A good friend introduced me to a boyfriend, and then the problem arose, I don t understand

The first thing I'm going to make sure is that you like him, right? So let's do it, what age is it now, you can also go directly to confess, find a chance to talk alone, it doesn't matter, do you have to contact you to confess? That's the way it is in today's society, women who like men can also confess, be bold and say your love, don't wait until you want to fight for it, people even have children, it will be miserable.

I've also had the experience of being introduced by a friend. First of all, I don't think you know each other well enough, and the man takes the initiative to contact you, which means that he has a good impression of you! His initiative prevents you from actually interacting because of you.

If you can take the initiative to ask him to meet, or take the initiative to contact him, after a period of contact, you can review whether you are a good fit. Your own feeling is the most accurate!

Confession doesn't have to be a man's patent, if you think it's appropriate, say it yourself. You can also take the initiative to date the other person, why should you be passive all the time? You'll miss out on this opportunity.

According to what you described, he should still want to have more contact with you, but it just so happened that you had something to do with you, and he would probably think that you didn't like him deliberately shirking, so he didn't contact Happiness is earned by yourself, you don't just wait for people to contact you, you can also take the initiative to contact him, just explain it to him, hehe.

Then it was love at first sight, the relationship is slowly cultivated, you have to really like him, send him an expression, see his reaction, back, there is a topic, don't reply, wait, the man is not small-bellied, maybe he is waiting for you to appear now.

There are many reasons: 1. You yourself are not very enthusiastic, and you still push back, people don't know that you really have something to do with him, and you don't like him, so you give up; 2. People just don't like you. You take the initiative to ask him out to hang out and see how he reacts.

If you don't like you, it won't be like this, and also, you should make it clear what is going on, ask if you can change the day, if your business is very important, he will consider another day, after all, playing is a private matter.

Because he doesn't know you yet, he thinks you don't feel anything about him. That's all.

Summary. It is difficult to determine the true intentions of this guy, but it is advisable to be vigilant and judge for yourself. Maybe this guy really wants to help you find true love, but he doesn't know who to introduce him, or maybe he wants to get close to you in this way, or understand your situation to take advantage of you.

The best way to do this is to approach it with caution in this situation. You can temporarily decline or keep your distance, or before you accept the introduction, do some background checks to find out about his personality, interests, lifestyle, etc., to see if it meets your needs. The most important thing is to remember that your own feelings and thoughts are the most important thing, and don't follow the advice of others to make decisions.

I used to ask a guy to introduce his boyfriend, and he said that the people around him were not good, and suddenly he wanted to introduce my boyfriend to me, and he was.

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I met him on a blind date, I once asked him to help me introduce my boyfriend, he is either someone else's ability to rent a problem, or a jobless vagrant, or he can't look down on it, and suddenly those people who don't look down on me want to introduce me, I don't know what he means by missing or saying? Return to the army.

It is difficult to determine the true intentions of this guy, but it is advisable to be vigilant and judge for yourself. Maybe this guy really wants to help you find true love, but he doesn't know who to introduce him, or maybe he wants to get close to you in this way, or understand your situation to take advantage of you. The best way to do this is to be cautious in this situation.

You can either decline or keep your distance for a while, or do a few background checks to find out more about his personality, interests, lifestyle, etc., before you accept the introduction, to see if it meets your needs. The most important thing is to remember that your own feelings and thoughts are the most important thing, and don't follow other people's advice and make decisions in a bad way.

I don't need his introduction, there are a lot of introductions from my friends, I just want to know what he thinks?

Because you don't look down on him, you may be trying to hurt you through others.

No, there are a lot of people introduced by my friends, and I didn't agree.

It's also possible that he wants to treat you like a friend.

This kind of thing is also possible.

It's better to be cautious, whether he has bad intentions or not.

I don't pay attention to the people he introduced, and he suddenly said I'll introduce you to your boyfriend.

You can refuse this in order to avoid the impact and harm caused to you. <>

There are other ways to get to know new people to pursue.

There are too many people introduced by my friends, but I haven't met them yet.

If you have friends around you who you think are more reliable, you can go and meet them.

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Hehe, I hope the following paragraph is helpful to you:

People get along with each other will go through some processes, must first get acquainted, get to know, then develop mutual acquaintance, understand each other, then cherish each other's karma, and then love each other, and finally get married, is it the end? Many people say that marriage is the grave of love, which is misleading. If you get along well, the wine will get older and more fragrant, so this must be managed.

If this guy gets to know you today, he will immediately tell you: I love you so much. What must be this?

It must be a lie, this is not natural, this is wrong. Then, when I meet you today, I will tell you, I will not marry you in this life, and you will not marry, and you must wake up quickly. What is he?

He doesn't know who you are, does he? He doesn't know your whole attitude towards people and things, and then he says he likes you very much, what is this called? Sweet talk; But the power of rhetoric is very great, and you will not be able to bear it without considerable concentration, so you must first establish a correct understanding for them.

For example, if you think this boy is good, you have to observe carefully to see how he gets along with his colleagues and how he gets along with his friends; Or if you are a college classmate with him, you have to see how he gets along with other classmates. If you observe it objectively in this way, you can really understand his attitude towards life and work.

What if, before you first know him, you just watch a movie, climb a mountain, or drink coffee with him alone? He will definitely give him the best, not only will he give his best, but will also show you a super-standard performance; And then the worst ones are buried, so the person you know is not what he usually is. If he and other classmates and friends are very loving and caring for others, he guarantees that if he really wants to cherish and love you, he will definitely give you a lot.

Therefore, knowing each other should also be objective and rational, and you can't just start with two people to do activities, which is very dangerous. Friends, young people nowadays don't know this, so they are in a very dangerous situation. There is a saying that united because of misunderstanding and separated by understanding, right!

Because his understanding is superficial, not really objective. Therefore, it is very important to know each other, to observe more, to be calm.

Hehe, I hope you get to know each other better and see if it's a suitable couple. I wish you happiness.

What's wrong, what do you want to say? How to get along?

This shows that he has a good impression of you.

I suggest you try to find out about him.

If it is not suitable, brake early.

If you feel that the person still meets your qualifications, you can talk about it first and get to know him for more time. As for him sending you a message, it shows that he likes you and has feelings for you. If you're interested, you can reply to him, but if you're not interested, you can explain it directly.

I don't know if I can help you, I wish you a good match!

You can ask your sisters and friends to come out to party together, so that your friends can give you some suggestions objectively from the identity of bystanders!

Men are so cheap,,, I just want to have fun. Maybe it's been a long time and I have feelings. ,, he can say that he is in love with you.

Good start, what's wrong?? What are you worried about?