship, you're welcome to have a one-on-one session with me.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08It's really not good to be in a different place for a long time, if you have the opportunity to be together, of course, it doesn't rule out that the relationship between two people is very good, so it won't affect each other because of distance, then it's still possible to be long!
My boyfriend and I are in school, he is in Beijing and I am at home, it has been four years, the relationship is still very good, now he goes home to work and I go to Beijing to study for graduate school, he works while taking the postgraduate examination, can see each other for two months a year, probably, but the goal of the two people is the same, in order to be happier together in the future, long-distance relationship is good, every time we meet, there is a sense of freshness, and we can test each other in the time when we don't meet, you can send small gifts, you can stay all night**, you can do a lot of things that couples who stick together all day long can't do, So, if you love him and he loves you even more than you love him, then don't care about that!
In fact, long-distance relationships are not as difficult as we think. If it's hard, it's important to trust each other. If you don't trust the other party, the problems caused are to be expected; Getting to know each other and understanding each other's lives is especially important and difficult to achieve. >>>More
In fact, there are indeed a lot of inappropriate factors between you, even if you take the initiative to make peace, you can't change his idea of wanting to stay in his city, so if you want to pursue him in disguise, thinking that you can fulfill it by taking the initiative to pursue him, it's a bit of a fantasy, since you don't want to be a person in the box, then don't talk about it anymore, originally the two of them were together to be in a comfortable state, but he was not in the state, and he didn't upgrade your relationship in time, so don't interact after thinking about it.
This depends on the persistence and protection of both parties, I don't know if you are a girl or a boy, in fact, I think a long-distance relationship can still last for a long time, as long as it is true love, as long as you know how to cherish it, and the other party knows how to cherish it, you can go on. When we meet from time to time, we will see too many shortcomings in each other.
Summary. 1.It is usually not easy to meet in a long-distance relationship. Therefore, every time we meet, it is an opportunity to be cherished, and after a short period of time, we will be separated, and naturally we will be reluctant to do so, so we will cry. >>>More