Love, marriage, I m living a good tangle now!!!! Help me!!

It's hard to recover, you know this truth, but I remind you with a special person, difficult doesn't mean you can't, I hope you go back to the past, why did you break up with your ex? The reason shouldn't be just that she said I like you, and the relationship must be cultivated to a certain extent before you can get married. You broke up with your ex when you came up, and being with someone you don't know about your life is indeed something that an impulsive person kicked out.

I hope you can ignore your past suspicions and get along with your ex. Otherwise, you can only regret it for the rest of your life. You will feel guilty for a lifetime, don't touch it when you die, you won't be a hundred when you die, and it may make more people give up their lives for your death, please cherish it.

It's too impulsive, you don't cherish a good girlfriend, your colleague says she likes you, and you don't even have a chance to try dating, so you marry her? Marriage is not child's play.

Try to get along with your wife well, if you really can't get along with your current wife, think about it, endure it for a while, but you can't bear it for a lifetime. If you have the opportunity to reconcile with your ex-girlfriend or a better girl, cherish it! Send you 2 sentences:

Choose what you love before marriage, and love what you choose after marriage"Since you have chosen, you must choose well.

You chose the wrong path from the start! That colleague of yours said he liked you, and you were with him? What about you? Do you like her?

It's better not to get a divorce.

While it is true that first love is unforgettable, the risk of divorce is significant.

After all, now your family is very happy and happy, and if you break such happiness, if you are not happy in the future, you will regret it and want to die.

Besides, your husband's future is also good. This family is still worth keeping.

Let's talk about your first love, those sweet words are to be heard, his conditions are good, can you guarantee that he will always be single-minded to you in the future? You just see that he is in good condition now, so you are a little excited. And marriage is to live, and the present day is your true happiness.

Also, Is it easy for you to get a divorce? This is related to two families, not only your husband's family, but also your mother's family, will they agree with you to give up your current happiness and pursue that ethereal comfort?

So, be sensible and recognize the current situation, what is the real stability and happiness for you.

Think about it again and don't make a rash decision.

I hope you handle it well, after all, this is your life.

It seems that the conditions are more attractive to you, and you don't find that your husband's conditions are better if you balance various conditions, and you are married and stable, your husband will definitely not betray you, then those of your first love don't feel so attractive, and you can weigh it yourself.

Don't get divorced.

An annual salary of 200,000 yuan is nothing in Beijing, and it is only 150,000 after tax, which can only solve the problem of food and clothing, and it is not so easy to buy a house in Beijing, and now the houses in the 5th ring are 20,000 square meters, and the purchase is limited, and the pressure on the city is also great.

You have a wonderful family now, don't be childish, and since you're married, be responsible, don't change around.

You're just confused.

Having a good husband and a good mother-in-law is not easy.

Don't look at your first love, everything sounds good, what it would be like to live together, but not good, and in the end, it always has to be dull.

Your first love said that he was going to wait for you, but in fact, you were adamant and told him that you were happy, that you couldn't be with him, that he wouldn't be looking for anything.

Personally, I don't think you should get divorced, your feelings for your first love are only the past, and that feeling may not be able to be recovered now. And your current husband loves you very much, and your current life is very happy. There is a feeling that I can only be nostalgic, and if I want to get it back, all I get is disappointment.

Personally, I don't think it's okay to get a It is impossible for one person to like two people at the same time. The relationship is maintained by the two of them, so they must stick to their marriage.

Let's live with my husband, I'm getting older, don't think about my first love.