Am I saved No one can really save me, except myself

Your problem is a tricky problem for everyone, even if you are married, it is difficult for you to help, especially if I am not in a relationship yet. In these ** my opinions, I don't know if I can help you.

You're separated from your husband, aren't you? Do you have the financial strength to support your 2 sons and yourself? It's easy to have children, but it's hard to raise children, let alone let them grow up healthy and happy?

As a mother, your behavior has made your eldest son unable to get a good father's love, the child who can't grow up next to his parents is very pitiful, seeing others have the love of his parents, he doesn't feel good in his heart, such children generally can't grow up well, and will develop a lot of bad habits, as a mother, a great mother, should not be so selfish in order to be with his beloved (besides, he has a wife and children, can't give you too much, and can't give you too much care and care) and don't take into account the child's growth, feelings. You don't want to do that, that's where you can't help. You can't live with one child anymore, if you can save it now, give some comfort to another child, and make your heart a little more peaceful, otherwise you will live your life with more guilt.

Sister, you should think it through. It's time to divide the priorities, the one who should give up or give up, just for the sake of the child, in order to let him grow up better, it is recommended that you find a second support, so that the child can grow up healthily in a fatherly environment, and you can have a comfort in your heart.

If you don't make decisions, it's hard to break your relationship. He is responsible for your mother and son, but he can't devote himself wholeheartedly, he also has his problems, he can't give you answers, which needs to be decided by yourself. You should make a choice between a love like a bottomless pit and a family affection that gives up love for a child, right?

Besides, the reliance you find doesn't necessarily mean that you can't give you love?

The above is purely a personal opinion, the opinion of a person who has not yet started a relationship.

I wish you a speedy way out of this difficult situation!

I think the hardest thing for you to do now is how to face the child The two people are always entangled Is there still love? What else to dwell on without love? Life is very cruel Don't fight with anyone Give him one to share it with Then give it to him Promise others to do it You have to live well in the future Why do you always toss like this?

Aren't you tired? Don't want a peaceful life? You want to end the repeated pain, right?

Since you have the ability to support yourself and your children, then support yourself Be an ordinary mother Do what mothers should do, I believe that everyone has their own happiness Will you be happy if you hold on to this It is better to let go and wait for your happiness to come again What will the child say when he grows up What else will he say about the past Who is right and who is wrong Is it enough to say it in one sentence Do you want children to hate anyone? Will this repeated love and hate extend to the next generation? When can you be entangled in this way, the child still has to be raised, and life is still very long, don't think too much about it now, and I believe that there will be a good way when the time comes, as long as you educate him into a healthy and useful person for society, what else will he say Let it be, the past is irreversible, he will understand, bravely face the future, since other people's wives can face it calmly, why can't we?

If you want a peaceful and normal life, if you really want to end such repeated entanglements, then you have to calm down, think about what you want, think about what you want to live, do you want to be saved, so that the endless cries and endless complicated life will end, live hard, face it strongly, live well without him, live a good life without him, and now you are not happy with this relationship, maybe letting go of this relationship is the beginning of another happiness, at least no longer painful, liberation, --- be calm, the ultimate happiness.

Your story is really complicated and twisty.

It is said that every woman must be stupid at least once in her life.

And then it can mature.

can face their emotions more rationally.

But I think you've been stupid many times.

For the first time, in order to forget him, he got married hastily. It's stupid and irresponsible.

The second time, after marriage, I broke off the connection with him. Even if you are unhappy in your married life, you shouldn't go back to him, especially if you have a child with him! knew that he couldn't get married, but he insisted on giving birth to a child. Is it just because of love?

The third time, give birth to a second child.

I'm not going to be at his mercy. You don't want me to give birth, I give birth, and this is only fair for you, one per person. Make you sorry for me for the rest of your life. ”

Do you find that interesting? Don't you feel tired?

If you really don't want to be at his mercy, why did you have your first child in the first place?

Isn't this cutting off one's own back road?

I don't think you're having trouble with him right now, you're having trouble with yourself!

As you can imagine, when you say that to him, he must be full of disgust for you.

Is it what you want to see your former lovers evolve to where they are now???

Speaking of your second child, I think he's the most pathetic.

He will certainly not be happy in the future.

I might hate you when I know the truth.

Although would like to advise you to have an induction procedure.

I reluctantly let go of this child.

But I guess it's too late, right??

Will you be happy after your first child?

I think it's up to you.

If you can get out of this emotional entanglement.

Don't get obsessed with it anymore.

Cheer up and start a new life.

Find your own happiness again.

Then, your child will be happy in the future.

He should be punished, for his heart, you are a woman, you are a weakling, you must raise a son, one for him, you have to bring your son well, but tell your son that his father is a bad person, let him hate his father for the rest of his life, but the son must be taught well, let him grow up healthy in all aspects except for hating his father! You must pay attention.

Hate ......Love ......Just because of the word "love".

Love is in love and hate.

There is no love, no hate.

The trouble is – having children, though.

Since he was born, he should be responsible for ......

Your situation seems bad......

No one can understand a person's ...... by just a few lines

You are the one who makes the problem.

The problem solver can only be you.

Everything has to be faced by oneself and solved ......

I wish your child a happy ...... in the future

Hey, I really don't know what to say. Decide for yourself. No one else can help you. You can only help yourself pull. But it's amazing to want to love like you. Since they are all married, they can still think about this pair.

I bless you from the bottom of my heart. Happiness, peace, happiness.

Seriously, it's complicated.

The point is that there are children, and the hearts of children are so fragile that they can't withstand the blows.

As a little sister I don't know what to say, but I want you to be happy, and I can't give him a child, what if he hates it, what if he abuses a child?

I think it should be written as a book and published ......

Always on your own.

...I don't know how to say it. You. It's so complicated, these 50 points, I'll give it away.

I can't say anything, I hate extramarital affairs.

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I was in my third year of junior high school last year, and I had an anxiety attack last year, and then I stopped taking the medicine because I thought it was good, and then I had a serious illness, and since then I have been like a different person, I am very sad all day long, and I can say that I don't feel a little hope in life.

After so many days of vacation, I spent every day in despair, and I have gained 140 pounds from overeating, but I don't feel it at all, and I can't see any light.

It is recommended to go to the hospital**.

Don't give up.

"No one can really save me, except myself", these are the words that shocked me the most in Sixuan's message to me this afternoon. I am reminded of Ernest Hemingway's famous quote: "A man can be destroyed, but not defeated." "I am very relieved that I met such a beautiful and strong girl.

Hemingway also said, "Life always leaves us bruised, but in the end, those wounded places will surely become our strongest places." "This is the gift of life to the brave, and I believe that in the near future, Sixuan will be able to receive such a gift and be favored by the goddess of good luck.

This exam is really important, but I only need to take one optional exam and one college entrance exam. But this does not mean that it is easy, and the physics and chemistry that I took the risk of taking in April are really very failures, and there is a gap of nearly 20 points with others, which is quite a blow. The contest that was thought to be promising ended up with no results.

The first and second years of high school came all the way, it was really painful, and the distance between the dream and reality was bloody in front of me.

The laxity in the first and second grades "wasted" a lot of time and energy, and I don't know how much effort I have to work hard to make up for it. From my previous failures, I know that what I lack is the courage and patience to get things done "100 percent". When I'm 90 percent done, I slack, and I don't get anything in return, and that 90 percent is just enough to buy a lesson.

This kind of sobriety has made me miss opportunities again and again, and I have come to this difficult situation. Senior year of high school seems like a short time but it's actually a long one, and it's going to be a choreopathy that requires careful planning. Moreover, I felt more and more deeply that no one could really save me but myself; But again, no one can really stop me, except myself.

Therefore, I will use my courage and perseverance to fulfill the promises I made to myself, no matter what kind of torture and pain awaits me. I believe that if I don't want to face it now, it will be even more difficult for me to face it in the future.

Thank you very much, Mr. Hu, for your words, which made me feel full of strength and encouragement, and at the same time face this exam more calmly. I believe in myself, and you believe in me, and I am indeed not alone.

Thank you for your blessings! I also wish you to be young and beautiful all the time!