How to grasp love, how to grasp true love

One, hold on firmly (if you think it's worth your love).

Second, give up (because don't think that love will grow old, so make yourself live in unhappy love).

Three, keep looking (firmly believe that your love needs to rely on your own efforts, then friends.) Keep living, for your own love).

Hold on when love comes.

Don't give up easily!

If you can't grasp it, if he (she) doesn't love you, it's useless how you grasp it.

You have to be confident and care about him.

Let's be considerate of each other and understand each other.

Don't let regrets happen to you

Pro, 1Be clear about the love you want.

If you want to gain true love, you must first think clearly about what kind of love you want. Don't aspire to meet a perfect person, because everyone is not perfect, only by "grasping the big and letting go of the small", clarifying the points you care about the most, and learning to cherish and tolerate, it is possible to meet the right partner and harvest a beautiful love.

2.Love yourself in a way that you want to be loved.

If you don't love yourself, how can others love you, self-esteem and self-love are the prerequisites for a person to get true love. Just as "if you bloom, butterflies will come", you should love yourself in the way you want to be loved, be more demanding of yourself, live as you like, and constantly improve your own attractiveness, which will naturally attract people you like.

3.Love others in the way you want to be loved.

People are mutual, and attraction is mutual, so in love, you can't just wait for others to love yourself, but you must first learn to love others. To love others in the way that we want to be loved, we can't just ask and don't give, but support each other and grow together in order to get a happy love.

Too self-limiting.

Sometimes, when we feel that a person shines beyond our reach, we often really miss out.

Some girls, before they come into contact with boys, have "he is so good, there must be many girls around him who like him" and "I am so ordinary, what if he doesn't like me?" "Wouldn't I be very embarrassed if he didn't pay any attention to me at all? "Such thoughts.

Before you choose to pursue love, unwarranted worries will only become your deduction. The more you are afraid that you won't be able to do it, the easier it will be for you to be unhappy in the process of getting along.

There's a saying: when you think something is possible, there's a good chance it will happen, and when you think something isn't possible, it's probably not going to happen.

Originally, the two parties could have achieved a pretty good fate, but in the end, they set limits themselves in your imagination, causing a lot of regret.

Before other guys say you can't, tell yourself a hundred times that you can't.

If you meet a boy you like, don't deny yourself, set rules for yourself, and be bold to get to know him. Perhaps, the fate he has been waiting for - it is you.

I don't know how to release the proper sense of need.

There's no way to hide something like this.

If the two of you are already in love, your state will make the guy feel very excited, like a simple and cute rabbit.

However, if the boy doesn't like you very much at this stage, you let emotions dominate your behavior, sending one message after another, long and many; As long as I have time, I want to ask the boy out together; Once a boy has a headache and brain fever, you will greet him three times a day, and you can't wait to take care of him 24 hours a day.

Such a "demanding" state will only make the guy scared away by you because your behavior is too "aggressive". Provided, of course, that he's not a scumbag and that he doesn't have ulterior motives for you.

There are also some girls who are too reserved. Whether they like it or don't want to know more about boys at the moment, she won't give them a signal. So the boy took the initiative for a while and expressed his desire for further development, but the girl did not respond and chose to stop the loss in time.

Because for guys, your non-feedback is a tactful rejection. But in reality, you may feel like you're missing out on a good guy after receiving a message from a guy who says "I wish you met someone who is more suitable".

That kind of girl is the most traditional girl, completely passive and without empathy.