How should college students look at their love?

No, remember, don't let yourself be lonely, learn to have fun, no friends of the opposite sex, it doesn't mean that you will be lonely, let your life be fulfilling, let yourself make a difference, success, it means that you are no longer lonely, maybe you will find your him by your side ......

。。You also said that 80% of the time it is.

But there's still 20%.

Isn't it? You can find one that is taken seriously.

Be part of that 20%.

Then you will find that love is wonderful.

Nothing!! Before stepping into society, there is something wrong with having a good relationship, which not only gives yourself a memory, but also has an experience.

In fact, how much of what you see in your eyes is true? Have you asked yourself? You're really sure you're a lonely figure like this:

On a college campus, watching others in pairs? I think you're still very confused: sometimes you feel that you should have a good relationship, and sometimes you want to be alone for a while?

Then I think it's your own business, after all, are you not in love, and not in love once. I feel that I have my own experience, and what others tell you is just a need for work!

In fact, don't care what others think about finding a girlfriend, the key is what you think, if you are looking for love rather than loneliness, I believe you will have such a result

Love is desirable, because it will teach people to cherish, love, and give for each other's happiness, which is the highest state of interpersonal communication, and students as a special group to establish a correct view of love.

Let's talk about my views on college students falling in love:

1. The three views are consistent.

College students should have the same thoughts, common beliefs and pursuits in the first place, the soul is beautiful, the sentiment is noble, and the psychological integration is the first criterion for choosing a mateThe concept of love should be an organic combination of ideals, morals, obligations and careers.

2. Love is placed in the auxiliary position.

Love is beautiful, it is an important part of the content of life, but it is not the whole of life, college students should put their studies first,Correct the relationship between love and studyDon't spend all your precious time on falling in love and relaxing your studies.

3. Mutual understanding.

In the process of falling in love, we should have more understanding, trust and tolerance, respect each other, and make progress togetherNeither can it be completely dependent on the other, nor can it be demanded to be completely occupied by the other.

4. The bottom line of the law cannot be broken.

College students should realize that love is not unconditionally beautiful, so to get a good love, we must comply with the requirements of these qualifiers of national laws and regulations, otherwise we will not reap good love, ieThe beauty of love is conditional

Most of the young people in their twenties still seem simple and naïve, always full of dreams about life, and it is easy to fall in love. I think that when men and women face love, they must first set their own mentality and establish the character of self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement, and self-respect. To establish a college student's concept of love, it is necessary to advocate like-minded love, as well as correctly handle the relationship between love and study, love should be serious, emotionally single-minded, respect each other, make progress together, and more importantly, put yourself in the right state of mind, do not pursue blindly.

My assertion isUse reason to fall in love！The so-called rational relationship requires us to promptly account for the reasons for each quarrel, the responsibilities of both parties, the areas that need to be improved, and the ways to avoid similar problems in the future. I always say, give me a piece of paper and I can write down all the incidents of my past fights with my girlfriend, all the things I have done wrong in the past, all my shortcomings, my core character flaws, and all my reasons that can easily lead to fights.

This is rationality, this is honesty, this is responsibility, this is introspection, and this kind of self-awareness and acknowledgment is the premise for making efforts to change.

Falling in love is a major event in life, but it is not the whole of life. College students should focus on their studies because learning is the main purpose of college students. Career is higher than love, advocating career-oriented, and it is not advisable to fall in love too early.

But don't think that love is a stumbling block to your career, if handled well, love can also play a catalytic role in your career.

If a person has love in his heart, he must dare to express it in the right way; If you are faced with other people's expressions of love, you must be able to make trade-offs and make a timely choice of acceptance or rejection. Able to withstand the psychological distress of courtship rejection or rejection of courtship.

It is necessary to sublimate the broken love into a kind of motivation to work hard as soon as possible, and devote it to study or work as soon as possible. Being in love is an important part of life, but it's not the whole story. It is necessary to take a correct view of love, put the position of love correctly, and handle the relationship between love and study, love and life, and love and marriage.

Precautions for college students to fall in love:

1. We must know how to understand and trust each other.

Couples must learn to understand and trust each other, so as to create a happy and relaxed atmosphere, must not be constrained by love, whether it is a man or a woman, must have a certain sense of morality and responsibility for love. In addition, you should balance the relationship between career and love, and don't spend all your precious time in love and relax your studies.

2. Develop healthy love behaviors.

In the process of falling in love, couples must maintain respect for each other, and cannot tease one party or greatly belittle each other, which is easy to hurt their self-esteem and affect their feelings. In addition, love behavior should be down-to-earth and generous, and it is necessary to pay attention to the behavior and demeanor should not be too little intimate behavior, otherwise it will lead to disgust of the woman.

3. Feelings must be single-minded.

When college students fall in love, they must correct the relationship between friendship and love, because their thinking is not very mature, and they are easily swayed by the surrounding environment and people, which affects the relationship between them. You can't have ambiguities with other women, and you must ensure that your relationship is single-minded during your relationship, and you must not be in a hurry.

When choosing a first love partner, it is best not to choose the following three types of people.

Clause. 1. Stay away from greasy, official-mouthed people.

During college, there will definitely be such a person around you: dressed in a suit and tie briefcase all day long, full of official "Chairman Li is good, Minister Zhang is good", and if you don't have any ability, you will only lick teachers, suppress junior students, and be full of snobbery and superiority when interacting with people.

If you meet this kind of person, I advise you to stay away from him, and I do not recommend that you make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him.

College is a period of secondary cultivation and construction of your world view, and what kind of people you make friends with and fall in love often greatly affect your future way of thinking about dealing with the world and socializing.

When you fall in love with such a person, he will not teach you what maturity is, but will subtly make you become mercenary and become a nasty look in the eyes of the people around you.

When you fall in love in college, you can grind to find those capable people of the opposite sex and make yourself excellent. But you must not look for those who "have no ability and can only put on an official show", this is the reason for those who are close to Zhu and black who are close to ink.

Note: Such people often haunt unhealthy student unions.

Clause. Second, it is best not to choose a long-distance relationship.

I just advise you not to choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "the love for each other is really strong, and at the same time you have enough patience and the way you deal with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth.

But the reason why I don't recommend it is because long-distance relationships have a high risk, a low sense of love, a short time of companionship, and are also prone to vicious behaviors such as splitting legs and cheating.

After all, college is a stage where you can be quiet and not think about material things, and simply enjoy the beauty of love. When you fall in love through a screen, you have to learn to experience the taste of loneliness alone in college. You have to learn to suppress the envy in your heart, and at the same time keep your distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love.

Nine times out of ten, if both parties do not have emotional intelligence and minds higher than their peers, then this relationship will most likely be haggard.

Clause. 3. Don't fall in love with depressed and negative people.

When investigating the concept of college love, I found such an interesting phenomenon: what kind of partner you choose during college actually profoundly affects your direction in the past four years.

If you choose a partner who is addicted to games, clubbing all day long, and tells you that "it's okay to fail the course", then most of your four years of college will become idle and have not learned anything.

But if you choose a partner who is self-disciplined and active, can manage your college time to the fullest, but is not boring, then the meaning of your relationship is not limited to "finding someone to accompany you", but growing together into a "better person" with each other's encouragement.

To put it realistically, there are many people who can accompany you to play games to the king during college, but the people who can accompany and urge you to pass the fourth or sixth level and have all A grades are real rarities.

First of all, we have to understand a truth, that isThere is no love for no reasonThat's why I think it's time to choose a first love partner in collegeDon't choose people you don't know. (Maybe it's a bad intention) ( At the same time, it's better to choose someone who likes you instead of.)

Love at first sightIt sounds like a beautiful word, but I don't think you can get that kind of emotion on a college campus. Falling in love is a matter between two peopleIt should not be the silent effort of one person and the peace of mind enjoyed by another.

As college students, we are no longer as ignorant as in junior high school, nor as impetuous as in high school. Choose your first love partner during your college lifeBe cautious.

As far as I am concerned, I am more inclined to choose someone who loves me, rather than simply choosing to be with someone I like, after all, reality is not just an ideal.

Finally, I wish you all the best if you can find your true love in college.

Love should go with the flow As a newly enrolled college student, it is normal to have the idea of falling in love, but you should observe more and communicate more, you don't have to be as restrained and depressed as a middle school student. You know, others have the right to accept and refuse.

But students need to pay attention to not seeing others have friends of the opposite sex, and they have to "catch up with fashion". When you fall in love in college, just go with the flow, neither deliberately pursue it, nor refuse the right fate. Experience tells us that college freshmen who are eager to get into a love role may show that they lack family warmth, need to find a psychological support, or need to find a person to vent their sexual impulses.

In fact, college freshmen who enter a relationship situation too early can easily become "lonely", a circle of friends.

Instead, it will become small. What's more, the study task of university is not light.

After entering college, college students are basically mature psychologically and physically, and the pursuit of beautiful love is no longer taboo. Especially after entering the sophomore year, students begin to show their love in the circle of friends and talking. College years are the best time in life, you will encounter love and other major problems in life, the gorgeous flowers of love, you need to take careful care of them will bloom more colorful.

Every student should properly deal with the love problems of the college years and make their college life better. Contemporary college students are generally able to correctly understand and grasp love, and can correctly handle the relationship between study and love, as well as some problems in love, such as misunderstandings between lovers, broken love, and so on. There is no shortage of touching love stories on college campuses.

College students should have a cautious attitude towards love and avoid misgrasping and handling love issues. After investigation, it is found that the motivation of college students to fall in love can be divided into four types: looking for like-minded partners, discharging emptiness and loneliness, following the herd, and accumulating experience, which shows that college students' love concept has great limitations and needs to be improved.

College students' concept of love has a very important impact on individuals, families, schools, societies, and even countries and nations.

It should be normal for college students to fall in love, because young people are very hormonal at this time, so the first love in college is often better.