Why do I only like to be friends with good looking people?

First of all, not your problem, just analyze your character, you may be a mentally clean person.

Then, let's solve your problem. You are now aware that this personality has affected your relationships. At least you've taken the first step.

As for the method, I don't think I need to say more, just 2 words. Tolerate what you think is wrong with others, because you can't change how clean, beautiful, and excellent others are in this world. What can change is your own thoughts, your own thinking.

Finally, cheer you up, because this is indeed a weakness in human nature, and change does take time and perseverance.

You are more confident in your appearance and pay more attention to your appearance, so you consciously expect to be able to socialize with people of the same kind, so when making friends, you will first look at your appearance to choose whether to socialize.

This state of affairs is neither a bad thing nor a good thing.

If you feel that you have few friends, relax your dating conditions.

Friends are valuable, does just looking at the appearance make you seem superficial?

As for how to do it, it's up to you to decide.

I think it's because you love face, and you have a bad word, but it's a bit clear

Vanity. Sooner or later, you will know that vanity kills people. Hope you can change that.

Because I was like this before, and later I learned that making friends is more important than making friends, not making looks.

You're crazy, hehe, you're just looking down on people...

Hey, most of the people who don't look good have a strange smell -

You are more superficial! Friends are something you are attracted to each other! It's not appearance!!

Objects gather like for the following reasons:

1. Subjective factors.

I'm good-looking, so I want to find someone who looks good with me and looks good to outsiders. For example, a popular girl in a class likes the feeling of being popular and sought after, and often deliberately increases her popularity, in her own words, "not belonging to any group, but being welcomed by everyone".

It often happens that after becoming friends with someone, the two do not deliberately imitate each other, but unconsciously the tone, gestures, and mantras become more and more similar, and it is often said that "the two of you are becoming more and more alike", which is called "synchronicity tendency" in psychology. It will only appear between two people who like and appreciate each other.

2. Objective factors.

Friends of good-looking people are also very good-looking, first of all, when you have this idea, you have the psychology that good-looking and good-looking people match each other, in fact, this can also reflect that the friends around the good-looking people you see are good-looking people.

What kind of person to choose to be friends with

1. Choose someone who has the same interests as you as your friend.

2. No matter what kind of friends they choose to have, they must have integrity and kindness.

3. What kind of friends you choose will have a great impact on you, so your friends had better be positive, so that you are more positive and motivated, and your life will be happier.

Because things gather by like, and people are divided by groups. Whoever you are, you will attract whom, the same kind of people attract each other, but if you want not to attract the same kind of people, you can also strive for another kind of friend, that is, friends have the same three views to have a topic to talk about.

1. Attractiveness of appearance.

In an interesting psychological experiment, psychologists show people some strangers, and then ask them to rate these strangers based on their feelings. It was found that people generally rated people who were more attractive in appearance. It can be seen that people are more likely to believe:

Beautiful people must be good too. This bias is particularly prone to occur in the early stages of a relationship.

3. The other party likes themselves.

When you get along with someone, if you feel that the other person likes you, the feeling of being accepted and appreciated will increase your self-esteem, so that you like the other person more; On the contrary, they will feel denied, and even if the person is attractive, his attractiveness will be greatly reduced. Because, more than the good feeling that he brings us, we are more concerned about the bad feeling of being rejected or denied by him.

4. Similar. People who have differences in sexual repentance are more likely to have misunderstandings and disputes in getting along, and prolonged conflicts can make both people feel frustrated and tired; People who have more similarities in personality and attitude will resonate with each other because they agree with each other. This feeling of acceptance will make them appreciate themselves more, and they will enjoy spending time with each other more and more.

But there is one case where "dissimilarity" can also promote affection for each other: what one has is exactly what the other needs. For example, one party is very assertive, and the other party is willing to listen to other people's decisions.

Hello, this is actually a very common psychology. It's like if you see two kinds of food, one looks delicate and the other looks coarse, you will choose the same delicate one. Of course, you don't know which one tastes better until you choose.

Everyone's psychological state is different, some people may be jealous, some people will be envious, but beautiful people give people a pleasing feeling, and more often people can't help but get close. Especially the opposite sex, even if it's a blind date or in school, as long as there is no problem with the personality of a beautiful girl or boy, the popularity is very good.

Of course, that doesn't mean beauty is everything. An innately determined appearance cannot be changed unless it is done by technology. If you don't want to change yourself and want others to be friends with you, then start with your own personality and attitude towards others.

This is a very old saying, basically to be cheerful, sincere, etc., so that others can feel your affinity and personality. Even if we can't instantly win the favor of others from our appearance, it's a good idea to take them seriously.

Everyone has a love for beauty. Being friends with beautiful people is a decision that I think everyone is willing and want to make. After all, getting along with beautiful people is still pleasing to the eye every day.

In my opinion, liking to be friends with beautiful people is not superficial, but rather a very wise decision. Beautiful friends, most of them are rich and handsome or white. Really, no kidding.

If you have beautiful friends around, you will know that most of them are rich families. is good-looking, the family conditions are good, my god is friends with such a person, how good it is. To be friends with beautiful people, first of all, you look similar.

You know what I mean. It's okay to look good, and then it's quite good to come to things, so be friends with a beautiful baby. I think they complement each other very well.

Two people can become more beautiful together, and the road will be easier to walk after the relationship is good. <>

People who are good-looking are generally not badly popular. If you play well, you will definitely know her or his friends, and I believe that many people are like this, and they are willing to introduce their good friends to others. That's how I am.

I have a little friend who is quite beautiful, and we have a good relationship, and we usually contact each other when there is nothing to do, and we will get together on a long vacation or something, and then we will make friends when we go out to play. Although I don't know each other, but introduce and play a few rounds, everyone is easy to talk to, and of course it won't be bad to talk about the relationship. So I basically know all of her friends.

On the contrary, so did she. When we nest together and play. I would also take her and my friends to go shopping and watch movies.

Over time, we all became very good friends.

Being friends with good-looking people, we won't be in a bad mood at least when we get along. It is an advantage to look good and go to the **. After all, this is a face-looking society.

Go out with good-looking people, and go out to have face, isn't it? Therefore, there is no need to feel any pressure to be friends with good-looking people, that may be that they are a little too good-looking, but they are definitely not worth the friendship of friends. I still believe in friendship.

It's not a very superficial thing to like to be friends with good-looking people, at least in my opinion. Everyone has the right to make their own choices, and as long as they do not infringe on the interests of others when exercising their rights, they should not be influenced by others and criticized by others. Choose the group of people you want to associate with, choose who to choose as your friends, this is your own right, everyone has their own standards of right and wrong, and also has their own choice requirements, as long as the standards are not outside the morality, as long as the requirements are not within the scope of legal principles, then how to choose and how to do is their own business, and there is no room for doubt.

In the choice of friends, everyone has their own standards, some like like-minded, some like common hobbies, and some have choices in appearance, there are too many people, we always get along in the choice, choice is not a mistake, superficiality is just the suspicion of others. Like to be friends with good-looking people, this is just a kind of self-pursuit, as long as this is their own essential idea, there is no so-called superficiality, the superficiality in the eyes of others is just a kind of skeptical vision, is a personal flawed view.

There's nothing wrong with what kind of people you like, as long as you don't distinguish between them with a biased eye. You like to get along with good-looking people, this is your freedom, but you must not distinguish people in a strange way, that is, when you feel that this is not someone in your social circle, and show a friendly side to you, you must not ignore or treat you with color. Everyone's measurement of the standard of good looks is only a personal opinion, and there is no unified standard to speak of.

Self-perception is only a kind of self-standard, and it cannot be treated differently, and if one's own preferences are used as a condition for discrimination, then it is really superficial.

Everyone has a love for beauty. This cannot be said to be superficial. But as friends. It is you who keep going on and will never be the appearance. It's character, hobbies, and most importantly, character.

A person's appearance may determine whether you want to start this friendship or not, but a person's character does determine an important factor in how far this friendship can go.

It's normal to like to be friends with good-looking people, and I like it too. After all, it looks pleasing to the eye, and everyone likes it. But if you're making friends just by looking at your appearance, you're going to be too superficial.

Nor should it be said to be superficial. It's the wrong way to make friends.

Because you can't ignore all the other shortcomings just because you're good-looking, that's child's behavior. It is also the behavior of. Adults are in the process of interpersonal communication, and character is the most important.

I also like to make friends with good-looking people. But if a person has a bad character, no matter how good-looking he is, I will stay away. Because such a person is friends with you, you don't know when he will stab you in the back and catch you off guard.

Because I have suffered betrayal, I am more careful to make friends. What Zhang Wuji's mother said to him really made sense. That is, the more beautiful a woman is, the more she can deceive people. In reality, this is indeed the case. I won't list them all.

An average-looking girl, she can only be a good girl and impress others with sincerity to like her. So such a girl will not easily deceive. But pretty girls are different.

They don't need to be good girls. You can keep the red flag at home and the colorful flags fluttering outside. So such people are even more deceitful.

Therefore, you can look at your appearance when making friends, but you can't just look at your appearance, you should pay more attention to your character.

After all, everyone has a love for beauty, which means that you are a face-controlled person, since you are happier to be friends with good-looking people, then you follow your heart.

I think in our lives, we shouldn't use appearance as the standard to judge a person, and the one who can really be a friend is the kind of person who knows how to be good to friends and doesn't want to take advantage of them, so they are really suitable to be friends.

No, everyone likes beautiful things, including people, and it's normal to like good-looking people, but you have to put your mind right.

No, because people's first impressions start with their appearance, and they always have a special affection for good-looking people.

This is definitely not going to be.,But often learning these people's dressing and temperament will definitely add points to yourself.。。

Good-looking people are pleasing to the eye, whether it is a man or a woman who likes beautiful things the same, make friends with people, if my girlfriend is a beauty, I will feel very happy, occasionally a little jealousy will be, women's nature, but it will not hinder each other's friendship, girlfriends, is a friend who can make you comfortable and have peace of mind, girlfriends, this word is very warm, very cherished.

I used to be good-looking, but after giving birth, I was unkempt and didn't have time. I was depressed for a while, but I accepted it. When I went out with my friends to watch them perm their hair, do their nails and wear high heels, I was still very envious.

Mothers with their own children will understand why they can't do all of the above anymore. After all, it's worth exchanging beauty for two sons, and the children have time to dress up when they are older, but they are not young at that time, everything has a price, and they can only accept reality. But I still appreciate the beautiful friends around me from the bottom of my heart, which makes people feel eye-catching when they see it.